Angie

So what am I doing wrong?

I'm 24, I work part time at a bank and I'm a full time student studying Radiography. So check this out: I date guys who are TOTALLY into me at first. I've meet parents, friends, and other family members. We've been on plenty of dates and I'm always told how pretty I am and how good of a woman I am....and then.....NOTHING! I mean seriously! I'm being honest....I don't jump into bed with these guys but I'm not an angel either I don't make them wait 6 months or anything. I cook, I clean, I know my sex is good (I'm a scorpio...hehehehehe) and I never put any pressure on them, but when I actually do start talking about relationships....I think that's whats running them off. I can't figure out what's so bad about me that I can't get a guy to WANT to commit to me....What am I doing wrong??

So what am I doing wrong?

I'm 24, I work part time at a bank and I'm a full time student studying Radiography. So check this out: I date guys who are TOTALLY into me at first. I've meet parents, friends, and other family members. We've been on plenty of dates and I'm always told how pretty I am and how good of a woman I am....and then.....NOTHING! I mean seriously! I'm being honest....I don't jump into bed with these guys but I'm not an angel either I don't make them wait 6 months or anything. I cook, I clean, I know my sex is good (I'm a scorpio...hehehehehe) and I never put any pressure on them, but when I actually do start talking about relationships....I think that's whats running them off. I can't figure out what's so bad about me that I can't get a guy to WANT to commit to me....What am I doing wrong??

And it's only been two months!!! I'll admit commitment scares me a bit but this guy has been such a gentlemen and so sweet and romantic and I've enjoyed every second of it up until he dropped this bomb on me! Now I feel like things are moving too fast! I mean DAMN two months? Why is this freaking me the F U C K out? I should be happy, right?

And it's only been two months!!! I'm a scorpio (with a Sag moon) and I'll admit commitment scares me a bit but this guy has been such a gentlemen and so sweet and romantic and I've enjoyed every second of it up until he dropped this bomb on me! Now I feel like things are moving to fast! I mean DAMN two months? Why is this freaking me the FU CK out?

Aren't they suppose to be like light-hearted and hard to tie down? Every Aquarius guy I've come across has been relationship-ready. Thought these were the slow movers when it came to love and all that. So is Aquarius a secret Pisces down on the inside?? You pisces alaways wanna be with someone? Scorpio here!

I just realized that I am not a flirt. Flirting isn't for me and I don't like men who flirt for long. I'm like "Get to the damn point!" I once had a guy flirt with me all night at a club and it took him FOREVER to ask for my number so I got tired of it and walked off. Later on that night he kept looking at me and soon asked me what he did wrong and I was like "Oh did u intend to flirt all night or did you have a purpose for all that?"

And it's not that I'm not patient or that I don't enjoy a good conversation but if you want someone number just ask for it already sheesh!

How do you feel about it and what's your sun moon and rising. I'm a Scorpio Sun, Sag Moon, and Rising Libra (you think I'd love flirting lol).

Or I might just be crazy, which is ok too! lol

To me, an Aries just seems like an unemotional and a bit happier Scorpio. (both are pretty dominant and controlling. Scorpio might be a bit more jealous -hence more emotional)

An Gemini seems like a happier and more cheerful Virgo (but they're probably equally critical and Virgos like perfection and Geminis think their perfect, lol)

A Capricorn is just a more serious Aquarius, both a really laid back and down to earth. Both are go with the flow type people and both can be emotionally detached.

A Cancer is just a clingy emotional Libra. Both are people pleasers, both will stay in unhealthy relationships.

A Leo is just a flashy Pisces, both are hopeless romantics. Neither give up on love easy.Leo likes to BE popular, Pisces like to BE WITH someone who IS popular.

A Sag is just a WAY more adventurous Taurus. Neither like to be held down in a relationship. (that's all I could think of on those, maybe their not THAT alike. lol)

Any suggestions???

I'm a Sun Scorpio, Moon Sag, and Rising Libra

My turn off are really skinny guys, guys that come on WAY to strong or guys that fall in love in a WEEK, guys with huge egos, and guys who don't dress well (that's probably because of my libra rising, lol).

What's yours?

It's like some sort of Secret Society that's trying to start a New World Order and supposedly a lot of famous people are involved in this.

So me and my ex have been broken up for almost 4 months now and we're communicated during the 4 months, some of it good and some of it bad. The last time we talked I asked if he thought we could work on the relationship and he was like "no, I'm not ready for that". So I asked him could we at least be friends and he was like "sure", but after wards I realized that I didn't want to be just friends so I decided to just move on and leave him along completely. Well it's been about three weeks and now he won't stop calling and texting and I'm tryin to move on. So is it normal for Gemini to fall in and out love or be all wishy washy and all this crap? I mean I'm in the process of moving on and now he's all into me! Is this normal for Gemini? What's wrong with him?

