Andrea

My boyfriend is in the Army in NY and i live in California. He does not visit often. I always tell him to spend time with his family and ill understand.

but this time

i picked him up from the airport at 1am and dropped him off at his house by noon and we had plans for him to come see me at my town 2 hours away. he was supposed to bring his sister so we could go hiking, beach, and dinner. and so his sister said she would prefer if we could only do the hike and then them leave. and so i told him "you should spend time with your sister just the 2 of you, i don t want to get in the way of your bonding with her" so he agreed but he still came to my town and hung out (they had never been here) but they didn t invite me. :/ they called me to have ice cream. i showed up and it was 15 minutes. i was really upset because he flies out the next day and i wont see him. i am not sure if i am overreacting, or not?

I met this guy on an online dating site and i ve been dating him for almost a month. we get very along and have fun when we are together. We have really great sex and all. We spend a lot of time together, but IDK if he just wants sex or he will eventually make it official?

I have been dating this guy that i met online and he is moving super fast. He made this relationship official before we even met. on the second week i saw him for the first time for less than 30 minutes, two days later he said I love you. We finally spent a whole day together and he started asking me for my ring size. i did not tell him. we took a picture together and he soon made it his profile picture, and his sister said that I look like this girl names melissa. I was confussed and i did not understand. He avoided the conversation, for the longest and all he said was that she was the ex and that i dont look like her. I am still mad and he doesnt want to talk about this anymore. I went on his facebook and looked up all the melissa's and i soon found a girl that looked a little like me. I got scared and his stories dont make any sense. My friend asked him and he said that they dated for 3 years and he hates her guts. should i be worried?

A day after the Melissa talk, he started planning his birthday. He wanted to take me to a trip for the weekend to San Diego (284 miles away). It would not only be his birthday but also our 1 month anniversary. My roommate is not letting me go, because its too soon and he got mad. we have only been talking for less than a month? why is he moving so fast?