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Well I wouldv't like to be misunderstood for that, i'm not acting envious or jealous, but I have a psychological problem concerning my self-esteem since I was a teen and it's becoming worse, I am now a 22 years old female and i study in architecture firm. People around me used to compare my sister's beauty to me saying that she is more beautiful since i was 12. Even my friends said my sister is very beautiful but me not even pretty once. I was told just few times that i am cute but I feel horrible because all guys who got to know me and know my sister used to hit on her and treat her better.she's my sister and I love her but i can't help feeling awful. Even my relatives compliment her beauty. She also changed several boyfriends because they ran after her alot but me, just twice and the second time the guy was playing me without the intention to love me. Do you people have any steps to look more attractive ? I know appearances don't matter but it's making me way down and I lost hope. I don't feel feminine or desired anymore to the point that if a guy looks at me once I will be sure he is thinking about something else because i used to be ignored thousand times by guys next to my sister :( Even guys who aren't good looking don't pay me any attention

Well sorry if I write too much but I need to give information I was in a beautiful relashionship two years ago. Everything was great between me and the guy it was like a dream and he was the kindest guy I met but suddenly we quarrelled about a stupid thing and he broke up with me , I tried to get him back but he cut contact and got married very soon few months after. I can't deny how much devasted I was that I went through a breakdown and got really sick , right after I tried to do everything on earth to move on from charities to internships to getting introduced to new people. I don't why I am I still so sad that sometimes I suddenly burst into tears just when I remember the way he broke up. Maybe because he was my first and the one whome I blindly trusted. Or maybe because I don't know wether he loved me or just spent some sweet time. Sometimes it still hurts me as it happened yesterday and it also affected my vision to relashionships that I am not able to trust people anymore and specially men. I know like that im pushing guys away but I can't lie to anyone and show them that I wasn't negatively affected by a past breakup. Im afraid one day I will give the same love and get dumped the same way. I want a guy who will truly love me and never leave me because of a stupid quarrel. How comeu say u love someone alot then leave them and get married soon ?

Well as i introduced my self before, i am a 22 years old architecture student, our architecture workshop teacher iis a French man. From the beginning of the year i used to work very hard but he didn t give me the marks i deserve, on the other hand a girl in our class doesn t give much details in her presentation and he keeps complimenting me and giving her the best marks, he also compliments a French student in our class who doesn t work much as I do. When we have a theory session and he starts asking questions about space and electricity, I raise my hand and answer correctly but he ignores me, when that girl answers he listens well and agree with what she says, when i discuss my project with that prof he talks to me kind of rudely as if he doesn t care. I always do everything he asks us in the project + extra good work. Never appreciating this and keep complimenting just those two students who don t work much. Now i am no more motivated to work in his sessions because I know he is doing this deliberattely for no reason. he is being racist right ? or I am imagining ?

Hello everyone , first I am a 22 years old female , I am an architecture college student , anyway , to start with my issue. It is almost my fourth year in college . I have NEVER dated before. When I was at high school I was in love with a guy whome I unfortunately discovered is not available for me. 3 years after I tried to move on from my first love I got to know another guy. He was 7 years older than me , I loved and trusted him and he promised me to commit. Suddenly we faught and he disappeared from my life and I was pretfy devasted that I had a severe breakdown. That year I lost too much weight that I became skinny then later I discovered that he got engaged right after. I tried to look for someone to date but couldn't find anyone yet. I always feel that guys don't care about me. I don't know I have now a horrible self esteem because of too much past rejection and I still have no one interested in me. Currently there is this guy in my class that I help and I like but he seems ignorant and is very interested in my friend. I don't know why I am posting this but I am heart broken inside and especially when guys show interest to my sister and friends but me always invisible. I feel like I will die alone. Some people say I am cute but I stopped believing that because of guys reaction toward me. Tell me what can I do to heal ? Is there something wrong in me ?

I am a 22 years old female architecture student. this professorh taught me infography in my first year. Now I am in my third and he came back teaching 3ds max. Heiss young almost six years older than me. He added me in the summer on insta and Facebook. He is pretty a good teacher because he teaches with passion. In my first year I remember asking him to install Ps for me so he tried to open a conversation with me and was smiling. Today we had a test and although I didn't need help like others he came to check like 10 times. I sometimes when not looking his direction catch him glancing on me. Why ? Is he interested ? Why does this happen often to me when I have classes with young teachers? I mean I am not an attention seeker and I love my studies alot.

