WhyDoYouWannaKnow

My girlfriend whom I really like of 4 months had told me she never slept with anyone. She is 16. Unfortunately i have had a history of partners who lied to me. She left her ipod touch at my house, and in my paranoia i read her facebook messages. I read a conversation that took place soon before we dated. The topic was about STDs, and she asked "Were you worried the morning after with me? That was technically my first time but two seconds doesnt really count.."

I was hurt when i read this. I KNOW it was a violation of privacy and honesty to read this message. I dont want our relationship to end butI dont like being lied to... Should I even apptoach her? There have been NO probelms up to this point!

I had my heart smashed by the worst chick in humanity about a month ago. Ive been talking to a new girl for about a month and she admits to liking me a lot. I know she is really smart and funny and cool but she seems a bit clingy. I would rather spend more time with her before rushing into a bunch of "lovey" stuff. How do i tell her this or act so she cools down a bit?

Me and this girl have loved each other for over 2 years but last summer when we were broken up, she got another boyfriend. She doesnt really even like him but she stays with him. She and I see each other a lot, every weekend, and 3 days per week usually, and we go on lunch dates, ice cream ect. Yesterday she came over to my house with her sister. While her sister was on facebook behind us, i started flirting with her. She jumped on my lap and started giggling and dryhumping. I then took out her boob and started sensually massaging it and her back. She giggled and jumped off again. Now, she is trying to say that it wasnt "cheating" so she can keep her shitty bf. Why? I just want to be with her so badly. I hate feeling second place to someone who isnt even worth anything to her. What should I do?

I have Harbinger APS 15s that show the clip light earlier than it seems they should. When they "clip" i dont even hear any distortion. Basically what im asking is, can i just turn these up really loud since they are powered speakers? Isnt the built in amp optimized for the speaker anyway, so could it actually harm the speaker?

Im buying the Pioneeer DDJ WEGO midi controller but i need to know which cables to buy... It has 2 rca outputs on the controller. My powered PAs have 1/8inch inputs and 1/4 inch inputs. I also need to know if when im plugged into the laptop via USB, could i just use a 1/8 inch connected to my laptop to get sound?

I am trying to get a DJ hobby started. Which would be the minimum sized/cost speakers I would need to sufficiently play a good set from a small house party, to a big homecoming dance. I was looking at a pair of Acoustic Audio 10 in 400 Watt Active PA Speakers. Would these do the trick?

I had a weird girlfriend this past year. She made me feel love for the first time, but also made me angry with some of her weird antics. (i.e. not wanting to go to the school dances with me, her boyfriend) I broke up with her because she wasnt what i wanted in a girlfriend, but i still really cared about her. Just recently she got another boyfriend, and my best friend always talks about their relationship. (Because for some reason, the girl, likes to call my best friend to tell him about her relationship?) Anywho, every time my friend mentions her, or her boyfriend, i just get really angry and depressed. Because my ex girlfriend says she loves me and wants me, yet she couldnt even go to a freaking homecoming dance with me? (its not that she didnt go to the dance, she went without me with her friends. She also did this at our winter formal) And my friend is always blabbing about what they do in bed and what not. I hate this. I dont know why every time i see her or hear about her, i get angry, annoyed, and depressed at the same time. Am I just jealous? Or is this something more?

I have a weighted gpa of 4.6 and an unweighted gpa of 4.0. I participate in german club, jazz band, band, link crew, and currently no sports. I will soon rnter my junior year, and im going to do cross country in the fall and track in the spring. Since i apply to my senator/congressman my junior year, as well as a service academy, will only one year of sports limit my chances based on my current lineup of activities? If so, what are my other options?

I went to a dubstep rave (excision) last night and everyone around me was eating this white crystally powdery stuff in small amounts. this one guy used the tip of his car key to scoop up a small amount, and he just ate it. it looked similar to sugar. a few other people were just eating it out of their hands. The bags they had were tiny no more than a teaspoon. And they danced a lot more than anyone else. Was this some powdery form of ecstacy?

