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My ex and I have been through a lot. He always seems to come back to me. He has a girlfriend and they just started dating and he came back to me already. We've been texting for the past few days now and hung out once. He cheated on his girlfriend with me and I don't know what to do. I would take him back. But I wanna make him work for me. So should I wait for him to text me first today? And how else can I play hard to get?

My ex boyfriend and I have been through a lot together. He's made me cry who knows how many times, cheated on me, & played me. He's also lied. I've never done any of those things to him. Except for lying. I might have told a few little ones, but nothing big. Anyways, point is... every time one of us wants to stop talking to the other, we always end up talking again. He just started dating this girl a few days before Valentines Day and he called me last Friday around midnight asking if I was busy. I said I was sleeping. He said Oh, okay. Bye. I couldn't help, but wonder why he wanted to know if I was busy, so I texted him asking why. He said that he was going to a party and wanted to know if I was there. We ended up texting for about an hour and the next morning he texted me again. He told me that he wanted me at the party last night. He thought we could talk and have fun without going crazy. We continued to text and made plans to hangout. We hung out and we smoked. We ended up having sex too. And he told me to keep this a secret. He admitted that he does miss me and he still cares because we were together for so long. Then he left my house and I hung out with friends for a while. I texted him later that night and we talked about what happend. He said he still wants to be friends. And I told him how I felt bad because he cheated. He doesn't seem to care though. He just seems to care about keeping it a secret. I just need advice on what to do... he hasn't texted me yet this morning. He might still be sleeping cause he was smoking last night when we were texting. Should I text him or wait for him to text me? I was also thinking that maybe I could be his friend for a while. Just his friend. We could hangout and actually be friends even though we still have feelings for each other. And when I find a guy that I like my ex will probably get jealous and realize what he's been missing out on. Ughhh... I don't know. Someone please help!

I don't wanna start from the beginning because then this would take forever, but basically me and this guy started dating last November and we've broken up several times and then got back together. We are currently talking again and we decided that we will eventually get back together. But he is always with his friends or at parties smoking. And I really love him. He's the first guy I actually really fell for. You know what I mean? We've only been talking again for a few weeks. We've hung out 2 times in the whole 2 weeks that we've been talking since he's usually smoking with his friends. He doesn't even come and see me at school. When we were dating he would walk me home and walk me to all of my classes. I think he is addicted to smoking now. I just don't know what to do. His birthday is right after Valentines day, and I already bought his gifts for both occasions. My plan was to continue to talk to him and when Valentines day comes around, give him his gifts and wait for him to ask me back out. If he doesn't I'll say something because I don't want to wait forever. Do you think that's a good idea? And I was also wondering... I just texted him a little bit ago. He hasn't replied yet, but he probably can't right now cause he's at work. He's getting out late. He can text when it's not busy. If he doesn't text me back all night, should I text him in the morning and see if he texts back? Or should I wait for him to text me first? We might be hanging out tomorrow, so I kinda wanna text him and wait for him to reply and then ask if we are gonna hangout. But only if you think I should. If I just wait for him to text me, I think he will. I just don't know when. He always seems to come back to me when I walk away if you know what I mean. Please someone, anyone... just tell me what I should do.

Okay, so I had unprotected sex on July 15th. I was supposed to get my period on the 18th. 6 days later.. which would be today I started bleeding or maybe spotting. I was getting ready to take a shower & blood ran down my leg. So I was like oh.. guess I'm not pregnant. After I got outta the shower though & put clothes on & a pad I went out for a couple hours to do errands with my mom & when I got home I went to the bathroom & noticed that I didn't have much blood on my pad & it was brown. I decided to change my pad & see if I would start bleeding a lot with a new one & so far I haven't bled at all. So could this have been implantation bleeding & could I be pregnant?

okay, so this past school year i was a freshman & i met this sophmore guy & we both liked each other, started dating. we ended up dating for 7 months. we broke up for a month. we broke up bc we got into an arguement & i suggested that we take a break in text. about an hour later i texted my boyfriend back saying i really dont wanna take a break. he said we should. so the last week of school we took a break & then he dumped me. we continued to text for a month after our break up & one day he sent me a text saying he misses me & all this stuff. we ended up hanging out that day & he asked me out. everything went perfect. that was 5 days ago. so weve been dating for 5 days now & last night when we were texting i asked him to promise me that he would never let me go again. he said he will promise when everything is back to the way it was & i asked whats everything? & he said me & you. i said were not back to the way we once were? & he said no not yet. i said how not? & he said i love you & everything, but i havent called you babe or really said it bc i still dont feel like we are together. then i said so theres a chance that you might let me go & he said never thought of it & i said never thought of what? he said letting you go. then i was like then why cant you promise me that you wont let me go again? :( & he said bc things arent how i want them to be. so i asked how do you want them to be? & he said dont know how to say it, but im tired text you tomorrow. night. then i asked him to call me bc i couldnt stop crying & he said he couldnt bc only his speaker phone works since he dropped his phone in water & he was with friends & he said & im tired goodnight. then i texted him saying you dont even wanna say i love you anymore? :( & he never replied. so my question is how do i fix this? i think he feels like we arent together anymore bc we saw each other every day at school & he walked me home & we wouldnt sometimes hangout after school & we broke up right before summer. & we broke up for a month. so its not like we know how to be together during the summer & he works pretty much every day plus when he isnt working hes with his neighbor who happens to be his best friend. & we used to talk on the phone every night, but now we dont bc 1. he can only use speak & 2. hes with his friend. so things arent the same right now & they probably wont be until we get back to school where we will see each other every day & everything. should i explain that to him? & please just give me any advice on how to get him to feel like were back together. i really think it is bc its the summer though bc we cant see each other a lot over the summer. just please help! thanks. :)

