Benjamin

A week or so ago my wife of 3 years told me that she tells all her friends that I am a great guy. She said that Any girl would love to have a man like me and that they would fall in love quickly with the type of guy that I am. She says that they would love the fact that I am trusting, loving, devoted, and successful at whatever I put my mind to. That I am supportive and fun. But then she said she didn't know why but she just doesn't know if she can fully appreciate me anymore. What do I do?

Me and my wife have had troubles in the past to say the least. We at one point were each others best friends. After everything I want to make things work with her. I trully do love her. But she is distant and stand offish and when I try to show her that I love her I feel like she gets uncomfortable. I want her to feel comforatable with me and see me as her Best Friend and Love me like she used to. What do I do?