Me and this girl really like each other, we're not dating, but we went to the movies together. She kept asking me if i was bored, and then she held my hand a few times. Then she kept turning her head and looking at me, as if we were going to kiss, i would turn towards her, and she would quickly turn back away. This happened numerous times....What did she want?!

Well my girlfriend who i really cared and liked broke up with me because she said she felt "too immature" and that she "wasnt ready for activities that go on during a relationship". She also said she doesnt want me to stay waiting for her in a relationship that wasnt going anywhere because of her. I admire her honesty because she has never been exposed to dating of ANY kind until this year, and we dated for 2 months. We both still like each other, but i dont know if i should move on, or wait for her. Because i dont want to move on and then she sitting there waiting for me because i do still care about her. And i do plan on staying friends with her.

Ive been dating this girl for 2 months now, and i really like her. I've never told her i loved her but just that i really care for her etc. But shes mentioned a few times that shes "afraid that you love me" or "i think you're in love with me" and ive told her that i will tell her if i do but idk why she is so afraid of it if she likes me too. im not the kind of person to just throw that word around btw im just saying, im worried that if i do grow to be "in love" with her she will reject me out of fear. She is so afraid because she has never been in a relationship before because of her parents, and she is very very afraid around me. All we have done is kissed, and she almost broke up with me because she thought i wasnt satisfied with her. I just dont know how to go about this.

We talk on the phone a lot and she is mostly open and fine. She told me that when we're together however, she wants to say/do a lot of things but she is really "nervous and embarrased." we have kissed but just a quick kiss nothing more. she says she wants to do more with me and so do i but she still is just "too nervous". we have been dating over a month. how do i make her less nervous?

I dont know what to do. I have a girlfriend and we have been dating one month. Iv'e never felt like this about anyone before. But its strange. She said she didnt want to hold my hand yesterday when i tried. We only hug now and she stopped kissing me last week. I tried to talk to her about it but it only makes her upset and she just wants to drop the subject. I know she likes me, but i dont know why shes acting this way. I dont want to lose her, but i dont want to be the only driving force in a relationship either.

so last night she gave me her facebook password by mistake and i thought it would be funny to log on and leave a status saying "My boyfriend was here!" as a joke. But then i see she has a msg from another kid at my school. They were sending hearts and saying i love you friend ! blah blah blah. And then i see a message she sent saying she was worried that i was considering showing up at our homecoming, and she didnt want me to go, because she likes to dance with other people. I dont know how to feel. I really like her. but i just dont know how to feel about this. not only she didnt want me to go, but i dont know how to feel about the little hearts they sent. were they friendly? or more than friendly...?

I have a wonderful girlfriend who im really beginning to like. We have been dating about 2 weeks only now, and i had asked her to homecoming before we were dating. She said she had already had plans to go with her friends and party ect. I was cool with that. But now homecoming is tonight, and i feel strange that i wont be going, and my girlfriend will. Should i go? or should i not worry?

Everything makes me angry. Girls. people. the way things work for other people. the troubles i face come easy to others. they way i can be labeled as a loser and they make it sound like im a bad person. i generally dont like people..but i wonder if there will ever be a person who is real? genuine? But i dont want to be so angry at everything.

So far i speak english and german. Im a sophmore in highschool and plan on getting a degree in linguistics and learning russian. eventually i want to learn Mandarin but thats a long term goal. I just need some suggestions on whether or not linguistics is good? Bad? Also, im planning on doing the German exchange program in my school for overseas experience, although i dont know if this is good enough. ALSO my biggest struggle is which college would be best for the CIA. I plan on also being an open source intern. P.S. I have a GPA of 4.59 if that helps.

I'm 15 turning 16 (male) and i weigh roughly 107 Lbs and i am 5'8. I eat a TON and work out but i dont ever gain any weight.. Suggestions?

And i took a nap from 4-8 pm being the only sleep i had received in 33 hours. When would be a proper time to go back to sleep for the night to insure i dont wake up at 4 AM full of energy. Plus i have an important event tomorrow so i cannot sleep in as well.