Clara

I'm 20 years old and I have always been with guys from the ages of 18-20. My new boyfriend is 25. I'm used to men being able to "bounce back" after having an orgasm. Him, not so much. I can have sex 3+ times a day. Him, maybe twice on a good day. After he climaxes it is nearly impossible for him to "get it up" again. I'm left nearly always unsatisfied and this morning we actually fought about it. I love him, I do, but I have absolutely no interest in sex now because I am left completely frustrated and upset. He knows how I feel and now we're fighting. It hard having a partner that doesn't sexually satisfy you...how do I regain interest? how can I help him get hard again? We've tried toys and pills and fore-play. He cums and done.

Hey, I'm 19 years old and have had Crohns disease for 4 years. I know I'm coming out of remission cause I'm bloating a lot more, I don't go to the bathroom everyday anymore, I feel more nauseated, and I want to sleep all the time. Last time I came out of remission I lost twenty pounds. so far since Tuesday (it's now Saturday ) on the scale I've only gained 3 of those 20 back in the last almost 4 months. I can't afford to loose more weight cause then I'll be under weight. But eating makes me feel horrible painfully bloated irritated and nauseated. Does anyone know of a way to try to stop the bloating and constipation without laxatives? I take Phillips and that sometimes makes things worse or better. I have no energy. Even eating makes me take a nap afterwards. I also know I'm coming out or out because my stomach makes more noises and effort when digesting. I was calm for about 2 months and I really don't want to go back to a strict diet. Which I could only handle one sandwich a day at that. Advice?

our last fight was literally a conversation of this

"what"

"nothing"

What (my name)"

"nothing?"

"fine whatever bye"

So I call, doesnt answer. Call again and hes like WHAT and I said woah whats with that attitude nothings wrong. And he complains im not telling him whats wrong when really there is nothing wrong. But I ask him do you want me to call you later cause he was just waking up. I asked 3 times before I get an answer of why? I told him cause he was just waking up and then i went on to ask how his day was and no response. so i ask again if he wants to talk later nothing then after 4 more times, literally, i get yelled at. I'm sick of being nice and after 13 years I want to just walk away. Im suppose to go up there this weekend to see his mom but she forward my call. Im tired of feeling like the bad guy. :/

Most of the "black" people I've met mention slavery. The best part is, is that they were never slaves and I never inslaved them. They always say "its because im black" when they never really seem to think maybe its because they did something or they lack something. This whole Ferguson thing has blown racism out of proportion. They never took into consideration that if that male was there stealing, mind you, from a store he might have never died. If he didnt punch a police officer, he might have never died. If he didnt try to resist arrest, he might have never died. If he didnt try to unarm a police officer, he might have never died. I feel people only want to see what they want to believe (belief-bias). I'm not justifying anything. I just think "black" people act like the victim when statistically proven they are the most to cause crimes. And, they are the most killed, usually because they are in the middle of a crime. I dont believe in #blacklivesmatter I believe in #alllivesmatter because if you stop categorizing them as black and seeing them as humans isnt that accomplishing what they are so desperately trying to get people to see? By making them included....? Idk I'm just tired of being accused as racist when I'm mixed and I've seen actual racism. People throw the word around so easily.

I already take hair, skin, and nail pills. I dont shampoo wash my hair, only use natural cleaners and conditioners. I dont have to wash it for about 9-14 days because it never gets oily. I dont use any products except coconut oil. I always braid it loosely. I straighten it about once/twice a month. I use a conditioning wrap at night so it doesnt break while I sleep. I get it cut every two months. Any more ways to make it grow faster?

When I visit him he is so sweet and nice. I buy things for him like house hold items when he runs out i.e toliet paper and napkins and detergent.

I dont have a job and he has yet to be paid for his first week at his job so I dont mind. I wanted to go visit him but I dont have enough money for gas. I dont want to ask him for money because his answer is to "stop buying me things then" Well how am I suppose to wipe my *** at his house if I dont buy toliet paper?

He is a complete jerk over texting and im sick of his attitude. I've known him for 13 years but I'm thinking about just dropping him. Should I?