Brooke

We have been together over 3 years long distance. he lives in australia, i live in america. about 9 months ago, i basically blew him off. i had a quick change of mind and was distancing myself and even told him that i didn't know if i wanted to be with him. because of this, he went and hooked up with a chick from work. first, when he told me he said they had only texted. i came to see him shortly after and she was still texting him while i was there. a few months later, i asked if they kissed. he said yes, but only once. yesterday (which was many months later) i said to him that i knew he didn't just kiss her once. he told me they kissed twice, but that was seriously it. i don't know how to believe him. he told me i could call her and find out off of her, but i just don't trust him anymore. i understand WHY he did what he did, but why does he continue to lie to me about it?! what should i do????

I live with my dad, but at the moment I am overseas. My friend contacted me telling me how my dad (58) has a newfound girlfriend, Sam (28). My dad is pretty well off financially so you can see the connection here. I have met this woman once, and from that one time meeting her I could tell she was an absolute trash bag. My friend texted me this morning telling me how Sam has moved in with my dad and is driving my car and wearing my clothes! I don't know what to do considering I live in the States and am in Australia at the moment. This chick is on drugs and in my opinion cannot be trusted and the worst thing is my dad is letting her do this! What can I do from here to fix this situation??