~Angel~

To the men, what do you do when you love a woman.

I just wonder why people are just plan nasty at times. I volunteer on a sports progam and wow.. people have an opinion and don't want to step up and make a differance. I teach my kids if you have a complaint then step up and make a differance, if they don't wanna help change then they don't need to complain. I have grown as a person and learned alot from stepping up and being a coordiantor for cheerleading, pictures 4 football & cheerleading, ordering trophies, being a coach 4 cheerleading and just helping where needed. people don't stop and and think how there action may effect someone. I am on a board that doesn't communicate, I have very high expections and I guess to high. I not only volunteer in my kids sports but in other areas, I am told I fight battles some would walk away from. I can't you lead by example. I am a role model for 51 cheerleaders and several missionaries.I just wish people would be more respectful of others. I have expections for my kids are being respectful,kind,compassionate, an example are just a few expectionions I have. Maybe to strong for some.

Serious answers only please...I have a friend and she is seeing a 28 yr old she is 34 yrold, He is very mature 4 his age and in love, He would do anything 4 her..I am curious, Met a 25 yr old who acted older mature, his own house and all, what makes these guys want older woman...Also been out of the seen 4 a long time and not really looking at this time, so I wanna know if he's trying, or just being nice. He made sure after we met n talked that I knew he'd be at this location every weekend, He was also very respectful with my kids around..Also he shaves..lol I know this because I almost fell grabbed his arm to catch myself and well no hair, he told me he has none any where..I was sop red...just curious..I know I haven't had good experiances with my age group of men & not the older ones either..

In my last question I guess I focussed more on the abuse, I know he emotionally abused me, verablly, shoved me 2x's, always took others side..He now doesn't do any of those things, I notice a little things as I mwanna go skating with my daughter and I, I felt he got upset cause I jusat wanted it to be her n I while he went finishing w/ our boys, He said he was just shocked, I do usually go with just our family, I find myself still in the patteren, of how he and my past before him has made me. I hate it. I don't know how to go forward with him and let go of the abuse, I know he is different in many ways, better, now I feel bad cause I can't seem to get past the crap he did. I am happy he isn't doing it anymore, I feel as tho he deserves someone who can go forward with him. I am always going to remember, how do I go forward with the man who abused me after he has truly changed?

My husband and I have been together for 14 yr. He has been controlling for the most of it, abused mentally& verbally. Rejected sexually, used for sex, belittled, he doesn't remember doing it he says, he cheated on me that I know of 2 x's, he doesn't admit to it though.My kids are my world I tried to leave and even divorced him, I ended up back with him everytime, he didn't pay child support we had joint coustdy.It was very hard, we remarried, n yes I feel stupid. That was 2 yrs. ago a yr later we almost split up again, he took up for his brother in a issue w/ me he always takes his moms n brothers side, his brother is bipolar..He now goes to church and does good, I have a very hard time though still, he seems to get a bit jealous or offended if I wanna do something without him..I don't get that. I still feel as though I am going to be in trouble if I do something. He gives me money without ? now, of course I don't work n he doesn't want me 2.I feel a bit trapped. How do I go forward?

Why do people after a relationship need to get involved as soo as they can? Also why do people when feeling start arising just run? Why when a relationship is over do people got to be butts about it, If it didn't work then it didn't work.

Are men attracted to a female that is out going, assertive, strong willed, fiesty with a bit of sas, sexy, confidient, and independant. Some men seem to not know how to deal with this...Would like mens input..

I have met this guy and he n I click on many different levels, both have survived hard childhoods meaning death abuse such, hard relationships, controling people his ex n my ex..so bot been burned.. we both have children, I have been healing along time and let go of my anger towards others and strive to forgive them. He still has alot of anger towards his ex, and she makes things where his daughter is concerened. He will open up and let me in , telling me he can fall for me, that he is. I've never had a man star so deep within my eyes before. Keeping telling me he just doesn't wanna get hurt. He has gotten jealous, we got past it. He has put that wall up we broke it down, all within 2 months, we've known each other for a yr, just not this way. He remembered what we talked about a yr ago. we going to help each other out and be roomates with his other roomate, I know stupid, but didn't. he kept getting the ups falling thing again to the down, the wall n stress. I over reacted on an issue

relationship...

Pretty sure he is but, hey worth the input..

Keeps telling me How he can fall for me and is starting to. He has been hurt in past as well as I have.Both of us have been really hurt by other people. I told him the epople who have been hurt as we have learn to appricate someone for their inner self. When he looks @ me it's like he's looking deep within. We both have children, my children know him but do not know we are dating, don't want to let them to until we see where this leads. He has a beauitful little girl and she is only 2, I have met her. His ex uses her thho to hang over his head. I have never felt so free to be myself as I do with him. I am use to having to defend myself all the time by a controlling person.I am just looking for input, I got tired of the answering lol so here's my story and I'm sticking to it LOL....Comment n get your 2 points..

Have a great weekend!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I just had a convo with my husband about ending our marriage, he says he doesn't understand that I never brought anything up. The fact is I did and everytime I tried he shut me down. He said he felt it was resolved but how can it be when it never got to be dicussed? 14 yrs of water under the bridge...I tell I can't go foward. He says he doesn't know what for us to do.

~Angel~

What does it mean when a guy says you have the look? Heard that all my life n can't get not 1 to explain....

My husband n I have divorced and then gotten back together, 3 kids, I came back cause things were supose to be different he even acted differently, I almost left again fell for it again, Dec. he had a heart attack so, I didn't leave, then possible lung cancer. I am feeling num. Jan. another situation where he didn't defend me history of it plus more, I am not perfect by no means. He seems more humble. He can tell I am num and distant n thats usually when he becomes this way. I am not saying hes a bad person but I'v just been hurt so many times by him, roller coaster ride for us both.I stopped lashing out several years ago. I feel tired and very num, and broken. The last thing we went through n his reaction I couldn't believe it.H eended up pushing I understand he was angry. He had never pushed me before, Just be little, reject, heart pain. Is it possible to go forward?

hurt n confused,

~ Angel ~

I was visiting with him and his daughter and his 2 roomates, 1 roomate was talking to me while he was busy. After he was done he came over and walked away. I ended the convo about 5 mins later didn't want to be rude. when I went to sit with him he got a bit pissy, got up walked around then said I got jealous. I asked why n he said he didn't know..

Angel

I am having a hard time forgiving him.I don't feel any desire to be with him. He has showed some improvement but he has before. I am wondering if there is a point when there is to much water under the bridge..