scott s

...when some people complain about "getting laid too much"? YIKES!!!!....any comments?

...what kinds of things inspire some of you fabulously marvelous women,...and interest you inwardly about your own personal desires for an older guy reasonably?

What intrigues you specifically to wanna be with an older guy?

I'm just curious ladies really....and yes!...I am an older guy for some women respectfully!....There will be no need to grill or repremand me if you're not in tune to this question otherwise.

It's simply a question......with a person on the end of it that's interested in your honest response....not a mean one and cruel one reasonably!

...of having gone through some therapy involving EFT? What is it actually...and how did it profoundly effect you during the course of your own personal therapy?

She calls me up this weekend after 4 months of no talking,.and asks me if I wanted to take her old queen sized bed to replace my present one. (she's moving to another city 2 hours away) This is the bed that her ex-husband, ...me,... and another guy she was having an affair with behind my back, all had initiated sex in it with her. What kind of an instigation of sorts is this crap all about anyways? Is she trying to piss me off further,...and especially after four months? Any thoughts about this woman's behavior people?

...especially when trying to rationalize why you've been dumped unexplainably by the same person so many times it hurts incredibly. I don't wanna think about this woman anymore. It's been quite mentally painful to say the least lately. I've been relinquished from a special woman's life interests for some inexplainable unknown reasons...and she ain't talking. I'm walking away now....but I'd like to have my heart and my own mental sanity back too. Am I being completely unreasonable for asking for some closure? YIKES!!! I just want some peace really...but unfortunately there's no calm in sight right now. Later maybe I'll be able to see how silly this was...but I'm absolutely NOT seeing it yet. It's only been 4 months since my departure was concieved verbally by my former lover. The "for sale" sign is up in her yard now. Closure for me is running away from me unexplainably again. Any ideas on getting her to unload some truths...or would this be to much for some to bare?

...and I'm still feeling rattled by the thoughts and wonderful moments I used to have with this one very special woman. She's left me unexplainably now twice...last time was back in November. We haven't talked written or texted recently. I even blocked her from calling me on my cell phone. I don't really want her to come back into my life either. She's cheated on me twice unreasonably. The first time I forgave her...but not this time. Funny thing is..it's the same guy as last time too. She wants to control everything about us..and I've had it with all the manipulative behavioral crap. So why do I even remotely still bother to think about her really. You'd think I'd be over her crap by now anyways. It's like she subconciously sends me all this stuff...telepathically or something. Pretty weird huh? So what gives? ...any ideas really? I'm tired of it all seriously! I'm ready to see a therapist if it doesn't stop soon. Yikes!

After having been dumped twice miserably by the same woman,...and feeling the pains of her whimsical ending of our 5 year relationship together...(by the way...no explanation for any of these departures was given either)... why is it I still have deeply hidden desires to wanna be with this unexplained departure filled woman? I know it seems silly,...but I should actually be pissed off more then anything else. We haven't verbally communicated or talked since last November,...and my friends all say I should stay clear of her without question. What do my friends know about her that they're simply not telling me?...and why? She still confides in a couple of my pals. So what's up with that stuff reasonably? My feelings for this woman are not feeling normal by most of my previous relationship standards. I should be looking in another direction right now to deflect recent events assuredly. So why am I still stewing about her anyways? Any thoughts reasonably?....and try to be nice about it.

..It's been over five years since I've been out in the dating pool. I'm recently single as of November. I like the younger athletic outdoorsy local women that are 35+,...and I'm rather specific about body types and whatnot too. Granted I'm a little bit pickey and set in my ways...but then I can afford to be. Where are guys my age gonna find younger women that like experienced gentlemen?

..so after five years of heavenly sensual bliss...she suddenly leaves me quite quickly back in November for another guy. (huge surprise...no excuses either) I'm obviously quite miffed and irritated with her about it still. She doesn't understand why I'm feeling mad about it though. DUH!!! I don't really hate her or feel like being mean or revengful to her. I did really love her once...my feelings are torn though. I'm not feeling up for big discussion with her for right now either. She wants to be friends with me right now. I'm not really feeling all too friendly towards her quite yet. I told her it will probably be awhile before that even happens....I also told her it might possibly be never. What doesn't she understand about dumping me and then me wanting to go recover for myself first. I told her to stay away for awhile anyways. She thinks I'm being silly! She wants her cake here seriously! What do you think I should serve her up with...and still try keeping it civil?