Danielle

She s spent the last couple years being extremely unsupportive, and in the last two weeks she s told my that I m going to hell three separate times. We disagree on everything but she still sees me as her best friend and I honestly can t stand her most of the time. Occasionally she s tolerable and I still care about her on some level, and that s making it kind of hard to cut her out of my life (even though I know she s toxic) and I really don t want to hurt her, but I just don t want to be her friend anymore because it isn t good for me. I know that probably made zero sense and for that I apologize

My choir teacher sometimes lets us sing for the class and I want to sing one of these two songs, but I really don t know which one to pick.

With Centuries, I already know the song by heart and can sing it fairly well.

With Jet Pack Blues I can sing it very well, according to some friends that have heard my sing it. The downside is that I would need to write down the lyrics as I don t know them all by heart.

So I recently admitted to one of my friends that I liked her, and she said that she liked me too. So we planned a date for today but I'm confused and I'm not sure what to do for the following reasons.

1. The date didn't feel much like a date. It felt exactly how it did before we started "dating"

2.We're both girls and neither of us are out to our parents. There are exactly five people who know about me, three of which I asked out.

3. We hardly see each other at school because we're in different years. We only see each other on the bus and there are at least 2 days a week that I don't ride the bus.

4. It feels kind of forced and awkward when I tell her the types of things that I would tell a different boyfriend/girlfriend

5. I don't know whether I'm going to be living in the same city for more than the next six months, and neither does she.

6. I'm not entirely sure that I actually want to go on another date with her, because I live in the Bible Belt and I'm always scared to hold her hand or anything.

7. The fact that she doesn't want to tell her friends about us, and that I don't either, makes me wary of the entire relationship.

8. I felt more comfortable with her when we were just friends.

9. She says relationship-ish things far easier than I do, and I'm scared to say them back.

10. I still haven't come to terms with my sexual orientation.

But I'm torn because she's great and I would hate to lose her over a middle school crush. Thoughts?

One of my New Year's resolutions is to draw something/someone every day. I enjoy drawing people the most, and characters from fantasy movies are what I've been drawing the most of. This year (the last two days) I've drawn Tauriel from The Hobbit, Thranduil from The Lord of the Rings and Ginny Weasley from Harry Potter.

What should I draw next? I was thinking about attempting Katniss Everdeen or Tris Prior, but I'm not sure. Any other suggestions? Should I do Katniss or Tris first?

I want to go to boarding school, because it seems like a good experience. But I have some questions

1. How much would it cost and what are some ways to reduce that cost?

2. What are some of the pros and cons of going (since I don't know a ton about it)

3. If I do try to do this, how do I bring it up with my parents? (we've talked about it before but I didn't really have much to say about it)

My parents say they have no idea what to do with me. I've been being disobedient for years and my mom said that it was the last straw. They don't want me living in the same house as them and I'm trying to help come up with a solution. What are some of the pros and cons of boarding school?

It's about 2;30 right now and I need to be up at 5:30 at the latest. Is it better to sleep the three hours and then get up or just wait until morning and then catch naps when I can?

I want to sing something for my choir class, but I'm having trouble deciding which one to sing. I'm also debating whether to sing alone or with my friend,

The ones I'm considering for a solo right now:

The Battle of Evermore- Led Zeppelin

Downfall- Matchbox Twenty

Heat of the Moment- Asia

the Wall- Kansas

And for the duet:

Heat of the Moment- Asia

Carry on Wayward Son- Kansas

Demons- Imagine Dragons

Wake Me Up When September Ends- Green Day

The audition was on Thursday and I think I screwed up but we don't get the results until a week from monday. How do I either ignore it or convince myself that I didn't make it?

On Thursday, I auditioned for my honor choir, and everyone in the audition room with me sang horribly off key. We all agreed on this, but they say I sang really well. I didn't want to say anything about my singing, because I thought if they new how insecure I was about the audition, it would make them stress more, and it was their first time around and my second so I didn't say anything. Anyway, I have an entire week out of school where I'm not doing anything, so I need to quit stressing about this before I drive myself insane. Should I

a) try to ignore the whole thing or

b) accept defeat

And how should I go about doing one of those?

Basically I need a day off because of how stressed I am but there's no way my parents would go for that.

