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My bf is good to me, but he leaves for college 2nd semester. Itll end- I was never really crazy about him, he's just attractive and nice. So here's the catch with the celebrity crush. I'm an aspiring musician and I met him in Nashville and we had an amazing time together, and wrote amazing songs. We've been in touch nonstop. He's flying to come record on my first album with me... So it's a lot more than a celebrity crush. This doesn't happen except in the movies, I know. He's perfect. But I do feel for my bf and all of this seems too dreamy and too good to be true and like most beautiful broken bad songwriter boys, he is very unstable and I can't tell yet. We're only teenagers with big dreams, but he's the most talented person I've ever met&music is who I am... I'm complicated, my bf simple, I'm passionate, and emotionally driven-bf is logical and sweet.. But just kind of there. No passion. My celeb crush is exactly like me, which is beautiful or dangerous depending on our mood...help

So we've been together a year. I'm a sophomore in high school, he's a freshman in college. We had the best relationship ever. He is really hot, I mean like really. We both started the relationship for the wrong reasons. He was playing me because I was young, pretty, innocent, thoughtful, one of those straight A flawless school girls. And I thought he was the hottest guy I've ever seen, motorcycle riding electric guitar playing bad boy. Well, it was fun and casual and we fell really in love. Really. I found out 4 months in that he slept with his ex-fiancé the weeks after he asked me out, and I tried to dump him. Tried. He fought for me and cried (which no ones seen him do since his grandmas death when he was 12) and was so perfect and we'd been in love by then, and I ended up forgiving him. WORTH IT. He's been faithful. And amazing. I was in the hospital for a long time and he never left my side, he slept in the hospital bed with me, but I didn't know who or where I was until the last day, when I woke up. No joke it was like that old guy and his wife in the notebook. And we were inseparable after that. We've each met the whole family and them & community accepted we were gonna date til old enough to Marry & then do so. Was the plan. Well, he dumped me. He said he was too scared to lose me and life isn't a fairy tale. I'm his best friend in the whole world and he loves me more than I can see, he cares so much and I don't see what he has to lose. He wants to be best friends, really. He wants everything we've done together and plan on doing together to stay the same, minus saying i love you, holding hands, kissing, and the romantic stuff. (I know for a fact there isnt another girl and he isnt gay) I was really hurt and I and I cried and cried and he held me and acted confused but my dad called & I had to go home. Next morning he was begging for me back, then, nevermind. I'm so confused. I can't just un-love him. It's not that easy. What do I do? I want 2 b in his life..

Yeah, I'm the new girlfriend. "New." It's been like a year. But compared to his EX... Whatever. They dated a year and were engaged for a year and he called it off. He was barely seventeen, and she's like nineteen or twenty and that was crazy. She is still convinced she will marry him. And she was on his phone plan... And still is. Every month she comes into his house and chats up his mom. Like they are old pals. The reason he called it off is because his mother talked some sense into him. It was a horrible relationship and his ex is awful and his mom despises her. I'm the only girlfriend she's ever liked. We have great relationships with eachother's families. (he still lives with his parents & me too, he's now eighteen I'm seventeen) his ex fiancé comes "to pay the phone bill" and I know she does but it always seems like... More. I know for a fact, the week after he asked me out, he slept with her again but he fessed up and cried and he worked for months to keep me, and we have a great relationship now and trust is rebuilt for the most part... But last night, me and him were on the couch in his house and she came by to pay the phone bill- and his wonderful mom made it so she didn't make it out of the front room, and I just had to hear her nails-on-a- chalkboard voice. MY boyfriend... Her ex-fiancé... Was completely drugged because he had his wisdom teeth removed, and his mom and I were taking turns taking care of him. But I am leaving for Christmas and we won't see eachother for weeks. I'm really scared his ex will take advantage of this and... You know... I'm scared. And I hate that she's on the phone bill but it costs a lot to switch before the contract is up. How do I handle this? I want to talk to him about it but I have to go over and take care of him again today, he is still drugged and his face is puffy and he is in a lot of pain. I leave Thursday and I won't be on this continent. What do I do? It's killing me.

I SOOO want to get him a great gift because i went through my dad's phone and saw their conversation- my boyfriend is getting me my dream guitar for Christmas. like, thats crazy! i want to get something super awesome for him too. we have been together a long time and i dont want something cheap, cliche, you know? he's a biker (motorcycles) a bodybuilder and he models. and i really want to make this gift great. ideas?

... If I didn't do anything for our anniversary? Why is it such a big deal to women?

