Erica R

What have ET's done for you lately? My sister believies they are here to help. All I see them doing is abducting people, making toll calls and eating candy. Am I missing the "big picture" maybe?

My best friend's husband has been paying more than the usual attention to me. As couples, we have done a lot of things together over the years as friends. He is a good friend to my husband as well. As far as I know, there are no marital problems with the two of them. He continues to call me on the phone to chit chat and E-Mail me and has even sent me flowers once. He hasn't suggested anything romantic but it's his persistance that bothers me. My husband and friend know nothing of this as I don't want trouble. I, of course, love my husband and friend and would never do anything to hurt them. Any ideas how I can tell him to back off in a nice way without hurting his feelings? I value him as a friend but that is all. I'm kind of at a loss about what to do in this situation.