Melia

Say we have a 120lb person laying at the bottom of a tank, how many average sized lobsters would it take to crush them?

My girlfriend and I like to try to fall asleep together, but things never seem to work out for us. She always ends up twitching herself awake, and usually waking me up in the process. She doesn't do this when she sleeps by herself in her bed. So we both want to find out why it could be happening and what, if anything she can do to try to keep it from happening.

Thanks for humoring me! :)

My girlfriend and I like to try to fall asleep together, but things never seem to work out for us. She always ends up twitching herself awake, and usually waking me up in the process. She doesn't do this when she sleeps by herself in her bed. So we both want to find out why it could be happening and what, if anything she can do to try to keep it from happening.

Thanks for humoring me! :)

I'm head over heels for a girl, and I told her about it. She's stopped talking to me and everything. She claims that she is still in love with a guy and doesn't have feelings for me; however, everyone else in our sorority says they see the connection between us and that she really really likes me.

One of them thinks she isn't willing to make that leap considering that she's never been with a girl romantically. Does she think it's easier just to be with a guy and to claim she has feelings for him? Secondly, she even kissed me once and it was so passionate, how could she say she doesn't feel anything?

I don't know what to do. What should I say to her? Is there some way to get her to understand that it's ok to feel the way she does and that she shouldn't try to drown it out?

How do you look past your feelings to embrace the friendship aspect you have with someone more? I can't be with my best friend, and I understand that...but it's still awkward because it's still obvious I like her and can't seem to hide it. Is there any advice someone can give me?