Okay, so I am 7 days late for my period. A few weeks ago my boyfriend was fingering me & a little blood came out. I ended up looking up if that was a sign of pregnancy on google & it said it as a sign. I went to my doctors last Thursday & my doctor had me pee in a cup to see if I was pregnant. The results came back negative, but he said if I don't get my period within a few weeks I should come in again. Is there any possible way I could be pregnant?

Which guy would you choose? I'm going out with an 8th grader & I'm a freshman in highschool. I see him maybe once a week, he is cute, nice, funny, & doesn't take advantage of me. Then there is this guy in my art class & he is a sophomore, he is smokin hot, nice, & hilarious. The only problem is he isn't a virgin. Idk if I am ready to do stuff like that. I don't think he would take advantage of me though, bc he said that the girl he lost his virginity to was a mistake. They dated for a year & a half. He said If he ever goes that far with another girl, then he want to be with her forever. Which would you choose? The 8th grader or the sophmore? Please & thank you! (:

Okay, so I am a freshman & I am going out with an 8th grader. But I like this other guy in my art class & he is a sophomore. This sophomore guy knows I like him & he likes me back & he knows I have a boyfriend & I wanna break up with him. The thing is idk how to break up with my boyfriend, I mean he is a sweetheart & i don't wanna hurt him. So how do I let him down easy?

so im going over my boyfriends house tonight. & his parents are gonna go out & me & my boyfriend are gonna watch his 8 year old brother & my boyfriends friend might come over too. im just soooo nervous to meet my boyfriends parents. like what should i say? what shoukd i do? were both 14. & yeah... ive never met my boyfriends parents before... so im veryy nervous. please help! (:

so my boyfriends birthday is coming up & idk what to get him! were both 14, hes turning 15. so what should i get a 15 year old for his birthday? bc i have no idea what he would like! lol

okay... so me & my boyfriend are both 14... weve only been going out for almost 2 weeks & we have gone to the mall & to the movies... & we madeout once for like a min at the movies & then at the mall we kissed goodbye. not like a makeout kinda kiss though, just a kiss. & i was wondering when i should kiss him? like should i kiss him when we greet? like when we say hello & goodbye? & when else is the right time to kiss him at public places like the mall or the movies? i know it might sound stupid, but please help! thanks! (:

okay, so im a freshman & my boyfriend is in 8th grade. & i really dont care about the age difference, but the thing is... a lot of his friends are older than him (including his best friend). his best friend is also a freshman. so me & his best guy friend barely get to see him... & my boyfriend made plans with me today & then called me & asked if it was okay if he could go to his best friends house instead & play football... i said thats fine, but i am a little mad. i mean, i understand they dont see each other a lot either, but still... idk. my question is: would you be mad if your boyfriend or girlfriend did this to you? or would you understand?

okay, so last night i went to the movies with my boyfriend & we had our first kiss(: were only 14, so we hangout at the mall a lot. we've like only hung out at the mall, until last night. & anyways, well were going to the mall tomorrow & i was wondering when i can kiss him? like is it weird to kiss someone at the mall? & are parents know were both dating. so when i meet his mom & dad, what am i suppose to say? i am kind of shy & ive never gotten into a relationship & met someones family & i wanna make a good impression. & i was also wondering how you can keep a relationship lasting for a long time? i mean, ive been in a relationship before like for a few months, but i really like this guy, so how do i make our relationship lively? please & thank you! (:

okay, so i have a boyfriend... he was like my best friend before & now were dating & hes extremely cute & has gotten asked out by girls before, but always turned him down bc he was waiting for the perfect girl... & then the other day, he asked me out! & i said yes bc i kinda liked him... & then thing is... since hes never had a girlfriend before (im his first) hes never kissed a girl... & i want to kiss him next time i see him, but we will prob go to the mall & hangout there (like we always do) & the thing is he always wears a hat... so how do i kiss him with his hat on? or should i take it off? or what should i do? lol & if were at the mall should i makeout with him? or just a first kiss like a peck? or what? & any other advice that you have... btw im 14, hes 13, im a freshman, hes an 8th grader... if that helps. & idc about the age difference, its not a big deal to me... so please help me! thanks(:

