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Like would it make him think any less of me if I let him, or make him think any less seriously about a potential long term future with me? Basically I (age 24) have been going out with this guy (age 29) for a little over a month now. We've only been on three dates so far but we text back and forth all the time. I like him a lot, which is saying something as I can be slow to develop real feelings for someone... I'm naturally a bit over cautious after my long term relationship broke down last year. We've been out for dinner a couple of times and seen a movie, gone out for coffee and a night time stroll etc lol. We've kissed on all our dates and he pretty much held and played with my hand all throughout the movie we saw together lol. He's even given me a massage! (with clothes on of course, nothing suss). He's definitely into me and I'm pretty keen on him too. We have great chemistry. I'm just a little hesitant and not sure if I like him enough to take things to the next level yet. We've talked about going away for a weekend sometime and I'm definitely looking forward to that, just not sure if I'll be ready to sleep with him anytime soon. It took me 16 months to feel ready with my ex, as he was my first. I don't plan on waiting that long this time but I also don't plan on sleeping with this guy straightaway either. Also our dating experiences are very different; he's slept with around 20 women which to me is troubling, even though I know he's older than me and has had more dating experience. And I've only slept with one, my ex. Other than all this, he treats me really well... always picks me up, takes me on romantic dates, takes me home etc. Just wondering what you think of this guy? And how soon would be too soon to take things to the next level? Thanks!

He was dropping me home after our date and we started making out and he would also be kissing my neck, and then would suck on my ears and lick inside? I found this weird and gross, no guy's ever done this to me before. Normal or weird?

Like would it make you think any less of her, or make you think any less seriously about a potential long term future with her? Basically I (age 24) have been going out with this guy (age 29) for a little over a month now. We've only been on three dates so far but we text back and forth all the time. I like him a lot, which is saying something as I can be slow to develop real feelings for someone... I'm naturally a bit over cautious after my long term relationship broke down last year. We've been out for dinner a couple of times and seen a movie, gone out for coffee and a night time stroll etc lol. We've kissed on all our dates and he pretty much held and played with my hand all throughout the movie we saw together lol. He's even given me a massage! (with clothes on of course, nothing suss). He's definitely into me and I'm pretty keen on him too. We have great chemistry. I'm just a little hesitant and not sure if I like him enough to take things to the next level yet. We've talked about going away for a weekend sometime and I'm definitely looking forward to that, just not sure if I'll be ready to sleep with him anytime soon. It took me 16 months to feel ready with my ex, as he was my first. I don't plan on waiting that long this time but I also don't plan on sleeping with this guy straightaway either. Also our dating experiences are very different; he's slept with around 20 women which to me is troubling, even though I know he's older than me and has had more dating experience. And I've only slept with one, my ex. Other than all this, he treats me really well... always picks me up, takes me on romantic dates, takes me home etc. Just wondering what you think of this guy? And how soon would be too soon to take things to the next level? Thanks!

So this is a little embarrassing but I have pretty sensitive skin and sometimes get a bit of a red spotty rash on my neck from my guy's stubble rubbing on it when he's kissing my neck... Does anyone know how to get rid of this? Any advice would be greatly appreciated, thanks!

So I've been seeing this guy for a little over a month now and things are going great. We've been on a few dates, text each other constantly and have really good chemistry. Just wondering when would be a good time to take things to the next level? I'm 24yo, he's 29yo and I've only really had one serious long term bf before him and we didn't start sleeping together til 16 months into the relationship! I don't want to wait that long this time but just wondering how soon might be too soon? Or whether it's ok to just have sex with him whenever we both feel ready? We have been talking about going away for the weekend sometime, maybe I could organise it for when I'm ready? Thoughts? Thanks :)

Like would it make you think any less of her, or make you think any less seriously about a potential long term future with her? Basically I (age 24) have been going out with this guy (age 29) for a little over a month now. We've only been on three dates so far but we text back and forth all the time. I'm not sure how much I like him (I can be slow to develop real feelings for someone... I'm naturally a bit over cautious after my long term relationship broke down last year). We've been out for dinner a couple of times and seen a movie, gone out for coffee and a night time stroll etc lol. We've kissed on all our dates and he pretty much held and played with my hand all throughout the movie we saw together lol. He's even given me a massage! (with clothes on of course, nothing suss). He's definitely into me and I'm pretty keen on him too. We have great chemistry. I'm just a little hesitant and not sure if I like him as much as he likes me seeing I still have feelings for my ex who says he doesn't want me back (even though I dumped him). Anyway, this new guy sometimes sexts me and it can be very graphic and raunchy for lack of a better word. He has sent me pics of himself etc... which gets me thinking he's just in it for the sex. I don't plan on getting into any of that for a while as I'm still getting over my ex (the first and only guy I've slept with) and he's slept with around 20 women which to me is troubling, even though I know he's older than me and has had more dating experience. Other than all this, he treats me really well... always picks me up, takes me on romantic dates, takes me home etc. Just wondering what you think of this guy? And how soon would be too soon to take things to the next level? Thanks!

