Randy Q.

A friend just asked me this and I don't know ehat it means

We've been together for almost 2 years now & living together for about 2 months, both 20 years old. There's been 2 separate instances where each of us had way to much to drink & got oral from another person. This I don't really care too much about. What I care about is the guy I found out she's been sexting on & off for the past 8ish months (apparently she's into borderline-BDSM stuff). I found out by reading the texts themselves. I felt horrible about snooping at first, but **** it. The messages I read basically showed that they hadn't actually hooked up but had been at least sexting. The fact that it's been going on so long makes me think I don't even really know her. Since then I've had trouble getting hard around her the few times we've had sex, or at least tried.

It's been almost a month since I found out & things have gotten a lot better in general. There's been no communication between the 2 & she's put a noticeable amount of effort into the relationship. My problem arrises when I look at the situation objectively. If I was giving someone in my position advice I would probably tell them to end it. Obviously I still don't fully trust her, but we're perfectly compatible in just about every other way. Also, the lack of erections isn't encouraging... Advice? If I end the thing, it'll be 10 months of awkwardly living together since we both can't afford anywhere else & have 10 months left on the lease. Should I end it? Should I keep working at it?

I took 2 yesterday and felt very productive. Would taking 3 be alright to do today?

Our relationship started out with a lot of sex but lately she only teases. She'll do overtly sexual things that obviously turn me on but never wants sex. I'm lucky to have sex once a week. We've talked about it and she says her sex drive is just lower. What is the problem? It's killing me

e've been together a year and a half (both just turned 20 years old) and are going to move in together in August. We've pretty much been living together this past year and have already planned out a future together. We both love each other and make each other happy. The only problem is the sex. The first 2-3 months were great. She said I completely changed her view of sex and loved it with me. I'm the only guy who's been able to make her orgasm & can make her do it every time we have sex. However, she rarely gets in the mood anymore & doesn't know why. We both have talked about it and agreed to work on it several times but she always ends ups saying her sex drive is just really low even though it wasn't at the beginning of the relationship. She teases me all the time and only gets in the mood at times that we can't have sex or when we're drunk. I know sex isn't the most important thing in a relationship but it still is important. Advice or suggestions?

My girlfriend have been together for a year about a year and we've used a condom every time but she just told me that she never used them with any of her exes. She has had a lot of sex in the past and it's disgusting to know that she let them get closer to her than she's letting me. We're planning on moving in together, which neither of us have done before, but this fact is just killing me. She won't have sex with me unless I use a condom and it's killing me. Sometimes I lose my erection when I go to put the condom on. Any advice?

We've been together about a year and a half and are going to start living together in August. The sex was great the first 2-3 months. She's had a lot of partners in the past, all of which she had lots of sex with, and said she didn't like sex because of them. After being with me she said she actually enjoyed sex and that I had changed her view of it. Then we had a long distance deal going on for about 2-3 months and since then she rarely ever gets in the mood. We're both committed and have talked about it multiple times. She always says she doesn't know why she isn't in the mood. She really is genuine about it & has even been brought to tears because she gets so frustrated with herself.

I know she isn't cheating. We've talked about a life together & already consider it our future. I know sex isn't what matters most in a relationship but it's still pretty damn important. Does she just want the security of knowing she has a guy committed for life? Is it a libido thing? I really don't know what to do at this point & it gets to be very frustrating. Any advice or suggestions? She also teases me all the time...

We re looking for the most amount of alcohol we can get for the cheapest price. Quality doesn t matter at all. We re thinking vodka is the cheapest (Skol, Burnett s) but we re not sure.

I ve been actively meditating for a couple weeks & making a nonstop effort to be aware of my conscious & subconscious thoughts. Sometimes while meditating I ll notice a pressure between my eyebrows. It ll start off by me feeling very relaxed, somewhat "spiritually" lifted, completely peaceful, then it feels like some sort of energy is flowing either in or out of the center of my eyebrows. Sometimes I ll get a very blurred vision of the shape of an eye. I don t get full on visions, but in the blackness of having my eyes shut I ll sometimes see the faint outline of an eye when this happens. What am I experiencing?

