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We're in a long distance relationship, and we're both virgins. Lately whenever I ask her permission for things she tells me not to ask and to say whatever I want to do to her. So we've just been talking about kissing, and snuggling two months into dating. I started talking about how I'd kiss all long her neck as I held her tightly, and she said she definitely let me do that. Should I continue on and say I'd start to move the kissing further down? she's obviously submissive, she says her biggest want in life is to be a perfect wife amd mother. Suits me well, I'm a very dominant person and fantasise about rough sex, even though my I know my job as dom is more than that, I'm doing all I can as her dom. So, when it comes time to lose our virginities - should I be rough after I eat her out and kiss her body, etc? Like, not too rough the first time, just some **** slapping really. One last question, as a dom in a LDR, can I tell her to take nude photos for me? Thank you. I'm a good guy, btw. I always ask how she is, help her out best I can, be there for her when she needs to talk and make sure what I do makes her happy.

I am a virgin, dating a girl who I really like and hope I can be with forever. Although, we're taking things slow, so I don't know how far away sexual activity is with this girl. Most likely a year. So I'm wondering if I should **** my femal friend who is willing until it's official with the other girl? I wouldn't want her to have sex either, but I couldn't stop her.... She does say she's never felt better with a man (girl I'm dating) but I need to sex so bad sometimes!

A friend and I are want to talk, preferably over the phone, with a free app/program because she lives over seas. She's in the Us and I'm in Australia. Skype hardly ever works, I'd say 1/10 times it'll actually go threw and I can hear her.

There's this girl who a close friend suggested I talk to on facebook. So I did and we got along. We've been talking on there for a couple months now but she never messages me first. She's always enthusiastic, with lots of "!" and the occasional ";)". So anyway, I asked my friend if I should ask her out and he said "yes, go for it. She'll say yes" so I did, and she did. Wooh! First date ever! She was really enthusiatic when I asked as well. I guess I just don't get why she doesn't talk to me first? She's also really quiet around me if that helps? Thanks guys :)

There's a girl who I get along with quite well. We have the same sense of humour, she laughs at stuff I say (sometimes she's the only one, lol) and I laugh at the stuff she says. Recently we were at a small party with each other. We stayed up until 2am just joking around. I'm a shy-er type guy, so I was touching her too much, but she was touching my hair a lot and leaning against me. She's kind of sought of in a relationship. The guy she's with is controlling (he wont let her talk to other guys, but he cheats on her). She basically told him to get stuffed, but he keeps calling her telling her he loves her. I added her on facebook and I was thinking just straight up saying in a message "Hey, would you want to go out on a date? I really like you, but understand if you don't want to." When we were going to bed last night (we were all sleeping on the floor) she was puting on deoderant and my friend complained about the smell, so I asked what it smells like. So she came and sat next to me and said "like that" so I just said it smells nice, lol. We kept joking around and before her friend went to bed she looked at us and said "Oh, you two...." Just some insight? What do you think?

So there's a girl, who I hadn't spoken to before, but she had smiled at me a few times. A month ago, she added me on Facebook and started talking to me as soon as I accepted. We've talked a little bit since then, but I don't start any conversations because one of my friends is trying to go out with her. We say hello and whatever whenever we see each other now. I was going to ask her if she had any feelings for me, but now that my friend is in the situation, I've backed off completely. Would it be okay if I plain and simple asked her how she felt, the next time she messaged me?

There's a girl that hangs around our group, she always laughs at the crap I say (except when it gets to disgusting guy crap). We don't talk much, but I thought we were on good terms. Walking home today, we looked at each other at about 50ft away and I just looked away. When she got closer, she kind of look at me so I smiled. She then looked straight ahead and just kept walking. Girls are crazy, but wtf? lol

All right, so basically the topic of "are you a boob or butt guy?" came up in my social group recently. Luckily I was needed elsewhere before I was asked. You see, for the longest time, I never really found sexual attraction in a girl's breasts or ass. I found I'm infatuated, however, with their stomachs, vaginas and inner thighs. Mostly the stomach. I always thought it was cool that I could help grow a life within them, and whenever a girl had a little bump on her stomach from the side, it was even more attractive to me. I really dislike fat there, though. I really like having my hand, or head on their stomach (pregnant or not). Dunno why. Also, with the vagina, I am very fascinated - and even though I look forward to regular sex, I find myself far keener for performing oral on my partner and again, I just really enjoy having my head near that part of their body. Especially when they're naked. I'm also into quite skinny girls, if that matters. Oh, and for what it's worth I have LLI (Low Latent Inhibition).