Like would it make you think any less of her, or make you think any less seriously about a potential long term future with her? Basically I (age 24) have been going out with this guy (age 29) for a little over a month now. We've only been on three dates so far but we text back and forth all the time. I'm not sure how much I like him (I can be slow to develop real feelings for someone... I'm naturally a bit over cautious after my long term relationship broke down last year). We've been out for dinner a couple of times and seen a movie, gone out for coffee and a night time stroll etc lol. We've kissed on all our dates and he pretty much held and played with my hand all throughout the movie we saw together lol. He's even given me a massage! (with clothes on of course, nothing suss). He's definitely into me and I'm pretty keen on him too. We have great chemistry. I'm just a little hesitant and not sure if I like him as much as he likes me seeing I still have feelings for my ex who says he doesn't want me back (even though I dumped him). Anyway, this new guy sometimes sexts me and it can be very graphic and raunchy for lack of a better word. He has sent me pics of himself etc... which gets me thinking he's just in it for the sex. I don't plan on getting into any of that for a while as I'm still getting over my ex (the first and only guy I've slept with) and he's slept with around 20 women which to me is troubling, even though I know he's older than me and has had more dating experience. Other than all this, he treats me really well... always picks me up, takes me on romantic dates, takes me home etc. Just wondering what you think of this guy? And how soon would be too soon to take things to the next level? Thanks!

So this is a little embarrassing but I have pretty sensitive skin and sometimes get a bit of a red spotty rash on my neck from my guy's stubble rubbing on it when he's kissing my neck... Does anyone know how to get rid of this? Any advice would be greatly appreciated, thanks!

Re what to wear, how to do my hair, makeup, in general etc. thanx!

FYI On the first date, I wore skinny dark blue jeans, heeled boots, a nice dressy top and black suede coat. On the second date, I wore a different pear of jeans, black flats, black t-shirt, red scarf and that same black suede coat.

Just not sure what to wear on the third date (he's picking me up in an hour and a half lol so need some quick ideas!) it's winter here so need to dress pretty warm. I was thinking to wear that same black coat, black flats and a knee length grey casual dress or maybe a dressier knee length floral dress. And maybe that same red scarf. What do you think? Also I've blow dried my hair straight and gonna have it in a pony tail, the two previous dates I wore it out. Any suggestions re what to wear, hair, makeup etc? Thanks in advance!

On the first date, I wore skinny dark blue jeans, heeled boots, a nice dressy top and black suede coat. On the second date, I wore a different pear of jeans, black flats, black

T shirt, red scarf and that same black suede coat. Just not sure what to wear on the third date (he's picking me up in an hour and a half lol so need some quick ideas!) it's winter here so need to dress pretty warm. I was thinking to wear that same black coat, black flats and a knee length grey casual dress or maybe a dressier knee length floral dress. And maybe that same red scarf. What do you think? Also I've blow dried my hair straight and gonna have it in a pony tail, the two previous dates I wore it out. Any suggestions re what to wear, hair, makeup etc? Thanks in advance!

So basically I've been seeing this guy (age 29) for about a month. We've only been out a couple of times to dinner both times and a movie. We text back and forth all the time and things seem to be going pretty well. He's definitely interested in me but I'm not sure how keen I am on him. He's a nice guy and treats me really well but I'm not sure I'm as attracted to him as he is to me :-/

That might partly be cause I still have feelings for my ex bf of 3.5 years who I broke up with a year ago. I actually regret breaking up with him and want him back but he doesn't want to be in a relationship right now and has pretty much been single since the break up. Does anyone have any advice on all this? Do you think I have a chance with my ex? Or should I give this new guy a chance? Thanks for your help and I'll be sure to return the favour and answer one of your questions :)

Both sexually and in general, e.g. you like it when she is forward and takes the lead with sex?

