sandraoho1907

I need to replace the OEM run flats (read, piece o'crap) tires on a 04 545i BMW. Tire guy recommends Bridgestone Potenza 760 sport or 960A's. Any experience with these tires?

I don't have snow to deal with but frequent, hard rain and hot, hot summers. I drive highway & good paved roads; performance/sport suspension upgrades; generally high speed or stop & go.

Thanks in advance!!

A little background - ex & I share custody but he takes little visitation. We don't agree on quite a few things about the kids. I would like to lift the restriction on where we can live (move to where we have family after oldest graduates). It would be out of state but he would actually see the kids the same amount of time that he does currently.

I know we see things differently - otherwise we might not be divorced. But I also know a BLATANT, hurtful lie when I hear one and today, well, it's been full of BS. I don't know that this will end until both boys graduate, but I wish it would. I don't get how he can lie like this (but he did in our marriage, and cheated, so maybe I just am too unrealistic)!

I'm a good mom. Our kids are loving, smart, healthy, and pretty darn much normal although their relationship with him is rocky (was for a long time before the divorce as well). I somehow keep thinking that he'll give me credit for what I do with them, day in & day out. I somehow keep thinking that being a good parent and raising good kids, without bitching at him all the time, would be enough. I think of all the little things I do (set up a party for his birthday with them, have them cook him Father's Day dinner, bake his favorite cookies or soup when he's sic, etc.) and wonder how he can be so ABSOLUTELY negative about me in this setting. I thought it was all enough. It's not.

What's your custody experience? Mediation experience? How do you deal when the ex just cannot bring himself to face any responsibility for his own actions? How do you just not break down and cry?