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How can I not let this eat away at me (kinda long)?
I just spent the most amazing summer with a man I can only describe as my soul mate. The love I have for him is deep, strong, and insane probably to a lot of people.
Unfortunately he joined the military right before he met me, and so I had to help him ship off for Basic the beginning of summer. Pretty much the hardest thing I've ever had to do in my entire life.
Now, as much as I love him, he has one issue that drives me insane...but we all have issues, we just have to work through them together. Well his issue involves having a hard time letting go of his baggage. Particularly is ex girlfriend who cheated on him.
Now, my boyfriend is a great guy and seriously does not want to hurt her feelings...but unfortunately he's been lying to me about talking to her since the end of June. I found out because I logged onto his myspace (and I know that is a totally breach of trust! but I only did it to find out if my suspicions were true) because she would always leave him comments and I never understood why he couldn't just block her. I mean, she cheated on him!!! Why would you want to continue to associate with someone like that?!
She was his second serious girlfriend to cheat on him, and I am trying to understand that his self esteem issues could be creating situations to validate that he is "worthless." But it's so hard to empathize with that because if someone cheated on me I'd say **** you and leave.
And he's stuck in the infirmary at Basic because he hurt his leg and is unable to finish. So talking to him about it is completely out of the question until he gets back. It's frustrating.
What should I do? I know I will not let this ruin our relationship, but while I'm waiting for him to get back I just get so very angry certain nights. How can I stop this from eating away at me?
2 AnswersSingles & Dating1 decade agoAm I over-reacting? Please male and female opinions?
My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost a year. Let me first say that I have absolutely no trust issues with him. I don't feel like I'm over reacting about this situation, but it is aparent to me that he thinks I am:
When he started his new job a while ago he obviously met people, but there is this one girl who keeps sticking around like a bad smell. She is 17 and I don't know what to do about her.
I was ok with them being friends because I'm not a jealous person...he told her he was involved, but then she started doing things that are making me absolutely crazy and now I just want to tell her to lay off.
1. texts him like all the time "hey text me when you get up, etc"
2. asked him to go to a movie with her because she got stood up by her boyfriend (no mention of me...as far as i know you don't go to movies with other people's boyfriends...especially when their girlfriend doesn't know you)
3. calls him sunshine and stuff like that (which I did get my boyfriend to ask her to stop)
4. this morning I saw that she now has her mypace default picture with him in it (totally not cool with me)
He says they are just friends. Which, to him, they are just friends...but she wants more as far as I can tell and what bothers me so much is that she pretends I'm not there. It's just so rude and it's like my boyfriend doesn't get it. He says "well, so you just don't want me to have any friends?" Which obviously isn't the case....but this is practically the only person he talks to and sees who isn't on xbox lol.
OK, so what should I do? I added her on myspace so I could send her a message and ask her what is up...NICELY. But she hasn't added me back yet.
Should my boyfriend just be like "hey this is upsetting my relationship, i can't talk to you"....which he'll never do....is that bad?
7 AnswersSingles & Dating1 decade agoA scooter question from Arizona?
I'm seriously considering purchasing a scooter in the near future.
What is the highest amount of CC's it can be without my having to get a motorcycle license? I'm thinking I would like to get a 150cc engine.
Since it's not a motorcycle, will I even have to worry about this?
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When I bought this computer it had already come with WinXP installed, so all I had to do was press the power button basically. I am at the point now where I would like to completely reinstall Windows, but am afraid that it will ask me to put the CD in and ask for codes and all that which I don't have a physical copy of.
I do have that D: HP_Recovery partition. If I just click 'autoplay' on that will it reformat my computer with out the CD?
7 AnswersDesktops1 decade ago