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Hi my order commenced about a year and a half ago.. for $400 bi-weekly.. so at first I paid the $400 twice a month and recently I started paying $800 once a month, every month before the 11th (cause that's when the order began.. anyway... now me X is saying that I owe here money cause she's counting "literally" every 14 days (which comes out to 13 months per year) and im counting on a monthly basis (which there are obviously only 12 months in the year) so does anyone here know if I have legal standing or is the ***** correct? thanks

i have a yamaha maxim xj 550 from 1982... my bike fell and wont start.. its says "oil level" red light... does anyone know what oil to buyand how much to put, and where on bike is oil?? thanks

he is the cutest kid ever.. full of life and excitement.. a very good student and does well academically. it's just when he talks, he wants all your attention, he will sometimes put his hand on your face and turn it towards him to make sure you're paying full attention. His teacher says that this is very hard on him since he need to give him extra attention and it bothers the other kids. Note: we are divorced, I left his mother and the home when he was only 2, though i always remained in contact with him been extra loving to him, im sure it had a huge psychological impact on him, since i now only see him once a week or so.

The mother has now recommended that he go to Occupational Therapy... I disagree. I don't see this as a "sensory issue" but rather as an emotion issue which hopefully can be resolved with more love, presence and perhaps you guys can offer some other solution.. thanks

is there a way to use a BB 9700 bold with Sprint service? I have a blackberry 9700 bold unlocked... is there any way to connect it to my SPRINT service??? Thanks

okay... so im at the bar for a new years party with couple of friends, and im having a good time. as im ordering another drink from the bar I look up and I see a familiar face, my ex girlfriend whom ive had a serious fling with for like two years, we ended our realitionship about four years ago.

She smiled and greeted me, and I was excited to see her since I still had good memories with her (alondside the crazy ones) and I instinctivly went over with a big hello, a hug, and a kiss on the cheek, yeah i was a bit tipsy, but polite. She immediately excused herself and said, im gonna order a drink now, and turned to face the bartender.

i was like okay, thinking we"ll get to say "hi, how are you etc" in a few minutes, or after she buys her drink... but it was pretty obvious to me that she was avoiding me. from that point I tried twice to walk sort of dance next to her, but it was pretty clear (i think) it was a heavy duty cold shoulder job.

I wasnt gonna be further rejected so I didnt pursue, but i did have, and still do have confused feeling about this episode. I"m like hey, we dont have to date or anything, but why wouldnt you be polite and friendly, and normal? anyway I outgrew her.. but i feel that this situation ruined somehow the good memories from our past, or should it? hmmm

Can any of you explain what went thru her head? i mean wtf? thanks!

How do I handle the fact that my ex-wife is being a jerk (again)? here goes... she has primary custody of our 3 kids, and I visit twice a week plus every third weekend... this is after I won in court, otherwise she was attempting to be a pain and only allow 'limited and supervised' visits... anyway.. this Sunday my brother is getting married and the kids re coming to the wedding.. our weddings end at about 3am... i was gonna keep te 2 older ones (ages 10 & 8) till the end and take them home with me till next day, and thendrop em off in school. And I was gonna return the little one (age 5)back to mom at about 10pm.

So here;s the problem, now the ***** tells me that i cannot return the little one that night since she will not be home because she made "plans".. and the problem is that all my relitives are not able to babysit for me since they're all at the wedding...

I already suggested to her that if I don't find a babysitter or if she wont be home for hers on that night, I might not take him altogether... she didnt care.. it seems to me she's just being a jerk, and doesnt care if my son falls asleep on a bench in a wedding hall...

so what do i do about this.. female advise would be great.. what arer my choices here.. what is she really doing, girls? whats in the *****'s mind

Does anyone know if Ritalin is a type of drug that needs to be taken "daily" non stop in order for it to "work" OR is it a day by day "solution"?

Furthermore... Can it be dangerous to stop and start, or just take a week off?

