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due to damaged concrete at a hotel 6 months ago.

One leg was badly sprang. The other broken down my leg and then into a "Y" on my ankle. I had to be in a wheelchair for 2 months. As well as bed rest for those two month so that the injury would not end up worse.

My legs did not heal correctly. I now have two different sized feet. Due to tissue and bone redistribution.

My legs ache all the time. I now walk with a cane.

This accident happened in another state. So I got to drive for 2 days like this coming back home.

Took 5 days to see a doctor here. I feel like I have gone to hell and back, then back for more, and now I am just permentately there.

I hired a lawyer the day after the accident. Which was also the day we left to head home.

I am just wanting to know, will this ever feel like its over??

I am so bitter over this. I cant accept my legs wont be the same. I hate being disabled now.

My attorney is working out a settlement now. But, my fear is it wont be enough to make up for all the pain.

Not being able to care for my baby. Not being able to be the wife and mother I was before.

Or even the same person.

I dont want to end up screwed.

So when it does come time for the settlement offer, what would be reasonable for someone to exspect?

My attorney is keeping the medical open. And this happened as I was a guest, not an employee.

due to damaged concrete at a hotel 6 months ago.

One leg was badly sprang. The other broken down my leg and then into a "Y" on my ankle. I had to be in a wheelchair for 2 months. As well as bed rest for those two month so that the injury would not end up worse.

My legs did not heal correctly. I now have two different sized feet. Due to tissue and bone redistribution.

My legs ache all the time. I now walk with a cane.

This accident happened in another state. So I got to drive for 2 days like this coming back home.

Took 5 days to see a doctor here. I feel like I have gone to hell and back, then back for more, and now I am just permentately there.

I hired a lawyer the day after the accident. Which was also the day we left to head home.

I am just wanting to know, will this ever feel like its over??

I am so bitter over this. I cant accept my legs wont be the same. I hate being disabled now.

My attorney is working out a settlement now. But, my fear is it wont be enough to make up for all the pain.

Not being able to care for my baby. Not being able to be the wife and mother I was before.

Or even the same person.

I dont want to end up screwed.

So when it does come time for the settlement offer, what would be reasonable for someone to exspect?

My attorney is keeping the medical open. And this happened as I was a guest, not an employee.

due to damaged concrete at a hotel 6 months ago.

One leg was badly sprang. The other broken down my leg and then into a "Y" on my ankle. I had to be in a wheelchair for 2 months.

My legs did not heal correctly. I now have two different sized feet. Due to tissue and bone redistribution.

My legs ache all the time. I now walk with a cane.

This accident happened in another state. So I got to drive for 2 days like this coming back home.

Took 5 days to see a doctor here. I feel like I have gone to hell and back, then back for more, and now I am just permentately there.

I hired a lawyer the day after the accident. Which was also the day we left to head home.

I am just wanting to know, will this ever feel like its over??

I am so bitter over this. I cant accept my legs wont be the same. I hate being disabled now.

My attorney is working out a settlement now. But, my fear is it wont be enough to make up for all the pain.

Not being able to care for my baby. Not being able to be the wife and mother I was before.

Or even the same person.

I dont want to end up screwed.

So when it does come time for the settlement offer, what would be reasonable for someone to exspect?

My 16 year old was married and living with her husband almost a year. They split up in October, a few weeks before they were married a year and she has since been living back home with us. My husband and I just returned from vacation and she has told us she signed off on the divorce. (here is why)

While we were gone, his best friend sent her a e-mail and threatened to beat her and cut off her breasts. She emailed the threats to us and there was a lot of drama. The next day, her husband came over and talked to her about getting back together. He took her on a date. And told her that he needed her to sign off on the divorce so he could put their daughter on his insurance at work. He also told her that they would SHARE custody to where one had her two weeks and then the other one would. She believed him and signed the waiver.

In the petition for a divorce he also stated that the baby lives with him. Which is untrue. (This is not finished will add more to this so please read all)

And the 28th, the child that was born will be 2. My son asked her on many occasions if the baby was his. And she denied it to him everytime. So he has taken her word, while the rest of our family has been told by her he is his child. And we see him.

She has decieved him ultimately and has now decided that when she marries her live in boyfriend, she wants him to adopt the baby.

I am so sick over this. My son has other children and is such a good father. He would be good to the baby as well. But, he grew up with this girl and believes if he was the father she would tell him. (He did on several occasions ask her and she told him she cheated and the baby was not his.)

The reason she lied was she was afraid he would win custody of the baby because her mother is a drug addict, and her brother lost his son completely.

I want to know if anyone may know a resolution to our problem. Or how will my son be able to know his son when he has been so decieved by her? Help Please!!!

And the 28th, the child that was born will be 2. My son asked her on many occasions if the baby was his. And she denied it to him everytime. So he has taken her word, while the rest of our family has been told by her he is his child. And we see him.

She has decieved him ultimately and has now decided that when she marries her live in boyfriend, she wants him to adopt the baby.

I am so sick over this. My son has other children and is such a good father. He would be good to the baby as well. But, he grew up with this girl and believes if he was the father she would tell him. (He did on several occasions ask her and she told him she cheated and the baby was not his.)

The reason she lied was she was afraid he would win custody of the baby because her mother is a drug addict, and her brother lost his son completely.

I want to know if anyone may know a resolution to our problem. Or how will my son be able to know his son when he has been so decieved by her? Help Please!!!

Has anyone ever had child protective services called on them because your husband has a bitter and vindictive ex-wife who wants him back and he refuses to go? She has refused to let him see his daughter for 5 months, sends his wife nasty e-mails and make aweful accusations against her. What can be done when the investigation is unfounded? She seems to have Malicious Mothers and Parental Alienation Syndrome.