Okay, here's some things I find unsettling about myself:

- I fantasise about whole other lives I could be having in very intricate detail. I think about them and or live in them in my head a couple hours a day

- I demonstrate very antisocial behaviour, not wanting the company of others. Although, I do fantasise about having a loving partner on my life. Someone to take care of, to protect

- I have also fantasised about brutally beating men I dislike in my life. I have also thought about dismembering them and what it would be like to eat them and or fees them to themselves. I don't think I'll ever do this as it seems so immoral and risky.

- I don't react to taunts, and I can't remember the last time I felt fear. I'm usually very calm, but something like stepping on an object that wasn't where it was suppose to be can send me into a rage

- I feel no remorse when I hurt other people. I understand how they feel, but It just doesn't affect me

- I seem to have enjoy the company of women more then men, but when a simple thing like a girl I've known for a week not waving at me happens I sink into a deep depressive state

- I have no sexual desires towards men, and it's not thought about usually with women. Although, when I do, it's usually thoughts of me pleasuring them

- I am very hostile towards men in general

- I am very paranoid about everything. Even writing this I'm paranoid about being arrested or something

- when having conversations with a man, I am very manipulating. I plan out every scenario and route of the conversations paths and pick the various responses in my head so thar I may subtly lead to conversation where I want it

- I seem to unwillingly open up to women though, as if I couldn't hold back information if I tried to

- even if I'm having extremely dark thoughts, I seem to have no problem charming everyone around me. Making them smile and laugh as I drift into fantasy

- I have never killed anyone, and plan no to. No characters left. Thoughts?

I was playing football the other day, when I got up gingerly from a tackle. I was in agonizing pain and could barely walk. Immediately after the tackle I could see the swelling through my sock. It was at this point only on top of my foot, right where the ankle is. I played the rest of the game and collapsed on the ground after. For the rest of that day I couldn't walk, move my foot or lay the wrong way. The pain was of a burning/throbbing sought with a sharp pain thrown in whenever I moved. I took 4 iburpofen which had no effect on the pain. I woke up the next day, the constant pain is gone, but when I move my foot the pain's even worse. My foot it now swollen completely on the top, side and halfway up the outside of my shin. I have almost no movement in my foot and the pain when I touch the outside of my shin where it's swelled is like when you braze the skin completely off an area and the rub Detol into it. I can walk now, all be it slowly and very hobbled. What do you suspect is wrong? Should I go to the doctor? Worst case scenario, how long until I can play football again?

Thanks, guys.

Recently I told a girl I didn't really know that I liked her, just because I felt like I should. We're back at school now, and I haven't told her that I'm over her yet, but I definitely am. Anyways, now when I walk into classes, her female friends around her look at me and give me the weirdest smiles (she said she doesn't like me, so I assume they're making fun of me?) and the dudes look at me kind of like they're investigating me, haha. One dude she's close to gives me super dirty looks. Like he wants to kill me, lol. Also, she no longer talks to me... I must of really freake her out by telling her. Also, the dude that gives me dirty looks has also been calling her some really disgusting names. She forgives him within a day though, which I don't understand. Am I just being super paranoid? Lol, any imput is appreciated.

I barely know this girl, but I had a crush on her. So I told her. We use to talk and laugh, especially on facebook... but ever since I told her I've gotten the cold shoulder and no emotion in our chats any more. She gives me the straightest, weirdest face. Like she wants to kill me or something. Anyway, I deleted her a while back because she wasn't replying to my messages. Then she added me again and asked why I deleted her. I told her and we spoke a little bit. Now she's ignoring me again and our conversations are like I said, cold. I don't like her any more, but haven't told her as my female friends said it could hurt her self esteem? Some dick head she hangs around called her a a disgusting name, so I didn't want to tell her for that reason either. She forgave him in a day, lmao. Anyways, believe it or not. I'm over her well and truly, now I'm thinking about blocking her just because it's so awkward (her fault). Someone said to lie and say I deleted my account, but I'm not going to lie. If she asks I'll tell her the truth. Any impute is appreciated.

