(elisa day)

how do i say, in french,

"pull yourself together, you are missing out on someone better"

"open your eyes"

and

"your loss, not mine"?

thanks :)

six months ago my boyfriend and i decided to get back together after a couple years of being just friends. he had just gotten out of a relationship with a girl i'll call "crazy ex". well, after him and i got together, she would call him all the time when she was drunk, send him text messages personally insulting me (i've never even met her before), and she was stalking me on myspace. my boyfriend told me that her LAST ex said she went to his house and threw coffee all over his cars and was stalking and insulting HIS new girlfriend too.

from what i've heard about "crazy ex", she gets around with a lot of guys, she makes things up, and she loves drama. my boyfriend told me that when they were dating she would log onto his myspace and send comments to herself saying "i love you baby" and other things, basically talking to herself like she was him. he also told me that she told him she got pregnant with someone's baby a couple years ago and the father of the baby "stabbed her stomach" and she wasn't pregnant anymore? yet she has no proof, she never went to the hospital, and the details are flimsy. the whole situation just seems unfeasible.

so she seems like a liar.

okay, well, about five weeks ago my boyfriend and i broke up for a week. for some idiotic reason, he had sex with her again. they had sex twice, without protection, but he says he DID NOT ejaculate at all. we're back together now and going good, but "crazy ex" contacted him this morning saying that she's pregnant and it's his baby. she says she hasn't slept with anyone else in three months except him.

this is confusing to me because when they had sex four weeks ago she had a boyfriend... was she not having sex with him?

and also, she's supposedly had numerous flings over the summer since they've been broken up.

my gut instinct tells me that she's lying to get him back... but this is the first time she's contacted him since they slept together and supposedly she's really happy with this new guys she's with... so why would she lie about this?

does it sounds like she's lying about this?

gaaaah, help?

only serious answers please.

i don't need people telling me to dump him or whatever.