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I'm a 21 year old guy who’s quiet and can look nervous when I go to appointments with this lady job advisor who's about 32 years old and when I get up to go from the end of an appointment she would say ‘awwww’ (like rrrrrrr) before saying bye (maybe as a gap filler) and I sometimes say thanks very much out of habit before she says it so idk. Also when I only got a pub job myself without asking for her help she would often say ‘well done’ and ‘very well done’ a lot on emails and in person every time I saw her since I told her I passed the job interview which means she probably thinks I’m a loser and too thick to get a job myself so she said well done every time I see her. I was intimated by her because when she looked at me when talking to me she seemed to judge me by looking up at my hair most appointments but then when I get up to leave a little later she would be like ‘awww ok see yer later’ in a pleasant way . When I told her about the company I had the interview for she looked a bit surprised and said ‘ohh...how did you apply for there then?’ And a bit later I I tired to my left to looked at an advisor who had a short dress on whilst my advisor was on the computer and my advisor laughed a bit and said ‘you looking at her there’ in a smiley quiet way which confuses me because she gave me a furrowed eyebrows snobby look at me when she first called me over to the appointment which got me down

I go to appointments fortnightly with an employment advisor for the past month. I’m a 21 year old quiet guy who’s quiet and nervous and polite. She reminded me the interviews she chose me for that I had coming up and she subbed me for both of them (they get job opportunities) and she then turned upbeat and her voice also was upbeat (bubbly) she talked a little about it and then said ‘ok do you need interview clothes?' (THey provide vouchers for interview clothes) I replied politely (I’m very quiet) ‘yes, Iv got all that' and she said 'oh have you got all that?’ (upbeat as I said) I said yes then she went on to say 'ok well don't forget, shirt, pants and shoes, (she moved her hands also while saying this like a checklist) make sure you get a shave, make sure you cut your nails..make sure you do your hair up all nice and that.....(then she paused as she was facing her computer) ..'and make sure you put some aftershave on aswell, for the girls make sure it's mens' then burst out laughing, she’s never even smiled before (I just smiled along with it) I a young guy and she’d in her early 30s. Just really worried she thinks I'm Ugly and that I stink as a result....or something like that. Need a 2nd opinion...I did need a shave which maybe why :/ she also put in the email ‘please dress smartly’ underlined. But she also chose me for 2 interviews and didn’t say anything about appearance at all the 2nd time so I don’t understand :/

I'm a 21 year old guy who’s quiet and can look nervous when I go to appointments with this lady job advisor who's about 32 years old and when I get up to go from the end of an appointment she would say ‘awwww’ (like rrrrrrr) before saying bye (maybe as a gap filler) and I sometimes say thanks very much out of habit before she says it so idk. Also when I only got a pub job myself without asking for her help she would often say ‘well done’ and ‘very well done’ a lot on emails and in person every time I saw her since I told her I passed the job interview which means she probably thinks I’m a loser and too thick to get a job myself so she said well done every time I see her. I was intimated by her because when she looked at me when talking to me she seemed to judge me by looking up at my hair most appointments but then when I get up to leave a little later she would be like ‘awww ok see yer later’ in a pleasant way . When I told her about the company I had the interview for she looked a bit surprised and said ‘ohh...how did you apply for there then?’ And a bit later I I tired to my left to looked at an advior who had a short dress on whilst my advisor was on the computer and my advisor laughed a bit and said ‘you looking at her there’ in a smiley quiet way which confuses me because she gave me a furrowed eyebrows snobby look at me when she first called me over to the appointment which got me down

6 months ago

https://m.imgur.com/a/SoDVvKo

Now:

https://m.imgur.com/a/BHZqkHe

Edit: it could be my hair length being different but idk it is thinning recently and I don’t weigh anymore than 2 years ago

6 months ago

https://m.imgur.com/a/SoDVvKo

Now:

https://m.imgur.com/a/BHZqkHe

Edit: it could be my hair length being different but idk it is thinning recently and I don’t weigh anymore than 2 years ago