This girl and I have been talking for a while now, and we both pretty much know we're falling for each other. Mentally, we're meant to be, but physically... not. I'd really love to spend my life with this girl, but she's bordering obese. I just couldn't have sex with a girl that big, and sex is an important part of a relationship. I don't lie, and if she asks me out... I'm going to tell her why I said no. I realise this is probably going to hurt her, but I study excercise science. Whar if I told her that I loved her, but she's too big and unheatlthy, and I can help her get smaller? I think that would shatter her too, but I really do love her. I just couldn't deal with her dying from a heart attack at 50 like my grandma... and my mother's on the same track. Any advice/criticism on the whole situation is appreciated.

There's a girl, we are both 17, and up until this year we haven't really ever talked to each other. This year, she has come up to me on a couple of occasions to talk about class etc and just yesterday... it started off in English, she was finding a spot to sit, and there wasn't a chair there (right infont of me) so she picked a chair up and started to move it over. It coincidently hit my leg (which seems pretty hard to do seeing as I sit with my legs retracted and crossed) and she said in the prettiest voice, "oh, sorry." I basically just said that's okay. Then we had another class, and she and her friend were trying to get my attention (it wasn't working, lol) then she asked me about my assignment and I said I had finished it all. I can't remember what she said after that, but she had a big smile. Then she and her friends were going to leave class half way through because the teacher left, and she asked me "Are you going aswell" (across the room) to which I replied "what?" lol, then she kind of looked away for a second so her friend asked me again and I said "yeah" so we all left class. I was last to leave, she was second last. As we were walking I kind of broke away from the group, because they were all girls talking about girly stuff, lol. I broke away and started to put my ear phones in when I heard her say my name, I looked up and she and her friends were turned looking up at me... she smiled, I smiled, they all laughed. I can't remember if she did anything after that, because I freaked out (she and her friends are definitely above average when it comes to looks). Anyway, that is pretty much it. I like her, she's gorgeous and a generally nice person. Does maybe feel the same? Or are there other explanations? I'm going to feel it out, no matter what... I was just hoping to to get another perspective as there is only 3 days of school left, and then 8 weeks apart. Thanks in advance.

Okay, so we're both in the 11th grade and 2 weeks ago she came up to me randomly and asked me about class (we'd never spoken before that, except for when I needed to copy some of her work). There was another time she spoke to me but I forgot but she spoke to me yesterday aswell, we were in class and I was signing my name on a piece of paper and she asked me why I wasn't wearing pink today (It was girl day or something? I had no idea, lol) and just today, I was walking to roll call and she was walking the opposite way, we didn't make eye contact (I don't know if she tried, I'm too awkward of a person to see) but I saw she had the biggest smile walking past me which made me more awkward because this girl's probably the most beautiful person I've ever seen. Later on we had another class and she didn't try to talk to me, although we do sit on opposite sides. So yeah, I'm trying to be more open to her because it seems like she's trying to reach out... I'm what they call 'strong silent types' even though I hate saying that, lol. Any inputs are appreciated. Also, I have slight autism, so eye contact is a BIG no no, haha. We have 2 classes together, she's talked to me in both recently. I'm kind of thinking about her alot lately... this text is completely scrambled but I guess that's the way this situation is for me, she's the only girl that has ever tried to speak with me before, the others say I'm too intimidating.

I finally told my mum I wanted a doctors appointment to see why I'm as fat as I am for my activity level. She told me I'm just not done growing yet, and I would bloom late like my dad and brothers. She kept eye contact with me the whole time but she just seemed really confused... I feel like I've let her down or something? Idk. Anyways, I'm pretty sure it's because I have too much estrogen in my body for a male (I'm 17), would there be anything a doctor would prescribe if this is the case? Even though I'm not done growing? I really wanna loose this fat so I have the confidence to tell this girl how I feel. She says I'll probably bloom around 19-20 like the others... what If she finds someone else? I think I love this girl, but I am too ashamed of my body.

