Elizabeth

He only lies to me about things relating to his family (especially his mother).

If he goes out to lunch with his family, and they do nothing else, it takes a minimum of 4 or 5 hours before he's home.

If he does anything with his mom it usually results in him spending the night with his mom even if he goes in the morning.

His sister will keep him out til 3 am and he'll get home, and we get in trouble with our apartment manager because he won't shut doors quietly enough and we have a noise curfew here.

If he tells me he'll let me know when he hears something he tells me an average of 2 hours after he hears.

If he says he'll call me in 5 minutes and is around his mother he calls 4 hours later.

If he says he'll be home in a couple hours before being around his mom I can expect him home the next day or the day after that.

He has a sibling who lives less than an hour from their mom. The other sibling is going to move out of state soon as she graduates highschool.

He promised he'd move with me for college then we'd move back after I graduate.

His mom said that he'd never move away because he "wouldn't ever do that to me" because "of our very special bond."

Well, he now says once his sister moves the other one lives to far to help her if there's an emergency.

Is that normal?

Jealous that he bought his fiance a ring, and demand that he buy you the same one.

Refusing to buy clothes when you're out with your daughter because you only want your son's opinions.

When you're cooking a family meal for yourself, your daughters, your son, and his fiance you only have him taste test because you don't care about any other opinions. Which then leads to so much pepper only he likes it, and you're happy he likes it, and don't care your daughter is made sick by the pepper.

Call your adult son babe, boss him around, make him your handy man (when one is available where you live for free), stare at his butt, tell him you think his pants are too tight or too loose on his groin, make him go with you when you grocery shop even though your daughter is willing to go and he doesn't want to. Treat him the exact way you treated your husband, and get jealous if he hugs/kisses his fiance then hug him longer than she does. Get jealous whenever he does something for her that he doesn't for you.

Expect your son to spend the night in your studio apartment at least once a week even though you live 10 minutes away from him, and expect him to sleep in your bed.

Tell your son who he is and is not allowed to invite to his wedding that his fiance is footing the entire bill for, including inviting people he hates.

Call him over 8-12 times a day just to talk - with nothing new to say.

Text him the entire time you aren't on the phone with him.

No touching each others privates (including butts). It bothers me that they touch each others privates. The other day she stumbled and he grabbed her chest "because it was the only thing I could reach." It wasn't, he could have reached her arm, but chose not to.

She will walk past him when he's sitting down and purposefully stop with her butt in his face. It's gross, and needs to stop.

No phone calls after 10:30pm if it isn't an emergency. His mom knows I go to bed at 10:30pm an he goes to bed at 11pm. She will purposefully call after 11pm even if he told her we were going to bed at 9pm. I get up at 4am every morning and need to be allowed to sleep. We keep phones on vibrate at night in case of emergency or if my boss calls. She will call until we answer even if it's just to say that her dog rolled over.

No more sleep overs. We live in the same city. He does not need to spend Monday night for their dinner plans Tuesday evening. if she had a spare bed (or a couch) it wouldn't be a problem. But, they have to share her bed or he sleeps on the floor (and can't with his back problems).

She will bribe him to go to her place by baking cookies, cupcakes, cake, muffins, or buying him things (usually sweets). They're both diabetic, and that is bad for their health. Sweets are okay occasionally, but not frequently, and not as bribes. Ask, don't bribe.

No touching each others privates (including butts). It bothers me that they touch each others privates. The other day she stumbled and he grabbed her chest "because it was the only thing I could reach." It wasn't, he could have reached her arm, but chose not to.

She will walk past him when he's sitting down and purposefully stop with her butt in his face. It's gross, and needs to stop.

No phone calls after 10:30pm if it isn't an emergency. His mom knows I go to bed at 10:30pm an he goes to bed at 11pm. She will purposefully call after 11pm even if he told her we were going to bed at 9pm. I get up at 4am every morning and need to be allowed to sleep. We keep phones on vibrate at night in case of emergency or if my boss calls. She will call until we answer even if it's just to say that her dog rolled over.

No more sleep overs. We live in the same city. He does not need to spend Monday night for their dinner plans Tuesday evening. if she had a spare bed (or a couch) it wouldn't be a problem. But, they have to share her bed or he sleeps on the floor (and can't with his back problems).

She will bribe him to go to her place by baking cookies, cupcakes, cake, muffins, or buying him things (usually sweets). They're both diabetic, and that is bad for their health. Sweets are okay occasionally, but not frequently, and not as bribes. Ask, don't bribe.

She needs to realize that I will come first because in a week we'll be married. He's marrying me, not her.