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  • how do you report news to the media?

    I want to report airline related news to the media, who do I contact?

    3 AnswersMedia & Journalism1 decade ago
  • should a step mom be able to see the children over the holidays?

    My story is qquite long and so i wont get into all of it.long story short my fiance is a phenominal father who loves his two little kids.ex wife has been preventing him from seeing his kids out of hatred towards me. We are the h.w. parents, we work with them on sports music, projects. We volunteer our time to help the kids schools and teams, we are the ones that take the children to the doctors and dentists. She does NOTHING with them but party( which is fine if you are the visitation parent).We are stuck every week making up for her lack of interest in the childrens school work and well being.Our fun time with the kids is extremely limited due to her lack of care for her kids. As per our agreement she is entitled to have the children more than us on a given month and she feels that her lying to the teachers, inability to do schoolwork with the kids, lack of good food and adequate rest has made her an awesome mom. In short i believe that since they have joint legal custody both parents should have the rights to see their children. Due to my fiance's occupation he is suppsoed to have the chidren when he returns from work and before he leaves to go to work he gives them to their mother. there have never been any issues with that ( except for the fact that she was always late and did whatever she wanted). We are cuurrently in mediation and now the ex wife has demanded that she have the kids for Christmas eve every year. Up until now we have worked on an alternating basis with rollovers in place just incase my fiance wasn't able to be in town for the holidays due to his line of work. This would be our year to have the kids for thanksgiving, xmas eve, and xmas. We will be married in 100 days and she is well aware of that. We said to her that we have no problem having fixed holidays to prevent all the confusion and unfairness involved with having the kids for all the holidays in a given year. So, we would give her Xmas eve every year ( as she demanded) if she gave us Xmas every year regardless of whether or not my fiance is working. This would eliminate rollovers and gives the children the ability to be with both famalies for the holidays and knwo exactly where they will be for what holiday. Bio mom turned around and said no way would she ever give her kids to me ( the boys LOVE me) if their dad wasn't in town. Meanwhile when she needs to go out drinking, partying, to football games, on vacation, etc she has routinely left the children with me overnight when my fiance wasnt here because she needed my help.At that point I'm an excellent soon to be step mom and she acknowledges that the boys love me. I think that's being petty and unfair. Right now she keeps calling me "the girlfriend" even though she is well aware that our wedding is coming up. Although I do get her need to want to be with the kids if their dad isn't here I could conceivably travel to go see their dad with them on the holidays. ALSO, My fiance and I are plannign to have a baby and the kids are excited, I thought with this plan in place the kids would have the ability to be with their new baby brother or sister for Xmas as well as their mom for xmas eve. This year is our first Xmas as a family and she is trying to say that if my fiance got called out to work the children cannot be with me, my family, my fiances family to celebrate but rather they have to be with her. Does that make sense? Isn't it wrong to put the children through that? Aren't we suppposed to be doign whats in the best inetrest of the kids? She also says that I have no right to pick the chidlren up from her house. The agreement as it stands now doesn't specify who picks up the kids and it definetly doesn't say that I can't. If the chidlren are allowed to go to afterschool care when their mom is working and a bus takes them to afterschool care ( not their mom), then isn't me pickign the kids up for their dad the same thing?Help!

    14 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • Is it a federal offense to place something in someones mailbox without their permission?

    Had someone place something in our mailbox at 7:00pm when we had clearly already checked the mail. we had the flag up with a check going out in the mailbox. This person did not let us know that they were placing something in the mailbox nor did they call us to let us know that they were doing this. Is it a federal offense for them to open our mailbox and place something in it when we were clearly home ( both cars were on the driveway and garage was open)? Why wouldn't they ring the door bell and hand it to us?

    4 AnswersLaw & Ethics1 decade ago
  • Exwife is taking boys out of school to go on a vacation with her family( Grandparents, cousins, etc) ?

    Ex wife is taking the boys out of school for 4 days to go on a family vacation to Orlando( which is an hour away). My fiance has expressed his concern about taking them out of school especially because we are solely responsible for all of their school work and their grades. Also, the court mandated agreement allows her to take the kids on vacation for 2 weeks over the summer, and she used her two weeks during the summer. To make matters even worse, she is now taking the children on our days with the kids and has not confronted my fiance about it. She had sent him an email in August telling him she was taking them out of school but never discussed it with him.. My fiance has asked her over and over again to refrain from doing that and has also expressed that the children are off from school for 2 weeks ( 4 days later) and she has the children for that entire time.She can take them then. She also had the ability to check the kids school calendar in advance to know when the boys are off so she could take them. More than taking them out of school , she is breaking the agreement which doesn't entitle her to that time. Plus, if she takes the boys we wont see the children for 14 days. What would you do?