I'm a 21 year old guy who’s quiet and can look nervous when I go to appointments with this lady job advisor who's about 32 years old and when I get up to go from the end of an appointment she would say ‘awwww’ (like rrrrrrr) before saying bye (maybe as a gap filler) and I sometimes say thanks very much out of habit before she says it so idk. Also when I only got a pub job myself without asking for her help she would often say ‘well done’ and ‘very well done’ a lot on emails and in person every time I saw her since I told her I passed the job interview which means she probably thinks I’m a loser and too thick to get a job myself so she said well done every time I see her. I was intimated by her because when she looked at me when talking to me she seemed to judge me horribly. All this in a bad way? When I told her about the company I had the interview for she looked a bit surprised and said ‘how did you apply for there then?’ And a bit later I looked at an advisor who had a short dress on whilst my advisor was on the computer and my advisor laughed a bit and said ‘you looking at her there’ in a smiley way which confuses me because I worry she thinks I’m a gross loser

Edit: she started saying the ‘awww’ from when I’d get up to leave at the end of every appointment since the time I failed an interview a few months ago for not having enough confidence but I usually would say ‘oh ok thank you’ when I’d get up to leave at the end when she said awww so it could be that idk

I go to appointments fortnightly with an employment advisor for the past month. I’m a 21 year old quiet guy who’s quiet and nervous and polite. She reminded me the interviews she chose me for that I had coming up and she subbed me for both of them (they get job opportunities) and she then turned upbeat and her voice also was upbeat (bubbly) she talked a little about it and then said ‘ok do you need interview clothes?' (THey provide vouchers for interview clothes) I replied politely (I’m very quiet) ‘yes, Iv got all that' and she said 'oh have you got all that?’ (upbeat as I said) I said yes then she went on to say 'ok well don't forget, shirt, pants and shoes, (she moved her hands also while saying this like a checklist) make sure you get a shave, make sure you cut your nails..make sure you do your hair up all nice and that.....(then she paused as she was facing her computer) ..'and make sure you put some aftershave on aswell, for the girls make sure it's mens' then burst out laughing, she’s never even smiled before (I just smiled along with it) I a young guy and she’d in her early 30s. Just really worried she thinks I'm smelly or something but I shower more often than normal but just this one time I hadnt shaved. Need a 2nd opinion...I did need a shave which maybe why :/ she also put in the email ‘please dress smartly’ underlined. But she also chose me for 2 interviews and didn’t say anything about appearance at all the 2nd time so I don’t understand :/

I'm a 21 year old guy who’s quiet and can look nervous when I go to appointments with this lady job advisor who's about 32 years old and when I get up to go from the end of an appointment she would say ‘awwww’ (like rrrrrrr) before saying bye (maybe as a gap filler) and I sometimes say thanks very much out of habit before she says it so idk. Also when I only got a pub job myself without asking for her help she would often say ‘well done’ and ‘very well done’ a lot on emails and in person every time I saw her since I told her I passed the job interview which means she probably thinks I’m a loser and too thick to get a job myself so she said well done every time I see her. I was intimated by her because when she looked at me when talking to me she seemed to judge me horribly. All this in a bad way? When I told her about the company I had the interview for she looked a bit surprised and said ‘how did you apply for there then?’ And a bit later I looked at an advisor who had a short dress on whilst my advisor was on the computer and my advisor laughed a bit and said ‘you looking at her there’ in a smiley way which confuses me because I worry she thinks I’m a gross loser

Edit: she started saying the ‘awww’ from when I’d get up to leave at the end of every appointment since the time I failed an interview a few months ago for not having enough confidence but I usually would say ‘oh ok thank you’ when I’d get up to leave at the end when she said awww so it could be that idk

