Alyssa

I want serious answers please, I will reward 10 points for the best answer.

I used to self-harm, and I just started up again but did it on my thighs this time because I don't want my dad or friends to know I started again.

I went pretty deep multiple times on my thighs today... It bled through and I had to quickly go to the bathroom and add more bandage.

When I walk, my right leg feels slightly numb.

Will the feeling go away?? Soon?

I really don't wanna go get help because It's the end of the school year and I already feel suicidal and I don't want to get put in the hospital again or I might have to retake freshman year, I don't know. Please help. Am I worrying too much? Too little? I don't know what to do.

(If this helps, I did this 3 hours ago).

How did it go for you guys? Did it hurt at all?? Did you have to try more than once (more than one day) because it wouldn't go in because of pain?

I tried losing my virginity a week ago with my boyfriend. He's super patient and we're both ready, we've been waiting for awhile. I have condoms and lube, and we used them but his penis wouldn't go in?? Like, it hurt so bad. I know there's the hymen and it has to "break through" and it can hurt sometimes, but it hurt so bad and I told him to do it anyway and he tried but it just wouldn't go in no matter how hard he pushed??

I eventually had to stop because it hurt so bad. I'm so embarrassed. We're super close and neither of us are mad at each other for it. If anything, he slightly blames himself. He's being patient but I'm too scared to try again because I feel like it won't work and I'll just get embarrassed again. I was really looking forward to it but it wouldn't work and I was wondering if anyone had this problem too?? And how to fix it?

Is there something I'm doing wrong?

I read something about being relaxed and I was pretty relaxed but I tensed up when it wasn't working and got frustrated. Any advice?? Please help!!!

I keep meeting new friends and they all keep leaving and it just hurts. I'm in 9th grade, a freshman. All throughout middle school everything was so tough, and now in high school I've felt that everything's gotten better except the fact that all my friends have start either leaving me or hating me. I'm not really sure why. But it just hurts so much. I already hate myself, I've been hospitalized 3 times for suicidal ideation, one of which for an actually attempt (overdose). I thought they'd support me but they all hate me and this is just making everything so much worse. I really wanna hurt myself. Not trying to seek for attention. I just don't know what to do. I don't even think life is worth it without people to be there for you. It just hurts. I don't understand why friends keep leaving. I know, "keep hanging in there, it'll all be better". But I keep trying and keep losing people and I can't take it anymore

Me and my girlfriend were wanting to perform a song together. I was going to bring my acoustic and sing with her.

We were wondering what a good song would be to duet together? This is in front of an audience, too.

We're both girls, if that helps with a song choice.

Also, please no country, neither of us are fans of country.

It can be a song sang by a guy, that's totally fine, as long as the voice isn't too deep XD

So this thing is next Tuesday (Mic night). Please help!

My sister's boyfriend is really sarcastic but really rude at the same time. Today I walked downstairs to ask why the toilet was broken (there was no water in it and i slept in) and he's like, "Because it's broken!" and he said it in a way like i was dumb or something. I hate it when he uses that tone with me, I hate it. ANd I tell him to stop and stuff but he doesn't. Sometimes he even pushes me and today I was just randomly crossing my arms and then he crosses his arms and acts all snotty and that really pissed me off and now idk why but I'm crying. He's just really mean to me... what do I do?

***Warning; ignoring all the hate comments.

So where should i cut now? I can't cut on my wrists because my friend always checks my wrist (no where else though) and has for one year straight and says if i do it again then she's telling my mom. And my mom hates me enough already.

Anyways, besides the wrist, I can't really cut on my stomach or thighs! Reason is, it's summer and I'm going to be swimming A LOT this summer. So where else can I cut?

Don't say, "If you really want to die lay on train tracks" or something. because frankly, I cut to live, not to die. I know that sounds stupid, but cutting stops me from committing suicide. It might sound confusing but I don't expect any people who don't cut to understand.

The best I explain about it is that instead of putting a rope around my neck or jumping in front of a car or something, I cut to feel pain to solve my problems. But I don't do it to end it. If that makes sense.. I mean I've tried before but I just need to feel pain.

So any suggestions? And no one can convince me to stop. I'm sorry. Also yeah... please don't give me that counseling bull ****. No offense, but I've seen many different therapists, and none of them have helped me. Maybe a little bit, but not really to the point where I'm happy again. So please, don't suggest websites, phone numbers, etc. Thank you <3

I am currently dating someone and my best friend (whom i met at an anime convention friday) asked me out and said he loved me... problem is i like both of them but i like the current date better than my best friend in a lovey dovey kind of way. But I don't know how to let him down. Also, he kissed my cheek and he keeps grabbing me and trying to kiss me on the lips and I don't know what to do!! Please help. I'm only going to see him on Sunday at the anime convention from 10am-5pm and I am so struck on what to do! It was hard enough getting away from him kissing me for 5 minutes. Imagine oh-so many hours!!! Please help!! Pleasepleasepleaseplease

I need my hair to grow a lot at least in a year. My hair as been at practically the same length every year. I get it cut every now and then, well, only my dead/split ends. I need help please!

Her birthday's coming up really soon! What are some sweet love songs? I'm up for the slower ones but either work fine! She's always wanted me to sing to her and I really want to! What should I sing? Thanks!!!!

My girlfriend's birthday is coming up and I have no idea what to get her! Maybe jewelry or something? But I mean, i dunno, maybe something else? What should I do?

Also, my parents don't know about us dating because apparently it's "wrong" to date the same gender and dont lecture me cuz I love her with all of my heart and nothing will change that. Anyways, One option is that I CANNOT tell my parents, so please dont nag me to...

Please help! I'm running out of time!