    15 AnswersFamily1 decade ago
  • Ex wife is driving me and my fiance crazy. ?

    She doesn't do h.w with the kids, feeds them spaghetti o's on a daily basis, and keeps them up late so she can go out to restaurant/bars. Now, her on and off boyfriend is emailing me and is recommending counseling for my fiance and his exwife. he asked that my fiance budget his money accordignly and should set aside $2,000. The on and off boyfeind feels that If my fiance and his exwife get counselign everythign will eb better for all of us. I feel that she should just stick to the agreement and maintain her side of the responsibilities as willw e, and everything will work out fine. Limited inetraction is the best policy becuase she is clearly not normal. Any thoughts?

    5 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • How would you ( as the new soon to be wife) react to this?

    I have been in the children's lives for almost 3 years and have contributed financially, emotionally, educationally, and culturally. Their mom takes them to bars, doesn't do projects or H.w. with them, never reads with the kids, forgets to hand in reading logs, has one boyfriend after another. She never sticks to the court mandated agreement, doesn't pay her end of the medical bills until we threaten court, doesn't pay for anything school related or otherwise to help the children.She calls 2 -3 times a day to pester all of us( we let her speak to the kids) but when we call to speak w/ the kids she won't let them talk to us.What would you do?

    16 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • Ex wife is driving me and my fiance crazy. ?

    She doesn't do h.w with the kids, feeds them spaghetti o's ona daily basis, and keeps them up late so she can go out to restaurant/bars. Now, her on and off boyfriend is emailing me and is recommending counseling for my fiance and his exwife. he asked that my fiance budget his money accordignly and should set aside $2,000. Any thoughts?

    5 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • what do you do if your exwife doesn't stick to the court mandated agreement?

    She is responsible for 15% of the medical bill and has not paid it and does that repeatedly and sees nothing wrong with her actions

    5 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • I once got a love letter that was so awesome. when you first read the letter its a regular letter.?

    When you get to the end it tells you to go back and read the letter again but this time skip lines as you read it. It's a beautiful love letter. I can't find it anywhere and I forgot to keep it. Help me find it!!!

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating1 decade ago
  • ok so heres my story! I interviewed for a job on June 28th. I thought the interview went great....?

    Everyone was super nice, We all got along great. They said that the director was on vacation till Mon July 2so i should give him a few days to get settled in and then they will be in touch but they will def. put in a good word for me. well July 4th happened to fall in the middle of the week so i waited till july 5th to call the lady who interviewed me. I told her that i was just following up and wanted to see how things were going. she told me that they were still interviewing and also the lady who set up my interview was incharge of all the hiring and shes on vacation till monday(July 9th) but as soon as she gets back she'll have her follow up with me. Well its tuesday and im super nervous, and i really want this job. I haven't heard from her and so i called the lady who set up my interview and her vm picked up. it still said she was on vac from the 4th - 6th of july. I left her a vm letting her know that im following up n i hope everything is well. what next? I so want this job

    4 AnswersOther - Careers & Employment1 decade ago
  • ok so heres my story! I interviewed for a job on June 28th. I thought the interview went great....?

    Everyone was super nice, We all got along great. They said that the director was on vacation till Mon July 2so i should give him a few days to get settled in and then they will be in touch but they will def. put in a good word for me. well July 4th happened to fall in the middle of the week so i waited till july 5th to call the lady who interviewed me. I told her that i was just following up and wanted to see how things were going. she told me that they were still interviewing and also the lady who set up my interview was incharge of all the hiring and shes on vacation till monday(July 9th) but as soon as she gets back she'll have her follow up with me. Well its tuesday and im super nervous, and i really want this job. I haven't heard from her and so i called the lady who set up my interview and her vm picked up. it still said she was on vac from the 4th - 6th of july. I left her a vm letting her know that im following up n i hope everything is well. what next? I so want this job

    7 AnswersImmigration1 decade ago
  • any suggestions on a resort in Punta cana to get married in. Im looking to have 50 people...?

    i would like a minister along with a judge as well as a reception with a dj............any ideas????????? where do i start?

    6 AnswersDominican Republic1 decade ago
  • any suggestions on a resort in Punta cana to get married in. Im looking to have 50 people...?

    i would like a minister along with a judge as well as a reception with a dj............any ideas????????? where do i start?

    2 AnswersDominican Republic1 decade ago
  • I have sage colored paint on my bathroom walls and the furniture is white.?

    what color should the towels, bath rugs and accessories be?

    7 AnswersDecorating & Remodeling1 decade ago