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Me and my friend have been fooling around for a week now. I told him earlier last week I was being threatened by text messages, and I could see he was concerned. I see us as just friends fooling around right now. I saw him in the library today, and he asked if I got anymore threatening messages and I told him, "No". This obviously made me happy. A friend told me not to look, because he was starting at me from across the room. Is this a sign he might like me more than a friend? Or still just FWB?

This guy I have been chatting with the last couple of days has had both of his okcupid accounts disabled. The first time he told me he was having trouble. The second time however, has had me second guessing. Idk if I'm over reacting or what. I'm always cautious when meeting someone new. I tried researching to know if this is a red flag or not but have had no luck finding anything. Any tips? I'm still new to online dating.

There was this guy that said he "liked" me. I later on found out he just used me for what he wanted/needed. He told me to stop annoying him, after I tried texting him a few times so we could see each other. I finally said, "It was nice getting to know you" in one final text.

Few weeks later my roommate and I were leaving a store, and it turned out as we were leaving he was walking in with others. My roommate saw him staring at me the whole time as we were leaving the store. I didn't notice as I was looking straight ahead. I happened to see him through the corner of my as he was going inside. That is when she told me. It's been a couple of weeks since this happened. But I am still wondering what possibly was going through his mind for him to stare at me if he said to "stop annoying him". Any suggestions?

I slept with someone for the first time ever in my life. I'm in my late twenties and I really like this guy. The problem is I haven't seen him in over a week and a half.

Right now I'm stressing with college and stuff like that, but I can't get him out of my mind. Now I'm pmsing, and usually I masturbate to help with stress, but it doesn't work unless I'm thinking of him now. With all the stress I have right now I'm nauseous and my nipples are sore.

Could he have ruined solo sex for me? Or am I just too stressed to think about sex right now? Or is it something else because of me only thinking of him?

Need help please.

I have been hanging out with this guy from college a couple times. He is an international student, and I'm obviously an American. We have flirted a little bit, and I couldn't really tell if he was interested or not. Then all of a sudden we started making out like crazy. He wanted to seal the deal, and I told him "No"; and explained that we have only met once and hung out twice. We continued making out, and some other stuff, until finally I said I had to go. I felt like the way things were going, we might ended up sleeping together. And I don't him that very well obviously, so I wasn't going to give him something and turn out possibly just being a fling for him. He is majorly attractive, and I also let my self doubts about how I look get to me too. I'm big girl and everything, but I feel I have pretty face. But when it comes to my body I'm not confident at all because of my weight. So that stopped me as well, because I don't know how he feels about big women.

Am I stupid for being self conscious?

I know I made the right decision about not sleeping with him no doubt. But does that mean he just wanted me for sex?

Please help! Don't judge please.

Thanks

A friend of mine's sister passed away last week. I thought about going to the visitation, but decided not to because I didn't know anyone and I thought it would have been innapropriate. Also I didn't feel comftora led. I feel like an awful friend now, because I didn't go, even though she knows I'll always be there for her. Was it bad that I didn't go? Please don't judge.

I am now twenty-seven years old. My biggest problem right now is my mother continues to treat me like a little child. I have had circumstances happen where I have to live and home and things. She does help me out a lot. But putting that aside if I decide to do something she questions my decisions.

I decided to take a road trip with a friend over the weekend, and instead of saying "Have fun" or anything like that she gives me a guilt trip saying, "I can't believe you are doing this. You go on live your life." Or she will say that nobody cares about her or what she thinks.

She doesn't see that I appreciate everything she does. Or that I have grown into a responsible adult. I have to live in a dorm right now for college to continue my degree, because at the time I didn't know the neighborhoods of where my school is. Now that I know the ins and outs of the area, I've told her that I am going to try and find a place permanently to stay in, and find work here. She constantly acts like I don't know what I am talking about. If I do anything in particular socially or if I go see a friend even on a work night she questions and scold me like I am little kid. I have decided I need to move out permanently, because what she is doing to me is not healthy.

So I am needing advice desperately to see what I can do to make her understand that I will be seriously doing this move. And to realize I am a full adult.

I finally confessed to my friend who is dear to me that I have feelings for him. I had been fighting this for over a week. I did not mean to have feelings for him, because he has a girlfriend; but, I knew I could not live a lie or deny my feelings for this person.

I told him this was really hard, and there was no other way to say this, and I hoped it would not jeopardized our friendship that we already had.

After I told him he said, "I'm flattered." He also asked why would I feel that I was putting our friendship in trouble, and I told him, "Because I realize now my feelings are more than for friends."

