stargirl

first of all is it a sin to have sexual urge?secondly what if its so frequent and uncontrollable but you don't sin?i've had strong sexual urges twice and it happened while i was making a night call with my guy.according to him every single night we talk on phone he usually get these urges and am beginning to get worried on why he does all the time.do you think he wants to sleep with me?cause we decided on no touching,kissing nor sex.we met at my house on tuesday and he got these feelings you know that you'll feel when you love someone and i myself did too,so let me just say he tried to touch me lightly but i told him to stop it.and that was it,he did not touch me.ok.on friday morning i invited him to my house but he said we are better off on phone,meaning he does'nt want to feel something and offend me.i respect that,but am also confuse,b'cos last night while i was talking on phone with him we both felt this sexual thing and we told eachother and he said he wish he was with me to save me and again he wish i felt the way i feel on tuesday.am confuse.does he really love me or he just want to use me or he is pretending i also understand that sometimes when feelings pressure us we say things we don't mean.pls every one help me am missed up.again please why do we get those stupid feelings is it normal.i know for sure that i love him and i don't want to sleep with him but are we lusting over eachother now?thanks guys in advance.God bless.

my ex wants me back and he still loves me he keep saying that he finds it difficult to stop loving me.the most scary of all is that he keeps saying "what will be will be"right now that sentence is a scary sentence because i don't want him again not in my life time.it took two years for him to win my heart but the relationship lasted for only 7 months,he always make me sin,so i broke up with and 2ndly my family was never in support of us to be including extended family(it was serious).he is 35,36 am 18.he is a family friend,living in my house in another state,he isnt working now and for me he is too slow about getting a job.am in another relationship and i really love this guy and he loves me too he's 21,does some little little work to sustain himself(will go to university next year)and independent.my aunt once said that he is (i.e my ex)is a good person,can be a good husband and is nice but she doesnt see him as the person for me that its not like people dont marry older men that she has even seen some but he is not just the person for me that a better person is out there for me.i mistakenly fell in love with him i didnt know it was even love,he was the one that made me know that i was having affection for him.he was my first love.am really scared of falling for him again the same way i did before cause i never wanted nor intended to.before i fell in love the guy am with now i liked him and started thinking about him every night i didnt want to love i struggled with the feeling i even prayed to God that he should take him away i dont want any more heart breaks. i told my guy about my ex's disturbances and he said its all about my choice,that what do i want.pls help, will "what will be will be"according to my ex come to pass?

ok here is th thing,a guy approached me the first time we met at a naming ceremony and asked for my number but i refused giving it to him,and he did not insist on getting it.then after some days he called my extension number and i was really surprised on how he got so i asked him and he said he looked for it in the directory,what is even more surprising is that he knows my aunt and uncle already and even knows my house!he knows my aunt's car and uncle's car already(he might have done some research about me)we've been communicating since then but he tries to b e careful not to put me in trouble he's talked on phone more than five times.then he requested to see me so i invited him to my house yesterday when no one except my sis and i was in the house.and we talked i really enjoyed the conversation and he enjoyed himself too as he told me.we were both smiling uncontrollably.after he got home he called again to say he enjoyed himself and also said that he is getting addicted to me although he has said that to me before,before we met the second th time in my house.and that night i couldnt sleep i woke up around 2:00 thinking about him and i couldn't get him out of my head and could'nt sleep for 3 hours.it was hard to stop thinking about him and his smile.pls i also want to know if am falling for him.i know am not infatuating cause i know what infatuation feels like but if you think i am pls say so.thankyou.

my friend told me a very touching story that i feel so much for her.These are what she told me.'there is a man that keeps disturbing me to go into relationship with me for a year now.i don't love him but he is a very good friend of mine.he is a pastor but is 34 and i am 17 i am a very caring person ,so,i care a lot about him but don't love him.he is the first person that has ever touched me although i was angry we still solved the issue we went back as best of friends again. this has been continuing and i told him am not comfortable with the acts but yet he'll say he is sorry and promise not to do it again but repeats. am a virgin and i want to remain that way until am married but sine i became 16 and 17 it has been difficult for me.He not only touched but romanced me that the only thing remaining was sex but it did not happen,all glory to God. what pains me most is that i can't tell anyone and i don't love him.i have tried so hard to avoid but all to no avail i don't know what else to do. what keeps me close to him is that he tells me reasonable things that has helped me in my life and he is still helping me out in many things that nobody would. i don't want him to romance me again cause it makes my spirit sad,and gives me regret.i have tried my best so i need your help." so people please this friend of mine needs a quick answer i am confused with what to tell her that is why i brought it to you guys to help out. thanks and God bless.

he is afar from where i stay, nice and good but just wanna know if he trusts me he loves me i love him but need to know where i belong.

there is this man who is 33 and wants me to go into relationship with him, but i don't love him and we are very good friends.i told my mum but she said i shouldn't that she doesn't want someone who is too old and too matured for me.am in love with someone else and we just started dating although we are in different states we trust each other very much, i told the 33 year old man yesterday and he now,is very hurt i don't know what to do. the guy am dating is just 24 and am 17 and he is through with university. he is just the type of person my mum wants for me. please help am totally confuse.:(

whenever i click stationary when sending a mail in yahoo it doesn't appear please what can i do?

whenever i click stationary when sending a mail in yahoo it doesn't appear please what can i do?

whenever i click stationary when sending a mail in yahoo it doesn't appear please what can i do?