I go to appointments fortnightly with an employment advisor for the past month. I’m a 21 year old quiet guy who’s quiet and nervous and polite. She reminded me the interviews she chose me for that I had coming up and she subbed me for both of them (they get job opportunities) and she then turned upbeat and her voice also was upbeat (bubbly) she talked a little about it and then said ‘ok do you need interview clothes?' (THey provide vouchers for interview clothes) I replied politely (I’m very quiet) ‘yes, Iv got all that' and she said 'oh have you got all that?’ (upbeat as I said) I said yes then she went on to say 'ok well don't forget, shirt, pants and shoes, (she moved her hands also while saying this like a checklist) make sure you get a shave, make sure you cut your nails..make sure you do your hair up all nice and that.....(then she paused as she was facing her computer) ..'and make sure you put some aftershave on aswell, for the girls make sure it's mens' then burst out laughing, she’s never even smiled before (I just smiled along with it) I a young guy and she’d in her early 30s. Just really worried she thinks I'm an ugly loser....or something like that. Need a 2nd opinion...I did need a shave which maybe why :/ she also put in the email ‘please dress smartly’ underlined. But she also chose me for 2 interviews and didn’t say anything about appearance at all the 2nd time so I don’t understand :/

I’m a guy and I was working as a waiter on a quiet midweek day and I was taking finished plates back to the kitchen when I felt a stare and immediately looked to my right and 1 of these 3 girls was smiling/smirking at me and looked me down at my side/arm when I looked at her (im tall and lanky and my arms looked a little bit big too because I had one or two girls layers in underneath) it was for about 3 seconds and then as I walked out of sight I heard a slight difference noise (couldn’t make it out) a bit later 2 of them were ordering food at the bar and on their way back I felt a stare while I was standing at the kitchen gantry bored and looked over to one of them girls (the friend of the girl who smiled at the start) on her own walking back to her table looking over at me and when I noticed she laughed hard and put her hand to her mouth still looking at me then I looked away. I immediately got upset about if and I went to my team leader and assistant manager and refused to take their food to them I wanted them kicked out but my team leader wouldn't coz he said I can't be sure they were making fun of me. later on I had to check the toilets and I walked upstairs to girls toilets and the door opens and it was them girls I looked up and the girl that laughed earlier smiled at me, and I overheard em saying whys a boy going in girls toilets and walked past me as normal. I’m a guy btw

This is me if it helps:

https://m.imgur.com/a/YlAAhlA

(3 photos)

I was working as a waiter on a quiet midweek day and I was taking finished plates back to the kitchen when I felt a stare and immediately looked to my right and 1 of these 3 girls was smiling/smirking at me and looked me down at my side/arm when I looked at her (im tall and lanky and my arms looked a little bit big too because I had one or two girls layers in underneath) it was for about 3 seconds and then as I walked out of sight I heard a slight difference noise (couldn’t make it out) a bit later 2 of them were ordering food at the bar and on their way back I felt a stare while I was standing at the kitchen gantry bored and looked over to one of them girls (the friend of the girl who smiled at the start) on her own walking back to her table looking over at me and when I noticed she laughed hard and put her hand to her mouth still looking at me then I looked away. I immediately got upset about if and I went to my team leader and assistant manager and refused to take their food to them I wanted them kicked out but my team leader wouldn't coz he said I can't be sure they were making fun of me. later on I had to check the toilets and I walked upstairs to girls toilets and the door opens and it was them girls I looked up and the girl that laughed earlier smiled at me, and I overheard em saying whys a boy going in girls toilets and walked past me as normal. I’m a guy btw

This is me if it helps:

https://m.imgur.com/a/YlAAhlA

(3 photos)

Im a young guy inwork in a pub and at the end near closing time I was wiping a tall table near the bar and I looked up to a group of women near the table one said something and they laughed I looked at one laughing quite hard and I then looked at the rest of them suspiciously and then I heard ‘look at him looking at people with his beady eyes’ is this insulting?