alright... so im 14 & he is 16... hes gonna come over my house & were gonna watch leap year... we met through text... he goes to the same high school im going to be going to this year & some of my friends know him, so its not like hes a stranger or anything. we have been texting for about 2 weeks maybe. & were finally gonna have a date... well kind of. the thing is im wicked shy & i informed him about that... & nervous... sometimes i get so nervous i shake. lol so any advice how to keep calm & should i offer something to drink/eat? & what do we talk about? weve pretty much talked about everything in text... so anything else? & im nervous bc he isnt a virgin & i am... & i told him i dont wanna do anything, but you never know... & i dont know how to say no, im not ready for this... so help! please & thank you! (:

okay, well i actually know what im doing... hes coming over my house & were gonna watch a movie... & my questions are: what type of movie should we watch... i mean, its our first date. & ive never really been on a date before... im only 14 & hes 16, & we met through text, but he does to the same high school im going to be going to this year & some of my friends know him... so its not like im meeting a stranger. & what do we talk about? & any other advice bc im shy & i freeze up... so the more advice the better! please & thank you! (:

okay so this coming tuesday we have twin day at our school. and my friends wanted me to be twins with them. they wanna go to the mall tonight. this is the only day that they can go to the mall. but i would rather go to the dance. i need a twin for twin day though, so our school team can get points, and if i dont have a twin then i sorta get in trouble. but i could prob find another twin, but i reeaaalllyy wanted to be twins with them. i would rather go to the dance though! i missed the last dance because of them tooooo! and i wish i went then. so what would you do? ohh and my crush is a girl cuz im bi and im a girl. and were friends but she has a girlfriend and they are going to the dance together tonight. i wanna get my girl back. but how? i dont wanna start drama. but how do i get her back? were also going to washington together. cuz were rooming together and her girlfriend isnt going! so thats also another chance to get her back! but howwwww? pleeassseeeee help!

okay so i wanna get over my ex. i think im pretty much over her but im not exactly positive. the sucky thing is that im a girl and shes a girl and shes my ex. and everyone in school knows im bi. and i dont really wanna be known as bi anymore. but the thing is in order to say im not bi i have to be over my ex. and idk if i really am over my ex. so how do i get over my ex? and how do i know if im over her? were still gonna be friends and everything sooo yeah. oh and also how do i stop lying and just tell the truth? like i lie to my mom. im not aloud to walk and i do with my friends and saywe got a ride somewhere. and im not aloud to have a myspace but i do. and i lie to my best friend and i dont want to. its cuz i dont want her to feel bad, like i really messed up the other day and i tried to cover it up by lying and it didnt work. one day she got sooo mad that she said she didnt wanna be friends anymore and i cried right in front of her. cuz i didnt wanna lose my best friend. so how do i start telling the truth and get everyones trust back?

okay so i insulted my best friend. i didnt mean to at all though. so we were in the car and we were talking about her crush. and i said how he was tiny and then i said well kind of like my size and then i said well actually smaller than me. and my best friend is a little bit bigger than me. and she really took what i said to heart. i didnt mean to insult her. but i deffinately did. i apologized sooo many times. and now shes saying i need to go on weight watchers and im gonna work on my size. i didnt mean it like that. and she says shes not really mad at me anymore but she is. i know she is. so how do i get my best friend back, when i insulted her really badly?

okay so im 13 year old girl and im bi, well i think i am. im not exactly sure because i know i am still young and i probably am just going through a stage or something because i wouldn't really wanna marry a girl. well anyways... i like this girl at my school. we have gone out 3 times this year and she dumped me all 3 times for another girl that doesnt even go to our school. well they went out for 3 months and she dumped me for her because she thought she was in love with her. well i think she still likes her, or she likes someone. but i dont think its me. it could be i guess cuz right when i went on facebook she started talking to me. and weve been talking a lot lately. well the problem is my best friend. every time we do go out my best friend always makes fun of us. i hate it and i think it gets on her nerves (the girl i like). and it gets on mine too, and then it even kinda affects our relationship. and my best friend is mean about it. i dont wanna start any drama though cuz im not that type of person. but anyways, right now were just friends. and i really like her. idk if she still knows i like her because the last time she knew i did like her would be like the end of last month or the begining of this month. i am in love with her. okay, so im 13 years old and i dont wanna be bi all my life. but i am in love with her. i think about her all the time and get butterflies in my stomach whenever im around her. i can tell her secrets and she wont tell anyone. she amazes me. she means the world to me. i miss her a lot. but then again my best friend gets in the way. i dont wanna end my friendship with my best friend and im not gonna. but if we were ever to go out again i wouldnt want my best friend to make fun of us. and i cant keep it a secret cuz thats what we did last time and that almost lost my friendship with her. me and the girl i like have a friend well i consider her my best friend. and she knows i like her and she doesnt care. shes a true best friend about it all. one time this friend slept over my house and we talked to my crush (our friend) on the phone for 5 hours. from like 10 at night to 3 in the morning. it was amazing. we talked about everything and asked each other really weird questions but it was fun.

okay so my point is. how do i figure out if she likes me or not?, if she does like me, should i ask her out?, if she says yes, what do i do when my best friend makes fun of us?, should i get over her? and if so, how do i get over her? and yeah i think those are the only questions i have. pleeeease & thank youu(: