Hebba

My fiancé and I have been together for almost five years and he really is my bestfriend, my king, my everything. I would honestly be lost without him. We used to talk every night before bed for at least half an hour and he would hold me all night. I would get a good night kiss on the lips and then he would sweetly kiss my forehead. We would also play around together for an hour and rough house. We don't play at all anymore. We haven't been talking at all and he barely listens to me. Once the tv goes off, he turns his back to me and I have to remind him every night to give me a good night kiss. I would hop on top of him while he was sleeping and he would slowly wake up to us making love. I did it because he told me how much he loved it. I haven't done it in over a month because he started to get mad at me and pushed me off. Now it's just him on top.

I do understand that he is very stressed at work but I need his love. I am a very affectionate person. I start work at his job on October 3rd so that we can spend more time together and hopefully I can take some of his work stress away. I didn't even know he put me up for the job until I got called. Now I get to work twenty less hours a week and come home with a bigger paycheck. I know he is very stressed from his job because they became understaffed and extra busy starting early May. I want him to be affectionate like he used to be. I've tried to talk to him but it hasn't worked. I just don't know what to do.

My fiancé used my car and left his pistol in the glove box. He has a pistol permit and I do not. It was not loaded and when I took the car, I did not know it was in their. I looked in my glove box to get something and I saw it. I was so mad because I do not have a pistol permit. I think that is a felony. I have told him numerous times to not leave it in my car. I told him I will get rid of it if he leaves it in the car again. Am I wrong for being so mad? We live in a small everyone knows everyone town but that doesn't mean they will let me get away with a warning. I can get arrested and get in a lot of trouble.

My boyfriend super thrusts the bed in his sleep. It is annoying and he does not recall it ever. It does not matter if we have sex that night or not. I wouldn't consider it humping either. It's one big thrust every thirty seconds. Drives me insane. He's not even erect when he does it.

I am naturally impatient with everything. People at my job that also used turbo tax did their taxes after me and already got theirs back. Did I do something wrong?

My boyfriend and I are coming up on our 3 year anniversary. I really love him. I am 21 and he is 25. He lives with his mother because she cannot afford for him to move out. Every time I talk about us moving in together or having kids, this tension starts so I drop it. I know he wants to live together and have a family one day. The thing is, I don't know when it would ever be just us. He is a momma's boy and she has a good hold on him. Every time I have any power over something with him, she takes it away. I was under his insurance because it was cheaper because of his age and she took me off. Then I payed his bills with my debit card (he gave me the money) and she changed it into her name. She makes him completely dependent on her. We did live together with his mother before but when I got custody of my sister, I had to move out. I come from a very bad family, and am the only one that graduated and stayed off of drugs except my 15 year old sister who I have legal custody of. I really want to start my own family so I can have a good one and feel the normal love a family should have. He comes from a great family. His mother is a strict Christian, his father was in the army, his sister is a lawyer and his brother is a professor and director of a college. I just need advice on what to do.