I'm 17 and display all the signs of high estrogen levels (I'm a male). I have displayed these symptoms since I was 13, and they're not going away. I workout intensely twice a day, EVERYDAY. Most of it's weight lifting but I have 2 intensive cardio days a week. One each day I have 2 sessions, one consists of basic football patterns and sprints. this first sessions goes for 30 mins without a break. About an hour later, I go for a run. My best time over 2km is 13mins 5 seconds. I din't think this is too bad considering my cardio days are after my leg days and I'm also 6 ft 5 and 230lbs. I think my BF is around 20% and my daily calories are around 3000 (I've tried cutting my calories gradully, after 16 weeks I had cut them down to 1500 slowly and lost about a pound). How do I ask my mom to take me to the doctor for a blood test for hormones? I want estrogen blockers but I don't know how to ask. Saying, "mom, can you take me to the doctor... I'm fatter than I should be" sounds really weird.

Hey, I'm 17 and just did a blood pressure test with the machine my mom's doctor let her bring home. My systolic was around 160 and my diastolic was around 50-60. I work out vigorously (weight training, jogging, sprinting) 2 times a day, everyday. I eat a clean macro and micro nutrient dense diet. I take fish oil capsules and multi-vitamins. I don't suffer from head aches, shortness of breath, lack of concentration or any of the symptoms. The machine's strap thing only just fit around my arm. I do not participate in any illegal drugs, smoking or alcohol. Should I go see the doc?

This is just going to be some things I noticed about myself. I cannot hold eye contact with people, dispite being a very unusual character. I find it hard to feel emotions for any other human being (except this girl I like. Weird). I do weird things with my hands all day and just look at them as they move and stuff, my fixation with them is quite hard to explain. I speak in a way that makes it hard for others to tell if I'm serious or not... like I'll say a joke and they'll be confused to as if it is real or not. I don't get lonely, I don't attach to people at all (not even my family, but again... I feel a sense of attachment to this girl I've liked for a while. It's strange because I've never felt that before). I like to keep a routine going in everyday life and when it is upset I become some what depressed. I don't really have a sense of obediance, If I don't want to do something... it just isn't going to happen (my mom once offered me $400 and to pay for everything I needed just to go to a big school thing. I declined without even considering it). If I'm eating a cooking, I'll try and eat it in a different way every time (this applies in various different ways). I don't have any problems expressing my thought, but I do struggle with emotions. I find it hard to keep a conversation going or to initiate one. I am happen with silence and being alone, I am sloe happy with noise and surrounding people. I find it very easy to shut them out and contemplate what I want to. I get very violent some times over small things. Like If I am killed in a computer game it may lead to me destroying something in my room and some times really injury myself. I tend to make weird facial expressions and stand in unconventional ways (people have commented). I tend to do whatever I want to do, If a teacher says do your work or *insert threat here* I will listen to them but ultimatley go back to whatever I was doing (usually drawing. I found at an early age I have a much more detailed and gritty way of drawing. In kindergarden, everyone else drew their parents, rainbows, dogs... I drew a dragon with 2 jaws fighting some sought of flying mosnters). I like to say certain words, write certain words ("communicate" is one of my favourites). I kind of just speak and don't care if anybody is listening, kind of like talking to myself. I talk in different voices and accents all day long and have weird conversations (mind you, it's all me. There is no evidence of split personalities present). I like to write poems about the girl I like and write stories based around the unfortunate things in my life but with a fictional feel. Whcih leads to my next thingy, I;m a very paranoid person (I write the stories using the base from my experience but alter it in a way that's almost cryptic, as to not let anybody know it's actually about me). Oh and I don't cry or react when even seriously hurt... but I can cry on que. Anything wrong with me?

I have been crushing on this girl for a while and I recently heard she might feel the same. First day back this term of school we had a couple really shy look away type stares in a year meeting type thing we had. I might of ****** up though, I didn't smile at her... I WAS SO NERVOUS! She looked so pretty and she didn't that weird eye thing girls do, haha. Anyway, I think her friends might have told her not to bother with me. She hasn't looked my way since. I'm kind of a emotional brick wall... It's just who I am, I can't help it. Anyways, this girl is beautiful and I don't know her personally because she's really shy... but God dammit, these mixed signals are sending me insane. I just want to know her, hold her... this may be a weird thing but just feel her warmth. lol I'll talk to her the next opportunity that arises but should I just flat out tell her I like her? I just don't know how to do it, I'm sought of a big, scary dude, haha.