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Can anyone please help us save our relationship?
As of right now, I'm currently in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. We've been together for almost 7 months. Lately we've been talking to each other on the phone everyday for five hours, and we've been drifting further and further apart, Plus, we've been getting into more arguments. We both don't know how to save our relationship, but we don't want to breakup either.
I've hurt him so much, and after we've broken up three times, it seems like we don't trust each other as much as we used to. I know that we love each other unconditionally, but it feels like we haven't fully forgiven each other for all the wrong that we've done to hurt each other.
Though my boyfriend may have told me that we're both at fault for everything that has gone wrong in our relationship, I still feel that I am responsible for everything bad that has happened in our relationship. The first time he broke up with me is because I cheated on him one time with my ex-boyfriend. I regret the day I cheated on him. I have never been able to forgive myself after that day, and I'll never, ever, for the rest of my life, forgive myself for cheating on him. He said that he forgave me for it, but I still feel guilty about cheating on him. I was surprised that after I told him about it, he still wants to be with me, because many people who cheat end up losing their boyfriend or girlfriend or spouse. Throughout our relationship, I was always worried that he might leave me forever, because I cheated on him.
The second time he broke up with me was becauase I didn't get him anything for Valentine's Day, even though we both agreed to send each other something for Valentine's Day. This break up happened the week after the first time we broke up. I really regret not getting him anything for Valentine's Day too, especially since it was supposed to be our first Valentine's Day together. I was as much of an idiot not to get him anything for Valentine's Day as much as I was when I cheated on him. Then we talked for about a week before we got back together.
The third time he broke up with me is because I wasn't able to get whoever was supposed to drive me to where I was going to meet him when he flew to CA from MI. He gave me a month before the day he and his dad were going to fly to CA to tell my uncle, who was supposed to drive me to where I was supposed to meet my boyfriend. Once again, I was an idiot for waiting until the last minute to call my uncle to ask him to drive me to where I was supposed to meet my boyfriend. Well, actually, I was more of an idiot the third time he broke up with me than I was the first two times we had broken up. We were apart for three days before we got back together.
We're always happy that we're together. Though we've already broken up three times, we always come back together, because we love each other and we can't stand to be apart.
Everytime we broke up and got back together, we were always happy to be together, but after a while, we start drifting apart. We try everything that would help close the gap between us, but we keep drifting further apart. We had already taken a two day break, but it didn't help us think of a way to help save our relationship.
My boyfriend and I don't want to break up, but we don't know how to save our relationship either. Please help us. If you have any advice that would help us, I would appreciate it very much.
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