A.) what should I fake and how should I fake it

B.) how can I continue faking it all day because my mom stays at home

I ve gotten myself into a bit of a complicated situation.

I have a crush on this really cute guy in the year below me, but I don t know how to talk to him, even though he s in two of my classes and some of my after school stuff. I mean, I talk to him all the time, but I don t know how to actually be close enough to him to feel comfortable asking him out. Plus, I don t know how to ask someone out in the first place. Then remains one final problem. The "boyfriend" that I m not even sure I have anymore. I don t know how to ask him if we re even together anymore because we re 14 and he lives like 3 states away and never replies to my emails. I assume that just means he s lost interest, but I have to admit, I m not all that interested in him anymore either. So basically:

1. How do I deal with the crazy absent boyfriend

2. How do I get more comfortable with talking to my crush

3. How should I go about asking him out if that is what I decide to go for?

On Tuesday I was having a really hard time with running or walking during my soccer practice and it continued to be painful for the next three days until it finally subsided late last night. My parents don't believe that it hurt in the firstplace because I was feeling fine for my best friend's birthday party. While I was there, my leg came out from under me and started to hurt worse than ever. I don't want to tell them that it hurts again because they won't believe me, and they'll accuse me of faking to get out of soccer. I love soccer, and I really want to start playing again. How can I possibly deal with the injury without my parents or a doctor? (I think I've strained a muscle in my upper thigh)

My leg/hip has been giving me trouble since Tuesday, and it started feeling a lot better yesterday. My parents told me that they don't think my leg hurt in the first place because I was able to go to my friend's birthday party today. I'm really scared that it's going to start hurting again at soccer practice on Monday and my parents won't believe that it started again because it stopped just in time for the party. What do I do if my leg is genuinely giving me trouble during soccer and they don't believe me because I went to the party? I'm half tempted to just play through it because they won't do anything about it anyway. But my coach was really concerned about me and I'm pretty sure it was a sports injury. I'm scared my parents won't believe me because of the timing and I'm also scared that I'd end up making it worse if I don't tell them. I figure it kind of a damned if I do damned if I don't situation, but I just don't know which is the lesser of the evils here. Thoughts?

My leg/hip has been giving me trouble since Tuesday, and it started feeling a lot better yesterday. My parents told me that they don't think my leg hurt in the first place because I was able to go to my friend's birthday party today. I'm really scared that it's going to start hurting again at soccer practice on Monday and my parents won't believe that it started again because it stopped just in time for the party. What do I do if my leg is genuinely giving me trouble during soccer and they don't believe me because I went to the party?

I'm half tempted to just play through it because they won't do anything about it anyway. But my coach was really concerned about me and I'm pretty sure it was a sports injury.

I'm scared my parents won't believe me because of the timing and I'm also scared that I'd end up making it worse if I don't tell them. I figure it kind of a damned if I do damned if I don't situation, but I just don't know which is the lesser of the evils here. Thoughts?

1. Can I use a debit card to pay for Netflix?

2. Is it selfish of me to not want to share my subscription with my parents?

3. Would it be fair of them to force me to share the subscription that I pay for myself?

Those are the big holes in my current argument.

In choir class my teacher sometimes lets us sing at the end and I want to sing a Led Zeppelin song but I can't decide between Stairway To Heaven and The Battle Of Evermore. Thoughts?

I'm a soprano if that affects anything.

Basically, I've become a pretty big fan of led zeppelin over the last couple months and I have 4 of the first 5 albums (dont have Led Zeppelin iii), but I really want the song In My Time Of Dying. The only two ways I cam currently get it are buying it on itunes or buying the actual CD.

So my questions are:

1. Is the Physical Graffiti album worth buying for all the songs?

2. If not, is it worth it for In My Time Of Dying alone?

3. If I buy it through itunes, I have $7 balance from itunes cards. Will itunes take that money before taking it from my checking account?

I have enough money to get two of the albums and I already have Led Zeppelin II and Houses of the Holy. Im also going to get Stairway to Heaven if I dont end up getting Led Zeppelin IV

Basically at the end of class my choir teacher lets us come up and sing a song a cappella if we want to, but I want to sing Carry On Wayward Son and my two main concerns are

a) its a guys part and im a girl so I have to switch octaves

b)I dont want to mess it up because there are girls in that class that bully me