Reason im asking:

I"m a recently divorced dad. My ex-wife found a psychiatrist to prescribe my kids with Ritalin (against my wishes). I prefer to try alternative ways to deal with my "mildly wild" otherwise "perfectly healthy" kids. In Coeurt, during visitation negotiations, this issue came up. She wants to force me to drug them even during non-school days. Can anyone point me to a link, or asciencee article, of where itspecificallyy addresses this issue. Thanks

Its driving crazy... I"m a 31 year old dad (though, this point, I just feel like saying guy) and have been separated for almost 20 months. I have been in a struggle since to be able to continue being involved in my kids lives. I have 3 little ones 9, 6 & 3... I love them dearly.

My ex has been playing games. and has been attempting to stop me from seeing them, and talking to them since. and at one point about 4 months she started to completely deny my any visitation.

During those times, I missed them badly and they expressed missing me as well.. I did all I can to endure and sneak time with them, at school and the like, here and there. In a weird way it felt kinda good for me to be able to build up the pain of really missing them and staying strong, and when i felt the time was right, I went to to see them against my ex's wishes. I felt like a mini victory each and every time for myself and the kids.

Finally, I said enough is enough, and I filed a court petition, went thru all the drama and fear of loosing them forever to her outrageous arguments, and mistrust of the judicial system...

Interestingly enough, I won the case (by myself without a lawyer) and the judge agreed than it is in the best interest of the kids to have time with me and debunked all the outrageous arguments of the ex. Temporary visitation was ordered for 2 times a week on various days and alternate weekends for minimal hours...

Problem: I now have this visitation for a week and I feel crazy. I feel not right... I feel less interested and regret for even going to court...I hate forced dates and forced times..I feel that the whole fatherly spontaneity has been lost.. I feel a huge pressure, and eventually my kids will catch up this feeling that I"m not really excited to see them at those particular times.

The whole thing is just a pressure to keep a schedule and plan stuff and engages me with ex's insanity one again... I feel blocked and out of choices for it seems which ever way I go is hard, but this is worse, I'm starting to feel numb....

Obviously there's ton more detail without room to write, but can any dad support me in this confusion?

Thanks

I currently smoke about 2 packs of cigerettes a day. I"m 30 and have neen smoking heavy for about 5 years and overall for about 12 years.. I want to stop smoking, but im going thru a period of anxiety and new jobs and other stresses, and would like know a proven way or suppliment to help me with letting the cig's go

Thanks

Pick one.... & What is it specificly about it, that turns you on?

Do we, humans, need a companion, in order to really feel happiness? Please explain your reasons for your answer.

I can't take it anymore! I"m 30 and I let myslef be treated like a 5 year old.. My values are completly different than theirs. Yet they master the skill of keeping me close and attempting to destroy my soul. They bribe me enough to calm me down then they attack me emotianaly. I feel like they are able to go into the strings of my brain and twist it into a knot. I swear to myself I won't allow it again yet I always find myself back in their game. I find it extremely hard to ignore his phone calls (7 times a day.) Ideas?> Support? ANswers?

As I"m trying to grow as a person with the help of therapy I find myself feeling a lot of fear and confusion when I do go back to spend time with abusive parents etc. I was just over there spending the weekend and I find myself just being so confused (about who's really crazy) and feeling completely out of touch with myself. Woke up this morning really trembling. I guess the 64 thousand dollar question is " Do I feel crazy because of them or are they mean beacuse of me? I kinda know the answer, just can use some sane support (no meds answers please)

How long to does it take in ny till they actually sell the house from the day I recieved a court summons. And what actions can I take to delay it since I would like to sell it first.???

Im the oldest of 7 and all grown up now. Yet struggling to recover from ongoing verbal crazyness from my dad for all those years yet my siblings seem to have been less or non-affected by it even though they all admit that he's a whack job. Obviously the reason i"m asking this is because I am pointed out by the same abuser that I am the "sensitive" one and it's "my" problom which further drives my poor mind insane... now be kind guys... its one of those days where i can't really take negitive comments.. thanks