Izzy

I've hooked up with this guy 3 times. Once over the summer, once in the beginning of October, and once this past weekend.

The first time we hooked up we just made out and felt me up. The second time we did everything but sex. This past weekend we did everything but sex again.

The first time we hooked up I didnt think anything of it because it was pretty spontaneous and unexpected, except for I was pretty excited because I always thought he was super super cute.

The next time we hooked up I was soo happy and pleased because he did so many cute things, like pick me up so my legs were wrapped around him while we were making out, hold my hand, and kiss my forehead/neck/etc, and kiss me goodbye.

We were texting beforehand so it was anticipated. The week afterwards we were kind of talking...like becoming a thing. We would flirt over text but not the obvious weird ones like with a bunch of winky faces or anything. It's like he would wish me luck before my volleyball games and say get a kill for him or something along those lines. The following weekend (a week after we hooked up the second time) we were texting about hanging out again. The last thing he said was that his friend just picked him up and he wanted to hang out. I replied saying to pick me up and he didn't respond and I was like whatever I guess we aren't hanging out. Then the next day I hear from my friend he hooked up with someone else... I wouldnt of been so upset if we werent sort of talking or texting an hour beforehand...

The next week he ignored me in school where he would usually be all happy and give me a hug or at least acknowledge me. We also stopped texting. I don't know if it's because he felt guilty or if he just didn't want to be involved in me anymore so I just tried forgetting it regardless how sad I was.

So three weeks later, it was homecoming day. He took a girl as a friend who went to our school last year but just recently moved to another state and he was in my pre party group. He's the first person to greet me when I walk in and he says my name with a smile and hugs me...everything seemed normal.

We get to homecoming and we start dancing with our dates. Later in the night I'm walking out of the gym to get a drink and he's walking in and says "Izzy! Where are you going?" and I say "nowhere let's dance!" then I grab his hand and lead him to the dance floor. We start grinding and he's holding my hands and getting really into it... People told me it looked like we were having sex on the dance floor lol. Anyways, without notice he kind of just walks away. (Keep in mind we are both quite intoxicated) I shake it off and start dancing with someone else.

During the after party, he's constantly saying my name. Then he asks if my date and I are together. I shake my head no. Then me, him, and my date go to a storage room to drink. My date leaves and we are together laying on the floor and that's where we start hooking up. He kisses me goodbye again afterwards and here I am confused.

I would LOVE to date him but I feel like that's really unlikely because he enjoys girls too much. Half of my friends encourage me to continue hooking up with him while the other half think I should forget him for dicking me over that one time. I'm really attracted to him and would love to keep it going but I also don't want to be used. I don't know what to do... :/

What can I do to have him want me as much as I want him? Or does he want me? Help :/

I'm 16 years old and about to be a junior in high school. I'm such a boring person around some people.

Whenever I'm with someone that intimidates me, for instance an upperclassman in my school, I get silent. I feel like everything I have to say isn't cool enough or I'll just sound stupid saying it. So, when I'm with them, I'm just silent and it makes me so insecure.

However, when I'm with my close friends I feel comfortable enough to be myself. How can I be myself around everyone at all times?

The other day I was with two seniors who are about to go off to college after summer and my friend. My friend is really interesting and funny and she says the wittiest responses and comments. I wish I could be as cool as her when talking to complete strangers or acquaintances. The two seniors even commented on me being so quiet and shy. How can I change it? It makes me so insecure and unconfident with myself.

I've been told I'm a good kisser a few times and then heard indirectly that I was bad a few more times.

I was recently at a party and I hooked up with this guy and he told his friends I was a bad kisser. I was slightly intoxicated so that could play a role, but how do I improve? What makes a bad kisser?

I'm currently a sophomore in highschool. I'm hoping to play volleyball for all 4 years. I am involved in club volleyball outside of school, I am hoping to do Dream Builders (a community service for 2 weeks in an undeveloped city in which you build homes from scratch), I am in Red Cross club, Asian student Union, and Spanish Honors Society. I hope to join Students Helping Other Students club, Key club, and I am applying for Student Leadership Cadre next year.

Freshman year my schedule looked like this:

Geometry GT - A

Earth and Space Science GT - B

American History Honors - B

English 9 Honors - A

Health/Physical Education - A

Spanish 2 Honors - A

Chorus - A

3.71 GPA unweighted.

My current sophomore schedule looks like this:

Algebra 2 GT - A

Foundations of Technology - A

Independent Research GT - A

Biology GT - A

Am Gov Honors - B

English 10 GT - A or B

Spanish 3 Honors - A

my junior schedule should look like this:

Pre Calc GT

English 11 AP

Chemistry GT

Physics GT

Career Research Development

Spanish 4 Honors

World History Honors

and my senior schedule should be as follows:

English 12 AP

Spanish 5 AP

Bio/Chem AP

Calculus AP

Intern Mentor GT

possibly Psychology AP

I expect to get at very least a 3.7 each year. Will these grades/extra curriculars get me into a good college? I'm shooting for NYU, University of Chicago, Johns Hopkins (depending what major I go into), George Mason, etc.

I'm thinking about trying out for 2 age groups for club volleyball.

I have a late birthday so I'm allowed to tryout in the age group lower than what I'm used to.

So, I was thinking about trying out for 15's and 16's and depending on what team I make, I'll choose the age group I join.

