sunbun

the guy is getting custody of his children. I do not want anymore children. Mine are long grown and left home. I don't want to be the Mommy cause I'm not the mommy and I don't want to be the wife. I simply like being the mistress. He already has a wife. He did not ask for custody...CPS involved etc. I think this will be a deal breaker for me. I will give it a try but I want to continue my life as it is. I hike @ 25 miles a week. And I can't do that if I'm stuck babysitting his children. Would it be wrong of me to say...I'm getting my own place, we can continue to date..but I'm moving out. That way I'm not stuck into the Mommy/wife role? Your opinions please.

Is there a Kill download out there???

plan on going on a trip to visit my family in another state many many miles away over the Thanksgiving Holiday. He is not interested in attending....my children all have other plans...should I fly alone and visit my family or should I insist that he go..Personally It doesn't bother me that he doesn't want to go....as I do realize this is my family not his...and 2nd Is it my responsibility to pay for his flight should he decide to go???

of purchasing the Nordic Track CX 1055 Elliptical MSRP @ a grand on sale for @ 800. Your help is much appreciated.

and my lease is up in May....should I discuss living together or simply acquire a smaller apartment?

to the final 4???

Now I don't believe they are having a sexual relationship but I also believe they both want it and I am just in the way. After telling the b/f that I was backing off and giving him time to do or not do whatever...he just asked for his stuff back and left. And my heart is breaking...ihe has not called--nothing....my question...should I eventually call him and try to talk or just accept it for what I think it is...and try to move on with my life?

I do not believe he is doing anything wrong and he does take me with to this same local bar usually on Friday nights for a bit. If he frequents this bar anytime he is not with me--should I be concerned?? Is he an alcoholic?? And then he lies to be about how long he was there?? This does not sit well with me....should I confront him....or just leave it alone...and chalk it up to this is just the way he is ---aceept it or move on....Your advise please?

Now he just turned 21 in July. I have met the guy and he is very nice and I have had numerous discussions with him. He appears to be a good guy. He has just returned (in Feb) from Irag with the Marine Corp. He current resides at home with his dad and step mom and is currently employed as an electrician apprentice. And yes I do feel that I have raised my daugher appropriately so that she can make wise decisions on her own. My goal is to raise an independent daughter, so that when she is 18 and on her own she will indeed know how to make wise decisions all by herself. So what up---is the 5 years too much difference when one is a minor? Your opinions please.