I've been prescribed 10mg of Lexapro for my anxiety which I've been on for 2 days. Would it be safe for me to also take an Adderall if it's just 1 time? I've been looking to get a lot of work done tonight.

I was just prescribed 10mg of Lexapro for my anxiety (I'm supposed to upgrade to 20mg in a week) and took it for the first time last night. I ended up falling asleep at 3am & woke up 3 & a half hours later to a horribly vivid nightmare of some man's face morphing into a reptilian/demon thing. I almost had an anxiety attack right there. It took me about an hour to calm down & I never ended up falling back asleep. Looking back on it, it wasn't that scary but, in the moment, it scared me shitless. Is it worth staying on Lexapro? Over the past year or so I haven't really dreamt at all, then this happens. For the first 6 or so hours of being awake I was experiencing much more anxiety than I normally do. Any thoughts or advice are greatly appreciated.

I had a good amount to drink last night & had the normal hangover symptoms early in the day. After about 4-5 hours of being awake I got nauseous & threw up. After about another 3-4 hours I threw up again. Pretty much all the food I've eaten today has come back up. I know vomiting the day after drinking isn't anything out of the ordinary, but is it normal to throw up this late in the day because of it?

I just restrung my guitar. Somehow in between the time I took my old strings off and put the new ones on, my action decided to readjust itself. After finally adjusting the action (with a ******* stripped nail) the 12-21 frets don t sound right on the B & high e. They re a little quieter than normal on all frets and stop making sound when I even slightly bend them on the 12-21 frets. The 22nd fret is totally fine. I m frustrated. Please help me

Please read all of this before answering:

My girlfriend and I (both 19) have been together a little over a year and have talked about a long future together. We both attend the same college. She's awesome and really does love me (I also love her). Everything about our relationship is perfect, except for the sex. We used to have sex just about every day. She said I'm the best she's ever had in bed.

However, over the summer we lived about 3 hours apart and saw each other only a handful of times. Since getting back to college, we've had sex maybe twice a month. We still do all kinds of fun stuff together. The fact that I can smoke weed & play video games with her (she often instigates this) is ******* awesome. Despite her love for me, our deep emotional bond, & ability to 100% be ourselves around each other, we still rarely have sex. I've talked to her about it 2 or 3 times now and it never gets us anywhere. She says she never really thinks about it and needs to be put in the mood (which wasn't the case last year). I've tried many times to put her in the mood but it never works. At the same time she'll just randomly grab my crotch or grind up against me, not seeming to realize in the slightest that I get aroused by those things. I'm just not really sure what to do. I love her and our relationship but it's almost starting to feel like more of a friendship.

Advice?

My girlfriend and I have been dating a while now and have been in love for a number of months now, we've talked a lot about a very long future together. Last night I just found out that she's been in love at least 3 times before me. She had only told me she'd been in love with one other guy but last night she randomly brought up how much sex she had with her first love. It just doesn't feel good knowing that she's said the exact same things she's said to me to a number of other guys. My relationship history is puny compared to her's. I've just always had higher standards for who I date and I view sex as something I can do with someone I love, which isn't the same for her.

What would be a good perspective for me to look through? I just feel much less significant to her now. Any advice?

I took a 50mg Vyvanse about 16 hours ago, followed by an intense hemiplegic migraine (which I'm still feeling the effects of) about 9 hours ago and now I can't sleep. I feel awful but I can't get tired. I took the medication prescribed to me and it's been long enough for the Vyvanse. I've never had a migraine before so I don't know if that has anything to do with it. Anyways, what is my best course of action right now? I want to sleep but can't.

The past 9 hours has been hell.

My left eye is dilated and I have a huge headache. It comes in waves and intensifies how much the left side of my body hurts and while making my vision blurrier. I felt like I was going to pass out a couple times and my body randomly gets really cold. I smoked some weed and I think it may have been laced. Am i okay? What might it have been laced with? I feel terrible.

I smoked some weed and now one side of my eye is dilated and I keep getting other symptoms. I'm getting anxiety, my body is trembling and gets keeps getting cold, I was nauseous for a little bit, I have a huge headache, & I felt like I was going to pass out.

Was it laced with anything? If so what?

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Whether positive or negative, any feedback is greatly appreciated.