Oh, yeah I'm a Scorpio.

Ok I'm a Scorpio and I'm dating a Aqua guy and he seems REALLY into me. I've heard that Aqua are like really good at hiding emotion and they don't like to express themselves and all that but this guy has no problem being lovey dovey and kissy kissy and all that. He seems very emotional for Aqua. I did a birth chart on him and he has a lot of sag in his chart, his moon and his venus is in Sag and he's VERY giving. He'll buy he anything I want. So are Aqua known for being a little clingy and emotional like this?

I'm a Sun Scorpio with a Sag moon. I find that kind of odd. I'm thinking it makes me a bit more optimistic then other scorpios with other moon positions. While I can get really upset with people and lash out at them, once I sleep on it I'm not so mad about the next day. I don't hold long grudges like most scorpios so I'm guessing that because of my Sag Moon.

So how does your Moon fit with your Sun?

Do they mean in a relationship, they give up easily? And what's up with being detached? Are they detaching from feelings or a person in specific? And i've met Aquarians who consider themselves romantic, but how can u be romantic without being the slightest of emotional?? If are a Aqua (or know one well) do you consider yourself emotional?

Now I understand that men respect a woman that they have to work for (or chase), but I'm a little confused on the time limits of it. I understand that a man must work for your body or any sexual experience, so I'm not taking about sex. But how long do you keep the chase going? Are you constantly turning him down for dates? Are you missing calls from him on purpose? Should u try and act unexcited about seeing him? Should you ignore IM's, emails, and text messages sometimes? Like what are the limits for "chasing"? When is it ok to just enjoy the fact that he makes you smile??

I'm a Scorpio, please list your sign as well.

Now I understand that men respect a woman that they have to work for (or chase), but I'm a little confused on the time limits of it. I understand that a man must work for your body or any sexual experience, so I'm not taking about sex. But how long do you keep the chase going? Are you constantly turning him down for dates? Are you missing calls from him on purpose? Should u try and act unexcited about seeing him? Should you ignore IM's, emails, and text messages sometimes? Like what are the limits for "chasing"? When is it ok to just enjoy the fact that he makes you smile??

I ALWAYS ask the guys I've just met their sign, should I stop doing that? For example, if the guy is a Gemini, right off the back I don't expect to much from him because I figure he has 800 different women anyway. Or if he's a Aries, I'll test him just to see how much I can get away with (it always pisses them off). Or if he's another Scorpio like me, I might *** around and just stop calling him because we scorpios are fuking crazy. Should I stop this???

According to your chart (if you know it). Example here's some of mine:

Sun: Scorpio: I want a passionate Intense lover with a unbreakable bond.

Moon Sag: I also want a exciting and fun lover, who always want to take me somewhere!

Venus: Scorpio: I want a lover who just CAN'T stand to see me with someone else!!!

Mars: Aquarius: I want a lover who'll still hold me close after a argument, hold no grudges!

Rising Libra: I want someone with good looks (I'm not shallow, it's a Libra thing, lol).

Jupiter: Pisces: I want a lover who can discuss serious issues!

Mercury: Scorpio: I want a lover who respects that my past is my past! So don't go snooping around!!!

Ok, I'm stopping there....

And before any one gets started this is just for fun and YES all the positions in your chart in some way contribute to how you feel about love! Not just venus!

There is SOOO much I need to get off my chest! Ahhhhhhh! Ugh!!! Ok! It’s time for me to come to terms with the things I’ve done in my life. The things I can control anyway. First, I must admit to the insecurities of my heart. I’ve been a jealous and angry woman whose has let wounds and scars on my heart ruin my love life. Yes I admit. While everything isn’t my fault, I must take the blame for taking things WAY out of proportion. I must come to the realization that while I don’t feel I’ve completely ruined what I sometimes feel like is the love of my life; I did play a rather larger part. I know that much for a fact. While I can’t change my nature or who I am, I can change the level of maturity that I have. I know that I need to grow as a woman; I can’t allow every small thing in a relationship to affect me. I’ve always been really good at hiding my emotions but the love I had for this particular person, made me little on edge, you know? It was like “I couldn’t loose him”, but instead of being the better person and learning to forgive the mistakes “humans” make, I pushed him away with all my nagging and bitching! While he did many thing to cause me to loose my composure, I should have found better ways to deal with the situations or I should have left instead of throwing temper tantrums like a little hurt girl. I should have been a woman about it. I’m on a journey to heal my heart. Ok thanks for letting me vent!

I'm not sure which party (democrate or republician) I belong to. I think both parties make good and valid point on certain issues. Is there a site or something that maybe list how each party feels about certain issues?