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On the birth certificate it is listed as father is unknown. We were never married n never lived together once the birth of my son as I moved in w/ my parents to better myself. My sons biological has an extensive arrest n eviction record. He has 3 active warrents right now one is a felonoy but not good enough to extradite on. He is diagnosed w/ savere mental problems. He is listed on the county record of owing the government money n daily fines are added as a result it states on puplic record that he can ever own an asset or the county will take it n sell it to help repay monies owed. He does not file w/ the irs becuase the county will take that too. He is to smart to ever legally marry knowing that his womans eic will be taken as well.... he only works under the table as well so the county can not garnish his wages. ..... n he has been avoiding child support for 12 yrs. His mother, father, sister n friends also will not help in locating him over the yrs. I did find him n have a present address that has neen verified by the local post office n working phone number. I gave it to child support n they said that they will try one more time to serve him w/ a court ordered paternity test but if he doesn't answer or his girl friend says he doesn't live there that they will close the case again. So my question is should continue to persue this child support? I don't want to but my son is old enough to decide n he said he doesn't want to have anything to do w/ his biological but he wants me to pursue this for the money so he can put it in a savings account n use it for college tuition. I figure I have the best situation right now. Or should I call child support tommorro n say well, I am not sure anymore who the father is as I was w/ muiltiple partners that night. (inwhich I wasn't but that way they would have to shut the book on it or that would push my ex to finally be found n served ... not sure how this would play out....) But for Now Only I have custody n rights so I don't have to worry about anything plus my husband of 6 yrs want to adopt my son n my son wants to be adopted.... I figure since my son is so smart that he can still go to college w/ scholarships n grants. I may b in a postion that I could take a loan for it.....Not sure what to do...... support or adoption. My son is old enough to now make this decision on his own I will support him either way and yes, emotions play a part on decisions at this age..... but my son wants his cake n wants to eat it too n the world doesn't work that way..... So I am torn in what the best decision should be..... I am not perfect,.... I just try to my best..... what to do.... thanks!

I am a young pretty blonde headed girl....Everytime I go to the gas station, store or what ever all I here is : "hola! sexy chica"! I mean it's like hollered out n follwed by a whistle..... Then I hear "Chinko me dinga"!!! I am so scared to be in my own counrty America!!! I just don't know what to do anymore.... As I stated I am a young, blonde white female & I feel threatened everytime time I go out.... What makes matters worse is I will ask them are u an American do u understand me & they ALWAYS ANSWER.... "no hablo inglés ".... So I will at this point hollar "Immigration" as this point so they will leave me alone n they so have have just scattered just bugs.... I am so scared I am going to get raped,... mugged, or my house will get broken into.... I almost lost my job last week to someone who could only speak Spanish.... How fair is that???? They couldn't even communicate w/ the Americans!!!! I just don't know.... I don't eat, sleep, & rarely leave my house anymore.... Please Help!!! Can I go to my local welfare office n file for food stamps, housing, utilities payments, transportation to n from work, medicaid for me n my children,,,, Will they also not require me to pay taxes for I don't know.... atleast 7 yrs???? Can I get my children approved VPK & free lunches??? I was going file bankrupcty last yr but changed my mind..... but while doing this can I work on my credit while I am hiding.... Oh, Oh Please Help Me I am A Scared American & I Just wanna know u the taxpayers r legally mandated to support me!!!!! Please Help!!!

Question is as is.... No this will fire some guns...lol.... I know what I think but curious what yall think! I'm ready for the nastynest.... bring it on!!! lol....