Pairs

At first he said it was because I had gained weight then he started saying it was because he wasn't interested in sex anymore. I spent 3 months hurt and confused as to why. Today he finally told me it was because I smell down there. I immidiatly went to the doctor and found out what was causing it and now it's fixed but I'm still upset that he let it go on so long and let me be so hurt and confused. Should I forgive him or what?

We are in an open relationship. We live together, sleep in the same bed, go out on dates and all that. But he always has an excuse for why we can't have sex. I know he's having sex with other girls. I'm not uglier than them so I don't understand why he is like this. It's killing my self esteem and he always just claims he's not horny or in the mood yet I always catch him talking to other girls and getting with them. I don't understand what I'm doing that is making him not want me.

This all started when I moved cross country away from friends and family to be with my suspposed boyfriend. I got a great job here and thought this would all work. Quickly after I moved here I found out everything he said was a lie to get me down here for my money and he was still with his exgirlfriend. Then I found out I was pregnant. So now I am 12 weeks pregnant living with the father of my child. But we are not together. He makes it clear everyday that this baby is a mistake and he doesn't like me at all. He says I'm not worth the money anymore either, I'm too much of a hassle. I have to go to all my doctors appointments alone and when I feel sick I'm alone. I'm also really emotional and he refuses to be any support. I haven't worked much because I've been really sick so I don't have a lot of a savings to leave and my friends and family cut me off completely when I left home. When I asked to come back they told me no. Today he told me how another pregnant He says he'll be there for the baby once the baby is born but never for me.