Ashley

I’ve been married almost 13 yrs. My husband and I have two wonderful daughters. We have no family other than the one we have created. We have had our ups and downs, falling in and out of love with each other but 1 thing is for sure we always stand feet firm on the ground to catch the other one if we were to fall. But recently I have been feeling as thou it’s over I can’t seem to find my love for my husband again. And to complicate matters I have been seeing a man behind his back. I can see the hurt in my husbands face. He knows but he’s not sure. I’ve called it off with this other guy but feel as if the other guy was to call me I would continue to see him.

This other guy has a girl. I knew this when I started this whole thing with him. I meet him over a yr ago. I am a Sr. Personnel Coordinator for a staffing service and he applied with my agency and I have been working him for the past yr. About 7 weeks ago I came onto him and he replied with the same feelings for me. We have been seeing each other hot and heavy. He is the 1st thing I think of in the morning and the last thing I think of at night before I go to sleep. He text and calls me all the time there has only been a few times when he couldn’t make it to see me.

I have fallen in love with him and can’t help it. I don’t even know why I am in love with him. I am the one who pays for the rooms (most of the time), gives him money when he has none, buys his food and cigarettes HOWEVER I do make A LOT more money than he does. He tells me he loves me too however he tells me that he loves his girl too. He ask me to be patience and give him time to end things the right way with his girl said he were to just run off and leave her for me he would look like a total ***.

I already know that I shouldn’t be cheating on my husband, and I shouldn’t be seeing a man that has someone. But it’s a little late for that advice considering I am already in over my head with all that. I guess what I want to know is how do I get this guy out of my head, what if he is the one for me? What if I could be happy with him? Or is he even into me at all? I sent him a text message about 2 yours ago telling him how I feel and that it’s over he has not replied and I am not going to send him another message in fact I’m not going to contact him at all the ball is in his court; right?

I met a man about a year ago. I was attracted to him from the beginning but because of our situation I was not really in a position to express my feelings. I am recruiter for a staffing agency and he applied at my agency for work am I was able to place him. Several months have gone by and I found myself flirting with this man and him right back at me. We have been messing around for about three weeks now and just last night we were together, sexually for the first time. I feel like he may have been disappointed. He talked a lot of junk over these last few weeks about how he was going to make me feel and while it was great I am concerned that he did not feel the same way. We engaged for several hours however throughout the time we were making love he often became soft. Then he was hard again. He also talked about how he was going to perform oral sex on me but he didn’t even after I did him. Could he have thought I didn’t feel good? Was he turned off by my body? I feel so embarrassed because he went between soft and hard; did I do something wrong. Was I not what he expected? Please help me? He did text we this morning and said I was awesome but I don’t know I just get this feeling that something changed in him. Why would he talk so much junk about oral and then not do it? I know I am clean and fresh.

My cousin moved in with us about three months ago. My husband ok’ed this really before ever talking with me, although I had no issue with it. Well the only issue I had was that we had been down this road before and it didn’t end very nice and I ended up not having any contact with my cousin for about two years. Anyways, just as I had predicted my husband is getting tired of my cousin being there. I am not saying my husband doesn’t have good reasons such as, we live in a two bedroom house with now 5 people, (me, my husband, our 2 daughters 9 and 8 and my cousin) We buy most of the food and he is not helping with the bills at all. My cousin is on unemployment and earns just a little over 200 bucks a week, so I understand there is not much he can help with (although he is not even looking for a job he is just waiting for his UE to run out), my husband is getting aggravated and in return it is putting stress on our marriage.

In fact just two days ago they got into a confrontation over a cigarette. During this said confrontation my husbands 4000$ computer was jarred and now there is damage that we can not afford to have fixed. This has just made things even worst. I have gotten to were I don’t even want to go home.

Please someone help me! How do I get out of this mess? I love my cousin he is more like my brother, I don’t want to go another two years with out talking to him. He just can not live with us.

I feel like I shouldnt have to deal with this, I told my husband when he first let him move in that this would happen and it would be me stressed out.

I have an 8 week old puppy she is small bread. Her weight is about 1pound. She got into my brothers weed and ate about 3 grams! Will she be ok?

I lied to my boss, peers and co-workers about my marriage status! I use to work here a few years ago. I would come to work and tell everyone in the office my problems. Before long they had formed there opinions about my husband. Well to make the long story short. I am back. I came back to work here after losing my job. At the time I felt desperate and my boss asks me if I was still with my husband I told her NO. Well I thought I wouldn’t be here long enough for anyone to find out but it is going on 9mons. Not only do I feel awful about lying to them I feel awful because my husband is a different man now and he doesn’t deserve this. How do I get out of this mess? If my husband knew about all of this he would be so hurt.

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Why is it i can not seem to get my legs to tan? i have always been fair skined,but this is the 1st yr i am sun tanning , and while my upper body is tanning great i am still struggling with tanning my legs. How can i get my legs to tan?

I currently am a Floor Supervisor, My salary including bonus is around 32k. I have recently been offered the position as an Assistant Vice President of Operations.

How much of a salary increase do I ask for??? Anyone know how to find (basic salaries for this position)

I live in Greensboro NC if that helps.

is it ture some guys like big girls over thin girls???????

I have been employed now by the same company for 2yrs (01/17/2005). I was promoted with in one yr to an entry level manager. The company has now expanded and there are now opportunities for the next level of Management. Lately my managers have been teaching me new things, company soft ware ect….I now have a company e-mail address and the manager’s folder on my desk top. No one has offered me the position I have only been told to learn as much as I can. Now I the big boss the VP has requested a meeting w/ me in the morning to talk about my Goals?????

Do you think I got the Job???????????????

I work with this one women that smiles in my face and talks about me behind my back a few people have told me the same things and i know they are true because they know things only she would know...I thought we were friends...I dont care to be her friend at all anymore...I do not want to say anything to her because I dont want to get anything started I am a manager and she is a hourly employee that knows a little to much about me (outside of work stuff) How do i stop talking to her?

this is the answer abby gave to a question today. Q If there is a God, why are not all humans white?

Abby's answer

"whites are like uncooked dough, they always take sunbaths because they hate their pale color. What makes you think everybody should be or wants to be white? Speak for yourself and not for others"

My question is : are there more racists blacks or white????

two wrongs will never make a rigth!!!!!!!!!!!!!!