Just looking for your thoughts on this guy (age 29) I'm going on a third date with tomorrow night. I've only known him for about a month and not sure how much I like him (I can be slow to develop real feelings for someone... I'm naturally a bit over cautious). We've been out for dinner a couple of times and seen a movie. We've kissed on both our dates and he pretty much held and played with my hand all throughout the movie we saw together lol. He's even given me a massage! (with clothes on of course, nothing suss). He's definitely into me, texts me all the time and I him. I'm just a little hesitant, not sure if I like him as much as he likes me.

I was in a long term relationship for about 3.5 years before him, and he was my first bf (age 28) and the first and only guy I've slept with. So I'm thinking maybe it's just going to take a while for me to get used to someone new... only it's been a year since me and my ex broke up. We still hang out all the time and I care about him immensely. I broke up with him over a year ago as I was going through some things at the time, lost my job etc and just made a rash and impulsive decision to end it. Shortly before I broke up with him, he had actually started paying off a wedding ring for me which he knew I loved.Things were messy for a while. My ex and I hooked up a few times after we broke up, like in the month or two after but didn't officially get back together as I said I wasn't sure. We even fooled around a bit a few weeks ago, which I thought was us getting back together again but my ex put a stop to it and said he doesn't want to be in a relationship (I don't know why). Does anyone have any thoughts or advice or any of this? I'm so confused :-/

I'll answer one of your questions in return :) Thanks!

Just looking for your thoughts on this guy (age 29) I'm going on a third date with tomorrow night. I've only known him for about a month and not sure how much I like him (I can be slow to develop real feelings for someone... I'm naturally a bit over cautious after my long term relationship broke down). We've been out for dinner a couple of times and seen a movie. We've kissed on both our dates and he pretty much held and played with my hand all throughout the movie we saw together lol. He's even given me a massage! (with clothes on of course, nothing suss). He's definitely into me, we text back and forth all the time etc. I'm just a little hesitant, not sure if I like him as much as he likes me seeing I still have feelings for my ex who says he doesn't want me back (even though I dumped him). Anyway, this new guy sometimes sexts me and it can be very graphic and raunchy for lack of a better word. He has sent me pics of himself etc... which gets me thinking he's just in it for the sex. I don't plan on getting into any of that for a while as I'm still getting over my ex (the first and only guy I've slept with) and he's slept with around 20 women which to me is troubling, even though I know he's older than me and has had more dating experience. Other than all this, he treats me really well... always picks me up, takes me on romantic dates, takes me home etc. Just wondering what you think of this guy? Thanks!

Both sexually and in general :)

Just looking for your thoughts on this guy (age 29) I'm going on a third date with tomorrow night. I've only known him for about a month and not sure how much I like him (I can be slow to develop real feelings for someone... I'm naturally a bit over cautious). We've been out for dinner a couple of times and seen a movie. We've kissed on both our dates and he pretty much held and played with my hand all throughout the movie we saw together lol. He's even given me a massage! (with clothes on of course, nothing suss). He's definitely into me, texts me all the time and I him. I'm just a little hesitant, not sure if I like him as much as he likes me.

I was in a long term relationship for about 3.5 years before him, and he was my first bf (age 28) and the first and only guy I've slept with. So I'm thinking maybe it's just going to take a while for me to get used to someone new... only it's been a year since me and my ex broke up. We still hang out all the time and I care about him immensely. I broke up with him over a year ago as I was going through some things at the time, lost my job etc and just made a rash and impulsive decision to end it. Shortly before I broke up with him, he had actually started paying off a wedding ring for me which he knew I loved.Things were messy for a while. My ex and I hooked up a few times after we broke up, like in the month or two after but didn't officially get back together as I said I wasn't sure. We even fooled around a bit a few weeks ago, which I thought was us getting back together again but my ex put a stop to it and said he doesn't want to be in a relationship (I don't know why). Does anyone have any thoughts or advice or any of this? I'm so confused :-/

I'll answer one of your questions in return :) Thanks!

Just wondering how long you would be patient with your girl if she wants to take things slow and not rush into sex? I've recently started seeing this guy who is way more sexually experienced than me; he's slept with around 20 women whereas I've only slept with one, my long term ex who I still care for. I want to take things slow with this new guy and don't want to rush into sex. I didn't have sex with my ex bf til 16 months into the relationship anyway cause I didn't want to rush things and wanted him to respect me. I'm not saying we'd have to wait that long this time but we've only been dating a month and I don't want to rush it. So guys, I'm just wondering if you would be cool with that if you were in his shoes? Or would you get impatient if you weren't getting any. We've kissed so far and that's been great and happy to do more with him but not sex in a hurry.

Thanks for answering :) And I'll be sure to return the favour and answer one of yours :)