Jennifer Paxton

My husband and I share an apartment(3 bedroom) with another married couple,and the brother of the other husband. The wife of the other husband is very passive-aggressive,especially towards me!! It started on Friday when she went down to get our mail.That same day I asked her husband if there was any mail for me or my husband.He said nothing for you(meaning neither myself or my husband).Given the fact that she(other husband's wife) stays up into the wee hours of the night along with her 3 children who are visiting for their summer break,while I'm sleeping around 8-10pm.Come Saturday very early in the morning(long before our mail is delivered) I went down to our mailbox with my key( I was very suspicious),and as I opened our mailbox. BEHOLD!!! I saw 1 envelope in the peek hole which was on the right side of the mailbox,which meant she had to have gone back very late at night(before her husband comes home from work between 1am-3am) and put that piece of mail back inside the mailbox.Anyways,I came back up to the apartment and got a butter knife to open the mailbox(this was Saturday very early in the morning.And that's when I saw that the single piece of mail was MINE!! This woman has also done so many petty things that I just let go. Sorry I keep rambling on(part of my ADHD). So,I finally confronted her and her husband about the situation(she's been hiding from my by staying in her tiny bedroom with 3 kid's until I had gone to bed.No joke!!! As soon as I started the confrontation she immediately said "I'm not listening to this sh!t!!(this is before I said anything about what happened), so she left the room(or so I thought).I continued to speak with her husband about the situation,here she came bursting back into the living room yelling loudly that "That's bullsh!t",and claimed and sweared to GOD that she didn't do it. I even wrote on the envelope after I paid the bill the date on it(August 10th),and the confirmation # as I do with every bill I Pay online. She immediately turned the situation towards me stating that "You're so stoned all the time that you forget everything." Unfortunately I made the mistake of telling this woman about my history of prescription addiction long ago. Huge mistake on my part to place my trust in that woman. I was absolutely stunned when her husband(again,I thought was a good friend of mine said these words to me "She wouldn't do something like that." Again...I was in total disbelief that he had taken her side and even defended her!!! I've lived in this apartment for several years with all the other people who live here now with the exception of HER!! And at NO time(before she came here) was there any problems with any of us.That is....until she moved in.To add additional details? The entire time her 3 kid's have been here? She has yet to clean up after them,but in all honestly...she's rarely cleaned this apartment,such as the toilet,taking out the trash(including the bathroom and living room trash) and she's only mopped the floors 3 freaking times.She got p!$$ed at me for not cleaning after HER 3 kid's. My husband and I can't move out right now due to financial reasons,and I have no family I can depend on(my husband is in the middle east visiting his children and other close family members). I'm literally stuck here!! With nowhere to go. Again,I'm sorry I'm still rambling on,so please have patients with me. I so wish I could beat her *** outside of this apartment. She's not me being arrested. So.....is there ANYONE in the YA's community who could possibly offer me some much needed advice? And before anyone suggest that I try to be nice to her? I've tried that so many times,and the peace only last for 3 days max! So,as I end my question/long story. Is there anyone who could offer my ANY useful advice.Trying to live with a passive-aggressive has now become a real nightmare for me. I lost a good friend tonight. I sit here tearing up over him taking her side instead of mine. I have never lied nor have I ever made 1 single problem with anyone who also lives here,that is...until she moved in and almost immediately started problems with myself,my husband,and even her own brother-in law.There are several different occasions that I've not mentioned here. Please...please HELP ME!! Signed desperate. Thanks to those who took their time to read my entire question/story.

And I just received a letter in my mail,the letter was from the clinic where I had my pap smear done,the letter stated that my pap smear came back as abnormal,and I now have to have a coloscopy done.I have read about this test on Google,and it basically said this test is done for 2 reasons.1. reason was to determine if a person has HPV,which I do not have.The 2. reason is for cervical cancer.I wish to know if anyone here has had to have this test done because of an abnormal pap smear?And if so....what was your outcome from this test (coloscopy).I am worried somewhat...I just want some information from anyone else who has also had this test due to an abnormal pap smear?Thanks alot for you time in advance...:).

Why do some people report your answers when they actually asked a very stupid question to begin with?Example.......1 girl asked a question about some boy she liked and she said that she thought he liked her too,but she didn't know for sure.She also said that he just broken up with his girlfriend and he started talking to her.She then asked "so,does this mean he likes me"?...."does he like me"? And I just answered(and I was annoyed with such a childish question) how the he** should we know. And of course someone reported me for that..I mean yeah I said 1 little somewhat word that some people would say is not right..But come on people!!!!!!!!!! How in the crap should I know if this kid likes her or not?Why do I even care....But why would someone report something so minoot?(sorry for the mis-spelling) but there are people who are just down right mean here,and I was just being freaking honest here,how the crap should I know!!!Thanks ahead for the answers to everyone..I really appreciate everyone's time today.....:)

There have been a few times where I just finish answering a question,and when I scroll down to submit my answer it will say "This question has been deleted"Will someone please tell me why does this happen.It just happened again for the 3-4th time now.Was the question really deleted?And if it was,then by whom??????Please try your best to answer these questions for me,thank you all sooo much for your help today.:)

I have signed into YA's 2 times so far today.And 2 times I have been having problems with yahoo answers.It will either say Yahoo answers is having difficulties or this page is unavailable try again later.Is anyone else also having these 2 specif problems today as well as I am too??????????????????? i am just asking about these 2 specif problems in general.....1 problem is......Yahoo Answers is unavailable (having difficulties)at this time please try again later.......2...this page is unavailable try again later..... IS anyone alse having this problem also within the last 10-20 minutes or so?????????????????? Thanks ahead of time for all/any answers given.

It will either say Page can not be displayed or also YA is experiencing difficulties.....So I'm asking ......what's up? is anyone else having this problem? Or is my computer acting up? Please help meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee...Ooh and HI everyone.....And 1 more thing.....this happens throughout the day,but I just keep clicking the back arrow and ect...and it will go back normal..for a little while anyways......?????????????????I'm not good at all with computers..please help me with an answer.....................