My husband is a wonderful father and provides very well. Always pays his child support. I have always been very good to my step daughter, yet his ex has filled her head with the idea if she can push me out of the way, they can be a family again. My husband has done all he can do. Now, we find out DHS is coming to our home. I am not to worried about that because our home is lovely and warm. What I am concerned with is the aligations they have made about me pinching her and calling her ugly names. I would never do that.

Does anyone actually know what can be done when someone makes false alligations against someone with child protective services? If it is unfounded upon inspection. What laws protect people from vengful acts aginst another?

I would go into detail, but do not have time for all the answers where answers post mind your own business. Thanks.

Periodically I write and ask advice for a male friend who has had ongoing trouble with the mother of his daughter. I always look for insight and advice here, because some give the best advice here. So many sharp minds. Which has been a awesome resource.

He came to me today, very upset. He recieved some emails, which I read, and was so sick I thought I would vomit.

His daughter has not been to his house in 4 months. And she sent him numerious e-mails stating unless he divorced his current wife, she would never be back. She has claimed her stepmother has pinched her and called her a fat, nasty, lesbian. And cusses her out all the time. This was also what his daughter has said her mothers ex and the kids at school have said. So there is a patern. His current wife has never done anything of the sort and is offended and very put off by them. He is now going to hire a lawyer to terminate parental rights because he is sick of his ex using his child and is disgusted to no end.

would you get rid of them? Also what would be the first 5 things you would do once you claimed your prize!!

I had my tubes tied. Now I have a period every 14 days. It has been like this for over a year. I am 38. Had normal periods every month before this. Is this normal? Or do I need to see my doctor or by stock in tampax?

what would you do? Would you divorce because you have financial freedom? Stay married and spoil your spouse? Tell us 5 things you would like to do??? Good luck!

and we were informed she is screwing around with a co-worker. Her father and I feel that we need to confront her in front of the other guy, to find out if it is a rumor or the actual truth. If it is, we feel she is not ready for marriage and it would be pointless to continue with the ceremony. We have invested a lot of money with this. So, because I value a lot of opinons from some of you. What would you do. Finacially back out. Or because most of it is paid let her marry inspite of our feelings of disgust. We love her intended like a son. And feel he should be clued in tomarrow. And the wedding called off. So, let's hear it. What do you recommend?

I am very angry at my daughters doctor. She pasted her due date days ago. She cries and is so miserable. We took her to the hospital early this morning and stayed for hours. She wont dialate past 2. Contractions are strong, just to far apart. And to top it all off, the baby appears to be sunny side up.

Note: That is the same way I had my daughter and it was horrible to be stuck at 2 and in horrible pain.

I am so very worried about her. We have begged for her to be induced. Only to be told her cervix is too thick. So, her doctor said they will wait until next MONDAY??!!

I would rather her have a c-section. I think her doctor is a moron. And cannot believe he thinks the right thing to do is let my baby suffer.

You should see her. It is just pathetic.

I hope there are some of you out there with some damn good advice. Because I am about ready to fire her doctor and get her a new one. Is that even possible?

I just finished a question that made me think.

Some poeple get so offended by what people say when people take the time to respond to their questions. That people who are not nice should leave the site and get a life. Which is a good point for some.

But, what about free speech? As Americans, we know these days people can sue for any reason. Flipping someone off can get you a ticket for invoking road rage. But, here, we can speak our minds and should without a sensitive few on the never ending violation committee trying to cost us points.

What big cry babies you are!

So which are you?

Here is the situation. I have a dear friend who has been nothing but a loving and caring father. But, his ex-wife has done everything she could to push him out of his childs life. It has been 2 months since he has seen his daughter, who has only called once to make sure he paid for something for her mother. His daughter has stopped being in his new family, opting to be unhappy and sit in her room and watch tv her whole visit.

Her father has done everything humanly possible to better the situation. Now, he feels that he wants to be done with the endless battles with his ex. His ex has made it to where his daughter is never wanting to come to see him. Now he is wanting to just sign away his parental rights so he can move on with his life. Which I do agree is about the only option left.

Before I advise him, I want to know how other people would feel in the same situation and would you be happy or sad to know you have finally pushed the other parent out of your childs life?

Every time things get juicy on here, bam, daily limit!!

My son and I have always been close until he became involved with a married woman who is 5 years older than him. She started off being the answer to my prayers. Within 6 months, she was pregnant with my son's child, already a mother of 3. And did what I never saw coming...she became jealious of his other children. Picked fights with his oldests mother to where her mother would no longer send her daughter to see him. I was banned from seeing my grandson when he was born. They omitted my name, as well as his oldest child from the birth announcement when he was born. My crime- I stood up to her over pushing him out of his biological childrens lives. Told her how rotton and petty she was being. That they needed their father, her children have their own.

I have gone through a tough time with this the last year. And now we are on civil terms.

Back before all this crap happened my son got a tattoo in my honor for my birthday. It reads "momma's boi". He told me tonight....

and took their daughter to the doctor and gave her a shot she watched a report on that can keep girls from getting certain cancers. "Emiliy" has not even started her period yet. I also saw the same news she did and it is for girls under 26. There are several shots, and at $145.00 a pop. She is Native American, so they would only cover so much. She is wanting us to put the rest on our coverage.

She did not consult us before she rushed down there and commited us to this.

Our state is trying to get funding so the costly shots will be free. So we feel she should have waited.

This is a woman who has also cancelled eye appointments we have made for "Emily" through our doctor, under our policy, informing us after the fact she took her insteed.

I am sick of her going behind our backs and doing this. Of course we want what is best for "Emily", but her mother really pushes it.

Her mother cannot even afford her own place to live and lives with her mother. How would you deal?