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I'm almost 6'1" and weigh 158 pounds. I'm not fat but I know I have area's that could afford to lose from (Love handles and thighs) Everyone tells me I look skinny but I just don't see it. My stats are currently 34-27-38. I fit a size six and usually a Small in tops. I have a small frame.

What I want to know is if 140 is unreasonable for my height or should I go ahead and make that my goal. Some opinions would be great.

I have 2 children with a man I still love but am no longer IN love with. We no longer live together but he still wants to work things out even though I don't see it happening. I thus far haven't had the courage to tell him that I want things over for good; Though he is a good man I just know he isn't grown up enough to be a responsible father to our children among other issues.

On the other side of things I have been talking online/phone for the past 2 1/2 years with the sweetest guy I've ever known. He is in a long term relationship. We both love each other and have been contemplating making a go of things with each other. Because he and I started our relationship while he is still in another (not for much longer) Ive a huge fear that he will do the same thing to me with another woman...

How do I tell my ex that I need to completely move on without crushing him, and do these "being the other woman" situations ever work out or should I leave them both?

I have cable internet and phone, I also have my modem connected to a router so I can have my laptop anywhere in the house (if that makes a difference) A couple of days ago I started to get disconnected everytime I phoned someone or they phoned me...How can I stop this from happening?