Now I am going to say my story from the beginning , last year I had a nervous breakdown because of a sudden breakup , I mean sudden where you are in love with the guy that everything is great and planning to settle down with him , then suddenly he creates a fight and tells u good bye, I knew I had a nervous breakdown although I didn't go to doctor because I got very sick in bed and I had mental disorders and problems of concentration. Year after I still have the breakdown effects like I wake up at night hysterically crying , sometimes my heart beats too fast and my stomach hurts , I lost too much weight and although I am eating well I can't gain it back. I am still sad inside I don't know why. What can Ido ? I became very nervous and complicated person specially when I knew that tje guy is soon about to get married. I want to totally forget all that and stop crying my eyes out alone. I told many about it to relieve the pain but no result

Im 21 years old , but everyone tells me I look as 17 or 18 because I am short. Its weird that when I wear make up I get minimum attention and when I wear almost nothing I get moooore attention. I wonder why since I dont think I am beautiful and there are many pretty girls out there , I caught guys staring at me at school and in public hundred times with a long stare but when I look back they turn away. What's the deal ? Do I look weird or guys just look at anyone that way ? Even guys at school who dont seem interested stare but from faraway...Is it ok?

People I asked because I am really sick about it. I am someone who used to have some stomach cramps in extreme anxieties till now , but now it's getting worse and worse , actually I had a nervous breakdown because of a break up , the last 3 weeks were very difficult for me currently because I spent a night of trauma after I got that my ex got engaged it wasn't just a heartache but I had a bad nausea , very bad stomach cramps , weakness and shaking. I was waking up at night to throw up but nothing came out. Yesterday someone told me that he is happy with his fiancee I was ok with it but at night when I remembered it I started to shake again with stomach cramps. What is that ? Knowingthat I already did medical analysis and consultation but nothing was wrong , I just passed through intoxication 2 months ago but I am ok now.I feel sick and tired don't know why

Sorry if it seems a bit like a dumb question, people usually say I am cute but they don't say I am beautiful or pretty , while they keep saying how beautiful is my sister, for example today my mates said that they saw my sister and she is more beautiful than me , I know I should bhappy since she's my sister but I also felt bad because of the way they said it. But though I always find guys who are attracted to me everywhere I gowithout even talking to them, so is it that I am really not pretty or that my mates are exagerating , knowing that my sis is really very beautiful

Well I downloaded a piano learning book one week ago , I started reading it with no stop till now , now I manage to read the staff notes and the symbols and their place on the keys and the beats , I reached the eight notes now and learning to play with both hands , I used to take piano lessons at primary school and I used to get good marks but I wasn't interested at all , now I am , in the beginning people intimidated me by saying it takes too long to capt and understand the notes but I have no difficulties now in understanding them , how much will it take to be very good and to play be ear ?

I am sorry if it seems a bit depressing , but I feel like I am very sad and hopeless so I need someone's help, I have been a stranger in a country for 2 years and a half , I have no real friends her , my parents and my sister are the only people I communicate well with them , all my best friends from high school are in another country. Anyway , last way I was so happy with a guy who wanted commitment and I thought finally someone will love me , he broke up with me suddenly and I have been through mild depression till now , I faught the hurt with studies , work , reading , I also tried to enhance my social life but everyone at college is a back stabber, I am a very sweet and flexible person but I don't get the same , no guys are interested in me at college and even never anywhere out. I wonder why since I am not ugly people say I am cute but I don't believe it anymore because I feel unwanted. The last few days were the hardest because I got that the guy whome I loved last year got engaged and now is ready to move to a new apartment and gef married. I was very shocked and I was too weak and puked at night. I am very sad since I feel unimportant and ignored. What's going wrong with my life I wanna feel happy again ?

Sorry for the long story but I have to say everything in order to get understood , last year I used to know a guy (I was 20 he was 27) , he was perfect , sweet , understanding and everything , we had a high chemistry and he said he was so happy to know someone like me , soon he said he wanna commit but the problem that his family is so religious and they want him to choose a partner like them , he looked for ways to convince his gamily which stressed him out alot , we were so happy together , one day , we had a fight about the subject that a family imposing a certain partner on their son is too bad , he thought I am insulting them and he was mad at me , I tried to reconcile but nothing , suddenly he changed his mind and didn't want me anymore because he was certain it won't work out , I was devasted , in shock , I couldn't sleep or eat , I fell sick and had a major depression , I collapsed because I didn't expect the guy who cared about me that much to leave me suddenly , I forced my self to move on , now , 8 months passed and I got that he got engaged from3 days , I have a big heartache and I still get those feelings of sadness like when he left. Iam just praying to forget him by someone who will really want me in their life, but now each time I remember the promises he has given to me and the way he left me and got engaged to someone else breaks me emotionally and physically.

A guy once told me that it feels like holding a kitten lol. My ex was way bigger than me and he adored it. So do guys like it ?

Well this guy has been always staring at me and giving me glances since I entered college (1 year and a half) He also became somehow confused when I was around and he seemed shy to say hello, 2 weeks ago he started giving glances to my friend and not me. WTF ! like he switched the interest I know many guys like my friend because she is cute and shy. But what the hell I am not ugly at all and I have a decent personality why no one shows interest anymore. People it seems funny but I start to doubt myself too much that sometimes I feel like I wanna cry. I think guys also like my friend because she isn't the ambitious kind of girls , she is sweet and funny , not loud nor hard worker while I am someine who is ready to dedicate my life for knowledge. I think it turns guys off