I also told him that I will understand if he wants to be just friends, and that was it. I know for a fact I was never going to pressure him into choosing me or his girlfriend. Because I know for a fact that would be wrong. He is going to be gone for two weeks, and so I don't know what I am going to expect when I see him again. Did I make a mistake telling him? Was it better that I just kept my feelings to myself? When a guy says "I'm flattered", does that mean he only sees me as a friend and nothing else?

I don't know what to do now, since I have never confessed my feelings to anyone before, and I don't know what it feels like to be in love at all if it is love.

No judgement please. I am just really needing some help with this.

Much appreciated.

I have this friend. He and I have become very clos like no other. Every time one of us thinks if the other, somehow we contact each other right when we are thinking of each other. Je has a girlfriend though and I never thought of him in that way to begin with. They are having problems however and all I can do for him is be there

However the other night I had a dream where I got this note saying, "He loves you but doesn't know it yet." I immediately woke up after having that dream. I never remember my dreams but remember that vividly. I am starting to wonder if I have had feelings for him and never knew it until now. I am also wondering if he had feelings for me and doesn't realize either.

Am I over thinking things! Just really need advice right now. No harsh judgements please.

I decided to buy a vibrator last Saturday, but it was a little big for me and did work so I had to get rid of it. I bleed a lot the first time, and I figured that is to be expected since I've never had sex before. The only thing is worrying me is that I started bleeding bright red blood again at work from running around and helping patients yesterday.

Could the tissue still damaged down there from the vibrator and it ripped/teared again and that is why I am bleeding?

I don't have pain, but I do know my period is coming up soon, so could it be that I might be bleeding a little bit early? Or am I just over thinking things, and just need to let it heal?

For some reason I have never met anyone I am attracted to emotionally or physically much. Sometimes I think girls are a little better looking than men but I don't think I'm gay. I personally don't think it's normal that I am not attracted to anyone yet. But I don't know. I am wanting advice as to know if this is normal or if anyone else has experienced this.

Thanks

I am in my late twenties and I have never fallen in love in my life. I have and the physical attraction, but that is pretty much it. Never had a boyfriend or anything.

I don't know why I have never fallen in love. I always think it would be wonderful to find someone to spend the rest of my life with, but I hate that there has been no one that has ever really made me feel even a remote feeling of being in love. I don't know why. I know I want to love, because I sometimes become jealous when a close friend of mine finds someone, and I am still alone. I have always focused on school and everything, but hasn't scratched the fact that I had always wanted to know what love feel like.

Is this normal for somebody in their late twenties to never fall in love? Or could it be something else?

I have decided to really lose weight so I can look good for when I graduate nursing school next year. I have always been the friend, but never the "girlfriend" when it comes to the dating scene. So now that I decided to really lose weight, I feel like I will be more confident in my looks and what not.

My question is that if the guys I have always been attracted to have decided they are attracted to me in the future if I am slim if they are worth dating? I feel like that would it be worth my time dating them? Because shouldn't they have been attracted to me when I was heavy?

So that is my question.

Is it worth it to consider dating them? Or decide they are not worth my time dating them now that they are attracted to me slimmer?

I made a roast in the crock pot last night. I wanted to try somet this morning since it done cooking. I saw there was a lot of oil from the fat of the roast. But I just ate the meaty part. Later I got nauseous all through class. I ran to the restroom thinking I was going to throw up, but only had a gag reflex and felt much better.

I haven't eaten anything high and fatty in a long time. I am wanting to know if it's because it's too rich for me now? Or I am not used to high fat anymore?

I did bad on my first exam the week before, and I know I did bad this week on my first medical-surgical exam. I thought I was fine material wise, but when I took the exam, there were questions that was never even brought up in class at all.

I am in need of some MAJOR good studying tips for nursing school, because the flashcards is not working for me to lear something in little time. Any tips will be greatly appreciated.

PLEASE!!!! I need help!!!

Okay. I need some advice. There is guy who DROP dead gorgeous I want to impress. I met him today and me and a few friends invited him to a small drinking party we are having tonight. I am a plus size girl, and he is fit and fine. I want the opportunity for him to like me or find me interesting tonight. I am always confident with friends, but when it comes to meeting guys I like I become shy and self conscious because of my weight. I am really needing advice right now.

I bought cilantro last night to make salsa for the next day. I had a huge migraine, and I thought I put everything away last night, and I missed the cilantro.

I just need to know if it is still good?

Just bought some beer a little bit ago. It is my usual, but I noticed that it tastes different then usual. I just noticed that it doesn't taste like it usually does.

Can the same brand of beer have a different taste from time to time depending on how it is bottled? Or how it is made?

Or could it just be me, and I it just doesn't taste good right now to me?