Hi everyone! Thanks for clicking this question. So my boyfriend and I will have dated six months, tomorrow. And he is wonderful and we are crazy in love. He is usually really thoughtful and romantic and knows me so well... He's the kind of guy who always opens the door for me, drives me everywhere (which I really appreciate because gas prices?? Yeah.) brings me flowers, writes poetry... He's my dream guy and always says and does the sweetest things. And he's told me he can't do things before only to surprise me by doing things twice as sweet. We always celebrate another month together, and I know he knows it's our 6 months tomorrow. I asked him if he had anything planned (in a manner that suggests just making sure he's free) and he said no. I keep hinting at it... I WANT him to have something planned. I want him to say we are going to go out to eat or something, you know? And I believe he doesn't have anything planned. This is usually a guy thing, right? Responsible for leading and romance and stuff? He always texts me first, asks to see me. Yeah I have high expectations for him but it would be uncharacteristic of him to not plan anything. What should I do? Wait to see if he does anything? If he doesnt, I'm a female. I'm sensitive and kinda high maintenance and he knows that and handles me really well. If he doesn't I'll be upset. Should I plan something for him? Even then I'll be resentful he didn't do the standard guy/lead thing.

We are gonna call him C. Okay so when I met C he had a girlfriend, but was all flirty with me. I didn't really reciprocate I was just nice to him because he seemed cool, and my best friend's boyfriend is his best friend so I had heard of him and he knew who I was and stuff. So anyway the day I met him I had broken up with a total jerk and wanted to make him suffer so I snuck off because C agreed to take me on his motorcycle to my ex's house to drop off his stuff. Well it worked, my ex flipped out and I rode with C on his motorcycle a while longer. We kept talking and FaceTiming and became best friends, but he constantly promised never to date me. I wasn't expecting him to. But he's only dated totally b*tchy girls so I was like an angel to him, and I cared about him for him which was also new. Cuz he's like, a hollister model and bodybuilder and stuff. Anyone's dream guy. So we fell in love and started dating and had the most amazing relationship ever. Hes older than me and was engaged before, to some other mean ugly girl. So we have been dating for six months and we plan on getting married. But I found out he slept with his ex fiancé like, a week into our relationship. He's been doing everything he can to redeem himself and I really love him an he loves me, but he was only honest because I caught him, plus we are both Christian... Like, we do a couples bible study together. And he had a crazy amount of respect for me because I was waiting for the man God had for me to marry. I knew he wasn't a virgin but it's like, why take my virginity when you can sleep with your ex? I am having trouble forgiving and trusting him but I want to be with him. What do I do?

I'm not gonna ask a question question, I'm going to figure the answer for myself based on ur definitions.

define- virgin.

you are going to say someone who hasnt had sex.

define sex.

what do you consider saving yourself for marraige means?

what would piss you off if you found out your spouse did with another before you were married?

how far is too far with a bf/gf?

to christian standards?

...fml....

For real... if it was really cold and you didn't have a proper horse blanket or what ever its called, could I cover my horse with a sleeping bag, if it were unzipped and stuff? or does it even need a blanket???

Okay, so it's more of a club-bar---thing I guess, but... err... its a long story. Cut it short, I went out with him for three years and we lived together and slept together and everything... so I broke every rule except we never had sex. I only let him sleep with me because he promised just sleep. But he always tried to get me to have sex with him but I never did, which was really hard. One night he pushed it really far and wouldnt stop even when i hit him so i broke up with him and he moved out.

Now, since he is a wimp and doesnt know how to deal with his pain, he's passed out from drinking and in a lot of trouble at a club-bar-thing-place. I only know because his best friend called me, and I'm not sure how he knew, but... oh my gosh, should i go get him out of there or let him deal with it himself? He can handle his own fights, but not when he's passed out...

If anyone knows it is safe and legit, tell me... cuz someone sent me a song and its a bunch of words and symbols and no sound and i hear panopreter can change it to mp3

ok, here's the problem; what is the general form of an equation that represents the line that passes through the points (-9,-8) and (6,8)... can you give an answer? you dont have to explain but it would be a great bonus if you did. if you answer this, you are a life saver!

ok, two problems that phase me.

one- solve the system: 3x=4y+7

3y=4x

two- (x/4)+(y/2)=(-7/2)

(3x/5)-(y/3)=(-11/15)

(in this one i got the first equation in the system to x+2y=-14, but stuck after that. if you can answer one or both, i wil be extremely grateful. and you dont have to explain, but if you can, thats GREAT. thanks a ton!)

i want everyones veiws- adults, teens, and especially Christians. my family is hard core Christian, with faith worth dying for. i cant have a facebook or anything... not allowed to watch degrassi. I begged and got to watch the 2 boiling point episodes that were on last nite, and loved it. but its a little extreme.

im good with seperating true from false, like i can enjoy fiction- i dont get sucked in easy. i can listen to ke$ha and not get my head messed up, cuz i also listen to little known Christian groups like relient K and matt blair. i read bible and harry potter. etc. but is it worth watching with the life lessons that counter it? am i overthinking this? i mean im only 13 but im not just gonna goof off... im kinda serious about God and life

omg help

even if u hate the show or dont watch it/dont know what it is say so

thanks and sorry for the lengthyness

i went to puerto rico and wore nothing but one pieces and tankinis. now i am TAN everywhere but my stomach and back. it looks weird. really bad. so i laid in the sun for hours wearing sunscreen everywhere but my belly. i knew it would burn but i thought it would fade into a tan. will it? or will it peel? i put aloe vera on it...

and how do i get a tan in one day that wont cause future cancer and hurt like crazy? no spray tans or any of that just outside

thanks