However, the tryouts are back to back. 15's tryouts are 9-12 and 16's are 12-3. Would it be smart to just tryout for both and play for 6 hours straight?

I definitely would choose a better 16s team over a better 15s team. But the problem is, I'm scared that for a 16s team I won't get a lot of playing time, and I really wanna be a libero. What do you think I should do?

I played on an open team last year and rarely got playing time.

The last time I smoked was 2 weeks ago and I did it 3 days in a row.

I've been drinking at least 4 bottles of water a day since & I've been exercising for 2 hours a day..

I'm pet sitting my friends' dog for 5 days later this week, when she asked me if I was up for it she said "..we'll pay you and everything." I'm curious as to how much she's paying as are my parents, but i don't wanna sound greedy or demanding. What should I say?

Im a loud and outgoing person around my friends and people that, I guess aren't as high as me on the social ladder. But when it comes to guys and girls that are higher up then me, I'm no longer myself and become shy and quiet and boring. Especially older people. It's only in person though. I act fine online or through text.

I think the reason is because I think they will judge me but I don't know how to overcome this.

Im a freshman and the guy is a senior. we wanna hook up and he's slept with a lot of girls. im still a virgin and i dont want to lose it to him but i dont know what to tell him if we are hooking up and its just in the moment and not sound like a prude/loser. what should i say if he tries to stick it in? Lol

I have 1 B that is VERY close to an A.

What about a 3.7?

My parents were telling me a 3.89 isn't good enough for ivy league schools. It's my goal to please them but I'm scared my grades aren't efficient enough... Thoughts?

Im in GT science.

1st quarter: C

2nd: B

Midterm: B

3rd: B

4th: A

Finals: A

Unweighted please?

I was drunk calling/texting this guy I've wanted to hook up with for over a year.

We had a thing before and I sent him a picture. We've gone on and off "talking talking" for over a year.

So when I was drunk, I was texting him things about how horny I was and how badly I wanted to hook up with him. He was sober and was telling me how he was hard and how he wanted to hook up with me too.

The next day he texted me first again and we ended up playing the question game and he said he'd go all the way with me. The conversation turned dirty again lmao. He asked me to sneak to his house, but I couldn't cause I had something in the morning.

The next day he texts me first again and this time he's drunk. We're chatting and he tells me I'm sexy and how badly he wants me right now.

The next day he tweeted "I'm an idiot" and I think it's because he was acting like a complete retard with me lmfao.

I realllly wanna hook up with him. I wanted to play hard to get with him so I wasn't gonna text him (good or bad idea?) but my friend talked me into it. I texted him "Garrr" (his nickname) and no response.

I kept myself sane and not freaking out because I assumed he hadn't checked his phone. But then about 15 minutes later he was tweeting from his phone -___-

We haven't talked since and he still hasn't responded. I really wanna hook up with him this weekend. We go to different schools so I can't do much during the week.

What can I do to make him want me?

this guy & i met a couple months back through mutual friends.

he was attracted to me as i was attracted to him, so we began talking for a little while and eventually hooked up. i realllly wanna hook up with him again, but idk if hes up for it.

and i think i made matters worse today..

i texted him something kinky just for laughs cause my friend told me too and then he said something boring so i was like "nvm youre boring" and no response. i thought it'd make him want me more, but obviously not. lol whatever

we go to different schools and rarely get to see eachother. what should i do to make him want me more? for ex.) text him something, skype him doing something.

i think he might know i wanna hook up again cause i think my friend told him..

At homecoming, i twerked and grinded with this guy the whole time and he told me i was great. I didnt feel a ***** at all though...why? Hes definitely not gay.

I'd like it to have something to do with my name, for ex.) Justine, jusbeingmyself.

My name that everyone calls me is Becky, my real name's Rebecca, for nick names people call me Bex or like Beckay.

My twitter right now is @xobecky_ :P

There's this guy who I used to like a lot but gave up on.

A little less than a month ago he texted me first after not talking for like month(s).

He asked me out on a date (movies & mall after), not directly but basically I joked around about hanging out cause he said he was really busy and he's like yeah sure let's go to the movies and mall/your house after.

It never ended up happening. He texted me 4 days before the actual date was supposed to happen. We didn't talk/text til that day. I texted him the day before asking if it was still on, no response. On the day of I simply texted him "Hey.", no response.

A few hours later, he texted back saying, "I cant go to the movies sorry"

We texted back a few times and I asked if he still wanted to hang out and he said yes, but he also told me that he was going on vacation soon and he'd let me know when he could. He never did.

I texted him maybe a week ago "Heyy", no response. Before we made plans, he would always answer my texts...

We're going to different high schools next year and I really wanna go to a local fair with him. Should I just text him asking? The fair starts August 6th.

By the way, I don't think he's the type to be looking for a hook up.

I'm 14 but I look 12.

I wear makeup, and dress my age. Maybe even older.

I'm not stick skinny but I'm not fat at all?

Any help?

I'm going to a Wiz Khalifa concert in a couple of weeks and I'm wondering what I should do?

I'm a girl and been to plenty of concerts but never a rap concert.

It's gonna be an outdoor stage and I have lawn tickets.

What should I expect?

What should I do?

& is it likely to meet cute guys there? ;)

Ex.) whats up?

Wearing a new bra;) its so comfy;)