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I dated this guy for about 5 months. About 3 weeks ago we broke up because he said he didn't know what he wanted. Now we're dating again, I guess, and he says that he wants to go back to the way things were when we first started dating. I think commitment scared him. I've started dating around, no sense in waiting around for him to make up his mind and I think it bothers him that I'm seeing other people but he doesn't ever say much about it.

My question is: Do you think he's interested? How should I react to all this. Do I keep dating him? I really do care about him but it's hard to go back to the "just dating" stage. Take things slow? Geesh, what should I do?

I dated this guy for about 5 months. About 3 weeks ago we broke up because he said he didn't know what he wanted. Now we're dating again, I guess, and he says that he wants to go back to the way things were when we first started dating. I think commitment scared him. I've started dating around, no sense in waiting around for him to make up his mind and I think it bothers him that I'm seeing other people but he doesn't ever say much about it.

My question is: Do you think he's interested? How should I react to all this. Do I keep dating him? I really do care about him but it's hard to go back to the "just dating" stage. Take things slow? Geesh, what should I do?

I dated this guy for about 5 months. About 3 weeks ago we broke up because he said he didn't know what he wanted. Now we're dating again, I guess, and he says that he wants to go back to the way things were when we first started dating. I think commitment scared him. I've started dating around, no sense in waiting around for him to make up his mind and I think it bothers him that I'm seeing other people but he doesn't ever say much about it.

My question is: Do you think he's interested? How should I react to all this. Do I keep dating him? I really do care about him but it's hard to go back to the "just dating" stage. Take things slow? Geesh, what should I do?

I have been dating this guy for about 5 months and all of the sudden he says that he doesn't know what he wants. Relationship? No relationship? He calls and says he misses me and still.....he doesn't know what he wants.

What the heck does this mean? What should I do?

If they haven't said "I love you" after 5 months, will they ever fall in love?

My boyfriend and I have been dating over 5 months. He still hasn't told me he loves me. Is that unusual? Lately he's been acting differently and he doesn't come over as much as he used to. We still do things together but not as much. He started hangin' out with his friends more and finding "other" things he needs to get done. Should I worry that he's losing interest?

Original post: I've been dating this guy for about 2 months. Last night we were watching a movie and he wanted to have sex. For the first time I said no, that I just wanted to watch the movie. He got up and said he was going home. I thought he was joking but he actually left. Now I don't know what to think. I called him about a half an hour later and couldn't believe he was really home. I asked why he left and he said that he didn't want to interrupt me during the movie. What gives. I'm so confused.

Update: I spoke with him yesterday morning. I told him how he made me feel and he apologized. Said he didn't mean to make me feel that way. That from my reaction he didn't feel I wanted him here so he left. I accepted his apology but didn't call him for the rest of the day and he didn't call me either. Why apologize than not call later? He's got his laptop and some other things here. Why not at least call to get these things? Men, I just don't get them.

I've been dating this guy for about 2 months. Last night we were watching a movie and he wanted to have sex. For the first time I said no, that I just wanted to watch the movie. He got up and said he was going home. I thought he was joking but he actually left. Now I don't know what to think. I called him about a half an hour later and couldn't believe he was really home. I asked why he left and he said that he didn't want to interrupt me during the movie. What gives. I'm so confused.

I've been dating this guy for about 2 months. Last night we were watching a movie and he wanted to have sex. For the first time I said no, that I just wanted to watch the movie. He got up and said he was going home. I thought he was joking but he actually left. Now I don't know what to think. I called him about a half an hour later and couldn't believe he was really home. I asked why he left and he said that he didn't want to interrupt me during the movie. What gives. I'm so confused.

I've been seeing this guy for a couple of weeks. We get along great. I would have to say I call him about as much as he calls me. We went to lunch yesterday and I fully expected to hear from him last night. I still haven't heard from him and it's freaking me out. Now, I'm scared to call him because I want to figure out if he's really interested in me. It's almost lunch time and it's odd that I haven't heard from him. Is he just playing games or is he really not interested?

I started dating this guy a few weeks ago. We've had really good times together and seem to get along really well. He would call every day and give lots of attention. We spent quite a bit of time together over the weekend. He spent the night Sat. night and we went to lunch Sun. afternoon. Since then he hasn't called which seems really unusual since he was calling all the time. Am I just being paranoin about him not calling or do you think somethings up? I'd call him but I don't want to appear pushy. Please help.