I am very confused. I am using my laptop to go on omegle.com and the webcam was working just fine. Now, only a minute later, I had to go and do the dishes. I come back and its showing a black screen for me. I tried restarting but that didn't work either! Please hurry and answer i really want to know how to get this to work!!

I know it's not Valentine's Day yet, but it's coming up and I really need help with something! Okay, first of all, if you're going to be rude please don't comment and waste your breath and leave, alright? Thanks. Well... first of all, I have a girlfriend. (I'm a girl btw. No hate. Appreciated :P )

And last year we dated and our parents were okay with it but then my mom said we can't spend the night because we might 'do stuff' and I'm almost 14 and she's 14 almost fifteen. We even told each other we don't want to do stuff like that ... yet ;)

(And besides even if we did she couldn'y get me pregnant...! Omg lol)

But anyways, we broke up because her parents wouldn't let us see OR talk to each other anymore!

About 5 months later, we got back together again. She's always there for me especially when I'm depressed and she talks me out of doing bad things... (I'm suicidal, sooo)... anyways we're going out secretly and since my mom and her parents know we broke up they dont have any suspicion we're going out anymore so we;re allowed to hang out!

BUt the problem is that she lives about 20 minutes away from my house and I want to do something special for her for valentine's day! Her house is a bit farther away (20 mins like i said) and I really dont want to be lame and give her nothing but the "Happy valentine's day baby i love you <3!" same ol' same ol' cliche, I want it to be super special!

Please help thanks so much! 10 points to best answer!!!

I've tried to stop cutting but it never works. I almost killed myself a week ago but decided not to because of one person that said they'd follow. My life is going to sh!t and I need help with something.. I cut all over my stomach since it's winter. Don't say anything about me, you don't know me, so please don't... but what do I do?

My mom said later today she's going to take us to an indoor pool. It's morning so what can I do? I'm not telling her or she really will sent me to therapy this time... please please help me I'm crying please...

Okay.... so a year ago a girl saw I cut and she told the principle and the counslers have checked me for over a year now... my mom found out because she got a phone call.... anyway, I want to know some place besides the wrists where I could cut! Thank you <3

And please no lectures I know, it's addicting and It's like a drug. But I can't stop now, I can't. It's too hard and it's addicting. 1 cut becomes 100, I know the story. Because... well it's true. So... please?

I want to make something amazing for Thanksgiving! I want to blow the family away and practice cooking! I wanna make something special.. and something everyone will enjoy! I'm only a teen but I wanna prove something! Lol which dish would sound better? (I have it set by difficulty)

-Pumpkin Cheesecake -Medium-

-Pumpkin Rolls (Look like swiss rolls but with pumpkin) -Hard-

-Apple Squares -Easy-

-Pumpkin Bars -Easy-

Lol I know, a lot of pumpkin! But hey, it's the Thanksgiving spirit! I think.. LOL!

Okay so it's like an ipod 4 I think. I just got it as a present but I'm confused with something. When I click 'settings' and go to 'wifi' and select on, nothing pops up. Except for 'other..' so I clicked that and entered the name of 3 wirelesses in this house and the passwords (even though 2 of them don't have passwords) and every time I click 'Join' I get the same thing, this is what it says...

'Could not scan for wireless networks'

I've tried everything but it won't connect no matter what! And by 'Choose a Network' nothing pops up at all, but on my laptop it does! Please help <3 And I will give 10 points to the most helpful answer!! Please don't be rude or sarcastic I'm getting realllly stressed over this;(

Me and my boyfriend have been together for about a month now, so I don't want to go crazy on the gift. But his birthday only happens once a year, and I want it to be special!

He doesn't have a sweet tooth: he doesnt really like candy or soda. He has a peanut allergy which is why he can't eat most candybars (Recess, Crunch, Snickers, etc.)

About the stuffed animal: I don't think he'd want one. If I did get him one, though, I'd have no idea what kind to get him, as in panda, bear, dog, cat, etc.

I want it to be a total surprise, so I don't want to ask him what he wants.

I don't want to give him money. That's something I will not do because I don't want to make this easy. I want to go get him something.

I'm thinking about getting him Pocky. it's these sticks that have chocolate on the end and some have strawberry. But I want to give him something else as well besides Pocky. Any ideas??? Oh and I only have a few days so please hurry!

Best answer gets 10 points~ <3

(A homeade gift would be fine, but I need ideas on what to do for it. And I don;t want the gift to be over 15 dollars, I don't want to spend too much on it. I dont have a lot of money and he might be a little upset if I got him something too expensive. Thanks!) =)

Just curious! :P even though it's not close to valentine's day yet, I want to be ready. Whenever a guy shops for a girl, he usually gets her jewelry, roses, and/or a box of chocolates. But what should a girl give to a guy? I've never had a boyfriend during valentine's day before and i know i've got a keeper ;) so what should I do?

Also Im just curious bc my friends usually dont give their bf's anything and they also wanna know what to get them! Thanks (Best answer will get 10 points)

I'm turning 13 and I want to know what a good birthday party would be. It can be anything, I just want to know what all there is. My sisters doing laser tag but idk if I want to do that too, or...

So can I have at LEAST 5 or 10 ideas plzzz??

Thanks

I know this sounds silly, but I've only dated about 2 people. Well, 3 to be exact. It never felt good, and the only time it ever did, I got dumped..

I need to know what love is. I have 2 crushes but one of them has a gf and never respects my feelings. I don't understand why he means so much to me. He's an asshole and he tells people how weak I am but some reason I just wanna be his..

I'm so confused, I've been crying. My heart is aching and I just want to know what love is...

Should I just give up on love? What should I do..? What is love?