Jeep Girl

So now what do I do?

I have read many books (non-fiction) on this as well as seeing discussions on t.v. and I think it would help me with some of my issues.

Can you share with me your experiences or what you know about this?

Thanks.

Seriously, what would you think about a person who scratches their bums (deep) and then smells their fingers and licks them off?

Also, they find stinky under arms sensual.

Heard this term a few times on here, and don't know what it means.

Thanks.

So, now, I can asked some questions that YOU may think are made up.

But, If you lived in my head....it would all make sense. (???)

A bit about me....oh gawd, here we go..........never-mind.

Just the questions.(?)

I am a stay at home mom with two unusable legs (surgery is awaiting) We tend (I) to rough and tumble and fall down.. (but never around our son)...he's at Nana and Papa's for the weekend.

I've already been to AA--and re-hab (#(?) times (alcohol).....don't send me back.....I never read the book (Okay Bill...)

My attitude~~~~~~~~~~yeah.

I have an adoring husband that puts up with my self made mess..

(No do-goody-goody people........ STAY AWAY!!)

So, WTF are my questions?

Do you ever not comb your hair when you wake up? (can you always brush your teeth without gaggin?)

Ever wanted to write a book? That no one would believe...even it was based on your life?

Can't understand why your husband tolerates you, even when your silly?

Smoked "?" natural in front of you 73yr old mother on NewYears?

Answer people back on this site? (I love S>H>I>T>S and GIGGLES'...even name my dog after that!)

Just realized after 3 years, we are paying for some kind of Direct TV that has music channels, that take me way back!

I will be Fourty-two.... next....crap.....this month! Still think'in like a....!

I just want to be an annoying TROLL? But actucally, my few questions are real.

So come on and eff' with me! I love it when I get po'd!

Classic rock rules!

Be it male or female (or both). How did it affect your relationship. I've read similar questions about this here before, but want to know of your experiences. I accept private emails. Thanks.

And I really don't need to hear from all the do-goody-goody's that disapprove of my question.

I think I'm handling this quite well, but was wondering if this is more common then I would imagine?

He said the last time was with a lover, it was 8 months ago, and I'm happier knowing it's not with woman (emotional feelings). He just likes to get it in the bum, and oral, and he like to give oral. He also told me he'd never even been with a woman until 13 years ago. We're in our mid thirties and have been together 3 years. He considers himself bi.

I did get checked out by the doc and have no diseases.

So, what do I do from here? We have a great sex life, but should I help him full fill his desires? I would definately insist on condoms. and would be willing to watch or even join in. Is that wrong?

He did tell me it was a big weight off his chest to be able to tell me this.

We are very much in love, he just has some needs that I can't satisfy.

I have bought household gloves and lube, and stimulate him "there" and he really likes that.

He has promised me, now that I know his secret, he wouldn't do anything with out my knowledge.

Also, I've met (and didn't like at all), one of his previous male lovers....not knowing of the situation then.

He guesses in his whole life, he's been with about 20 men. Only three of them since we've been together, but fairly regularly with one of them (the one I don't like!) for sex only. He's not attracted to men for any other reason than for the sex. He totally loves woman, and would very much like one in our bed! I'm okay with that too.

Please, this is a serious question and I just joined Yahoo Answers today to find honest answers from others.

Thanks.