I go to appointments fortnightly with an employment advisor for the past month. I’m a 21 year old quiet guy who’s quiet and nervous and polite. She reminded me the interviews she chose me for that I had coming up and she subbed me for both of them (they get job opportunities) and she then turned upbeat and her voice also was upbeat (bubbly) she talked a little about it and then said ‘ok do you need interview clothes?' (THey provide vouchers for interview clothes) I replied politely (I’m very quiet) ‘yes, Iv got all that' and she said 'oh have you got all that?’ (upbeat as I said) I said yes then she went on to say 'ok well don't forget, shirt, pants and shoes, (she moved her hands also while saying this like a checklist) make sure you get a shave, make sure you cut your nails..make sure you do your hair up all nice and that.....(then she paused as she was facing her computer) ..'and make sure you put some aftershave on aswell, for the girls make sure it's mens' then burst out laughing, she’s never even smiled before (I just smiled along with it) I a young guy and she’d in her early 30s. Just really worried she thinks I'm an ugly loser....or something like that. Need a 2nd opinion...I did need a shave which maybe why :/ she also put in the email ‘please dress smartly’ underlined. But she also chose me for 2 interviews and didn’t say anything about appearance at all the 2nd time so I don’t understand :/

I work at a pub and a group of girls sitting and drinking and one stopped to ask me can they play music on their phones I said no we arnt allowed to play music and I said if it was up to me I’d let them but it isn’t etc and I walked off to get glasses from another table when she said something to her friend who laughed and in my way back last she looked at me and said ‘what time do you finish?’ I paused a little and said ‘oh 10pm’ (it was 8:40pm at this time) and then she turned away and said ‘oh so you don’t want to drink with us then’, is this a bad thing?

Edit; they already asked my boss can they play music a while before and asked me later

▪️3 photo album to compare (my hair is usually longer like on the tinder pic)

https://m.imgur.com/a/c032p8X

▪️tinder pic I used

https://m.imgur.com/a/9Ikw555

I'm a 21 year old guy who’s quiet and can look nervous. who goes to appointments with a lady job advisor who's about 32 years old and when I get up to go from an appointment she would say ‘awwww’ (like rrrrrrr) before saying bye (maybe as a gap filler) and I sometime say thanks very much out of habit before she says it so idk. Also when I only got a pub job myself without asking for her help she would often say ‘well done’ a lot on emails and in person which means she probably thinks I’m a loser and too thick to get a job myself so she said well done. Has in a bad way?

Edit: she started saying the ‘awww’when I’d get up to leave after I failed an interview for not having enough confidence but I usually would say ‘oh ok thank you’ is maybe why?

2 years ago

https://m.imgur.com/a/0ZsyGRg

Now:

https://m.imgur.com/a/biMcEq2

I go to appointments fortnightly with an employment advisor for the past month. She reminded me the

interviews she subbed me for that I had coming up and she subbed me for both of them (they get job opportunities) and she then turned upbeat and her voice also was upbeat (bubbly) she talked a little about it and then said ‘ok do you need interview clothes?' (Hey provide vouchers for interview clothes) I replied politely (I’m very quiet) ‘yes, Iv got all that' and she said 'oh have you got all that?’ (upbeat as I said) I said yes then she went on to say 'ok well don't forget, shirt, pants and shoes, (she moved her hands also while saying this) make sure you get a shave, make sure you cut your nails..make sure you do your hair up all nice and that.....(then she paused as she was facing her computer) ..'and make sure you put some aftershave on aswell, for the girls make sure it's mens' then burst out laughing, she’s never even smiled before (I just smiled along with it) I a young guy and she’d in her early 30s. Just really worried she thinks I'm an ugly loser....or something like that. Need a 2nd opinion...I did need a shave which maybe why :/ she also put in the email ‘please dress smartly’ underlined. But she also chose me for 2 interviews and didn’t say anything about appearance at all the 2nd time so I don’t understand :/