Bugsy

I was walking through town and this shop owner was sat outside his shop. He was staring at me with a big smile on his face, as I walked towards him. He didn't take his eyes off me at all and continued to smile.

This guy who owns a cafe, he is 34 and I am 22. We don't know each other that well but he flirts with me. . calls me darling. Every time I go in there he calls me by my first name and asks me how I am. He has told me I am good looking.

However, every time he drives past me (bearing in mind we don't know each other that well) he beeps his horn at me. Why does he do it?

I was walking towards a guy I know and he was walking towards me.

As we were passing he said 'Hello (my name)' , waved and was staring at my eyes. . .then I saw him look down my body to my breasts.

What does this mean?

I was walking towards a guy I know and he was walking towards me.

As we were passing he said 'Hello (my name)' , waved and was staring at my eyes. . .then I saw him look down my body to my breasts.

What does this mean?

I was walking down the road and my friend drove past me, tooting his horn at me which he always does when he sees me.

I messaged him saying - Sorry I didn t smile, I d just finished a night shift and I was sleepy

I then messaged You were probably staring at something else anyway (my attempt at being flirty as I was wearing a low cut top)

he then replied Yeah, the girl behind you

was this response a joke?

I was walking down the road and my friend drove past me, tooting his horn at me which he always does when he sees me.

I messaged him saying - Sorry I didn t smile, I d just finished a night shift and I was sleepy

I then messaged You were probably staring at something else anyway (my attempt at being flirty as I was wearing a low cut top)

he then replied Yeah, the girl behind you

was this response a joke?

Talking about a man who flirts with me. He has told me before that I have a pretty face and that I'm a good looking girl.

I saw him the other day and showed him a photo of me, he joked around and said it was someone else. I messaged him saying

'Of course it was me, are you trying to say I'm not good looking?'

he replied with

'Of course you are very good looking'

Is this a genuine compliment?

A man told me I'm very good looking but I keep thinking it was a joke!

Do men ever say a woman is beautiful or good looking for a joke or do they always mean it?

Before I tell you my question, I am no longer interested in this man...was just wondering why he was behaving like this. He is a young married man who owns a cafe...we get on quite well he always says hi (my name) how are you when he sees me and he s always smiling.

He basically chatted me up saying I m pretty, good looking and when I went in there in my gym stuff he said I have big t*ts and its bad that he can t touch. This was flirting on messages and he didn t believe me when I said I ve never had a boyfriend etc. I offered him my number and he said he don t think it s good idea as he is married

I didn t know this and the next day when I messaged him he said the flirting needs to stop. He still friendly and lovely but barely speaks to me when his wife is around, because she works there occasionally.

Before I ask my question, no I don't fancy this man but I am curious about his behaviour. Basically he is 34 with a wife and 2 young children and I am 22. He owns a cafe in town where I am a regular customer. His wife works there also.

He always flirts with me when she isn't around. He gives me lots of compliments such as I'm pretty, have nice breasts and I look good etc. We do exchange messages occasionally. One day I popped in when he was working with his wife, I messaged him after and he said that we need to stop flirting. He declined my number as he said it "wasn't a good idea" whenever his wife is in the cafe he barely speaks to me and when she isn't there he flirts and smiles and talks lots to me.

Does he fancy me or something?!

Before I tell you my question, I am no longer interested in this man...was just wondering why he was behaving like this. He is a young married man who owns a cafe...we get on quite well he always says hi (my name) how are you when he sees me and he s always smiling.

He basically chatted me up saying I m pretty, good looking and when I went in there in my gym stuff he said I have big t*ts and its bad that he can t touch. This was flirting on messages and he didn t believe me when I said I ve never had a boyfriend etc. I offered him my number and he said he don t think it s good idea as he is married

I didn t know this and the next day when I messaged him he said the flirting needs to stop. He still friendly and lovely but seems slightly awkward. Why did he suddenly pull away? Is it because he doesn t find me attractive or something

I've entered measurements into calculators but I've been given all sorts of strange answers...in inches on the bust I measure 40.6 inches and around my rib cage underneath breasts I measure 30.9 inches ..help please

Before I tell you my question, I am no longer interested in this man...was just wondering why he was behaving like this. He is a young married man who owns a cafe...we get on quite well he always says hi (my name) how are you when he sees me and he s always smiling.

He basically chatted me up saying I m pretty, good looking and when I went in there in my gym stuff he said I have big t*ts and its bad that he can t touch. This was flirting on messages and he didn t believe me when I said I ve never had a boyfriend etc. I offered him my number and he said he don t think it s good idea as he is married

I didn t know this and the next day when I messaged him he said the flirting needs to stop. He still friendly and lovely but seems slightly awkward. Why did he suddenly pull away? Is it because he doesn t find me attractive or something

When I flirt with my crush, for example 'I could do with some TLC' he always says no and then tells me 'I'm sure you have a list of men who would give you some'

Then when I tell him I'm not interested in anyone else he just says 'Yeah yeah'

why is he responding in this way?

To make a story very brief, I have a crush on a man (well call him A) who knows I fancy him...we do flirt etc. I made a drunken mistake a while ago by sleeping with a mutual friend (call him B)

Man A is always making little digs at me referring to man B for example 'I'm sure B finds you attractive ' or ' are you still riding B' and not only this he told another mutual friend that we ******. I confronted A about telling someone else about it and he just gave me a massive grin. . .

Last night he asked if I went out clubbing and I said yeah but I didn't see B (because I knew he would ask if I'd slept with him) and A said 'I'm sure you would have been laid naked on his bed for him ' why does keep making little digs? Is he jealous?

I went into one of my favourite cafes to get a hot chocolate and I was chatting to the men who work there. Last week I went in there with a friend who was after a job. Today, he asked about her. .

He said to me 'She will fit in well and bring in customers because she has a pretty face.'

and then he asked me if I would like to work there. . .is he basically calling me pretty?

So I'm 22 and I made a silly drunken mistake not too long ago. I had sex with a friend who is in his early fifties, who I will refer to as A

A mutual friend (who is in mid 30s who I have a huge crush on) - we will call him B -keeps teasing me about it after I told him.

Literally near enough every conversation we have he brings up the mans name, for instance 'I'm sure (mans name) would help you out'

I found out that B told yet another mutual friend, (female, will call her C) that I slept with A. When I confronted B he gave me a big cheeky grin. . .

is he doing this because he is jealous?

So I'm 22 and I made a silly drunken mistake not too long ago. I had sex with a friend who is in his early fifties, who I will refer to as A

A mutual friend (who is in mid 30s who I have a huge crush on) - we will call him B -keeps teasing me about it after I told him.

Literally near enough every conversation we have he brings up the mans name, for instance 'I'm sure (mans name) would help you out'

I found out that B told yet another mutual friend, (female, will call her C) that I slept with A. When I confronted B he gave me a big cheeky grin. . .

is he doing this because he is jealous?

Now this is going to seem like a silly question, but I am curious. Long story short I have a crush on a 34 year old and I am 22, he knows I fancy him. . and I have for a long time. We do flirt and he has told me in the past that I'm attractive etc.

The thing is, I usually only ever bump into him in the gym. . .and I don't wear makeup, I usually look a mess in the gym. Today, I went into town and because I was going out in the afternoon I put on some natural looking makeup and some nice clothes.

I bumped into him and he eyed me up and down, asked me where I had been and what I had done. . when I explained that I had met someone for coffee he assumed it was a 'hot date'. . .but why look me over and ask where I've been/what I was doing?