Frank

Hi Well im 58 my wife is 56 we have been married for 40 yrs yes we started young .well my problem is about 4 yrs ago my wife started going thru her midlife change and everything started going down hill.we haven't had sex for three yrs. She aiways says she not in the mood if I ask or try even touching her I hear the same thing. shes been to the doctor and she gave her stuff to use so its not painfull you ladies know why, anyway ive told her theres other ways we can just fool around she wont even do that. Ive try talking to her about my needs also that's in one ear and out the other. Ive even told her if things don't change I will get it someplace else;then im told if I do im out of the house and shes getting a divorce. ive NEVER cheated on my wife but im to the point ofgetting it elsewhere anyway I cant get a divorce I love her to much I couldn't live without her.So anyone no what I should do or any way I can make her understand that I have needs also. Ive even been reading as much as I can on women going thru there midlife change to understand what she is going thru. Any got any ideas on what I can do.Thanks for takeing you time to read this

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how long does it take for a women to wanting to have sex again when going thru the change of life at 53 we have been married 36 yr. we have not had sex for almost 1 YR. HELP