Lea

he goes crazy try to choke me I pepper sprayed him,few hours later he says he wants to marry me we go pick out a ring & everything that weekend he went to NJ for his mom bday party,sunday I picked him up from the airport we go into it, we made up had sex and everything even in the mornin so anyways he picked up the camero while I was at work and drove to texas & blocked me from calling/texting him so I use my ig to contact him he never replied so finally when he's half way to texas he facex me saying he wants me to come with I denied I was livid he took both cars , anyways I LOVE HIM like I said, so we got back 2gether and tried to work on trusting each other and working on us, but he wast really trying he acted as if every time I called I was annoying him , so finlly he broke with me , so I went snooping found out he was on a social dating website , talking to other girls , he decided to apologizin and he just needs space right now, one of his closest friends died in recently and he doesnt have money to go to the funeral when we were 2gether I told him I would help him pay for it now that we are not together , but he said since he did stuff for my family I should just do it in the kindness of my heart , but we both did stuff for each other's families , I just felt that he took both cars left me high and dry and cheated , and I shldnt pay for his plane ticket but a part of me wants to , just cause you know hoping that we would be 2gether one day you know. what should I do ?

he goes crazy try to choke me I pepper sprayed him,few hours later he says he wants to marry me we go pick out a ring & everything that weekend he went to NJ for his mom bday party,sunday I picked him up from the airport we go into it, we made up had sex and everything even in the mornin so anyways he picked up the camero while I was at work and drove to texas & blocked me from calling/texting him so I use my ig to contact him he never replied so finally when he's half way to texas he facex me saying he wants me to come with I denied I was livid he took both cars , anyways I LOVE HIM like I said, so we got back 2gether and tried to work on trusting each other and working on us, but he wast really trying he acted as if every time I called I was annoying him , so finlly he broke with me , so I went snooping found out he was on a social dating website , talking to other girls , he decided to apologizin and he just needs space right now, one of his closest friends died in recently and he doesnt have money to go to the funeral when we were 2gether I told him I would help him pay for it now that we are not together , but he said since he did stuff for my family I should just do it in the kindness of my heart , but we both did stuff for each other's families , I just felt that he took both cars left me high and dry and cheated , and I shldnt pay for his plane ticket but a part of me wants to , just cause you know hoping that we would be 2gether one day you know. what should I do ?

never made it official, but we had trust issues and he decided to end things.. I never cheated on him, he had a problem with me always being on the phone, and he felt that I believe what everyone told me about him instead of believing him , but I'm madly in love with him , I can't let him go, I try to ask his for another chance he says no then he was having financial problems because his car needed fixing and rent and his cell phone , I was helping him pay for all that and help him find a better job , well upon all this I heard speaking with a girl on the phone I got jealous and told him the he was just using me and he got really mad and after that things just have never been the same, then I kept trying and trying and finally he said he would think about it , I asked he to tell me to just move on and leave him alone, he stts he can't tell me what to do, I asked him if he still loves me he refused to answer, we still had sex recently Wednesday, Thursday we were really good like old times , but on Friday I came home really late around 6am because it was my friends bday party, he was awake when I got home, for some reason he seemed mad so I tried to explain to him it was a bday party I wasn't at guys house or anything...he said he didnt need to know that and he don't care, so I asked him if he is done trying to work things out he sttd work what out..I said us.. he said there is nothing that needs to be worked out.. so i asked him if he's done he said if that what you want to hear ..I guess.. he basically said he don't what anything right now he dont want to talk,date or be in a relationship with anyone and the only thing that he can offer is his friendship he states that he want to focus on less stressful things in his life ..I love this guy with all my heart, we live together we still have sex but it's because I approach it..what should I do? I think he still love me but I cant let him go Im in love with this guy he is the only guy that made me feel this way..PLEASE HELP TELL ME WHAT I SHOULD DO TO GET HIM BACK? we are both 22ys college students we've talked for about 7months(together) and right now its been about 5 months since he decided to end things

So my boyfriend i been dating for about 5 months and we were together for the first 3 months then he moved but we decided to stay together he comes to see me almost every week now he is stuck at work he cant see me as often but I'm gonna go see him now he only lives 3 hours away but we talk on the phone almost everyday but he says he likes me too and he misses me and the thing is i starting to fall in love with him but i don't want to due to the fact that he is hot and i mean i cute but i don't think I'm up to his standards he doesn't tell me I'm pretty or hot or fine whatever sometimes im dark skinned i have a good body i guess i have booty but i mean every guy now days whats a light skinned girl he is 6'4 light skinned good hair almost look like he is puerto rican and i mean he can have any girl i feel like idk why he is with me..i nice and caring but idk if he really likes me.but when i ask my friends they say if he didn't like me he wouldn't make me his girl from the beginning but the thing is before i was his girl we were having sex but he would take me out on dates and we would hang out with each other everyday and then i asked him what he gonna do he said he don't know he was like if i make you my girlfriend i don't want no drama and stuff and i told him i don't do that and we been together since i tried to brake up with cause i felt that he didn't like me but he said that he do so we stayed together but im not sure if he likes me he don't express his feelings and im not sure so how do you think he feels about me? ..oh and gonna visit him for about 2 days soon I want to cook him Breakfast Lunch(for him to go to work) and Dinner so any ideas on what to cook him for breakfast and especially lunch and dinner..but any help me with my situations 10pts

So me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 4 months now and we never argue and we have sex like crazy..when he comes over we do it about to times in the night then again in the morning which is fine cause i like doing it with him (well he can foreplay more lol) so anyways the first month we went out it was Dec so christmas was right around the corner so we decided to get something for each I got him a Heat jersey form the nba store which was about$100 .he got me somestuff from bath and beyond and $30 giftcard to charolette ruse which added up to $50 and i was reasonable they way i see it he pays for everything and drives everywhere and I know gas isnt cheap so I figured its fine so valentines day came and thought he thought i wasnt gonna do anything but I got him a camera he wanted and give him a lingere lap dance which he loved and he was very happy cause no girl have ever done this for him..but he got me a heart cookie and some candies not even a rose like wtf but this guy i use to talk to sent me this huge rose of flowers and teddy bear and a poem and I told him the truth who it was from he seem like he didnt care so the next day i told him we should break up because I feel like im way into to him then he is into me and plus he is moving away and plus out of no where he became distant so he was like no he wants us to be together and that he became distant cause he was moving away but he wants us to still be together and i do to cause i really like him and thats the second ime i tried to break up with him but he says he likes me and not to break up with him he hasnt been taking me out lately which is fine cause im really shy and i like us just chilling and watching the basketball game together i want to meet his friends and hang with them but i only meet one..is he ashame of me but he knows alot of other guys want me and when i tell him about when guys try to holler he seems like he dont care i mean i want some kind of reaction we are really good together and dont ever argue or raise our voice on each other so he finaaly moved like 3 hours away for a job he wanted we still together he flew in to come to visit me and get the rest of his stuff I cooked for while he watched the game and you know it was really cute he huge me kiss me and stuff the afterwards we did it like we use too but early on the relationship one of his friends who was having sex my friend told her that he was surprise to see him have a girlfriend here because he has a girlfriend in miami that he is love with and they hasve been going out for about 3 yrs i confronted he said no thats not true him and his ex are only friends and they are not having sex or anything I wanted to believe so I just let it go..but the thing is im always telling him how i like him all he woud say is I like you to or if i tell him i miss him he be like i miss you too but I gonna stp saying those things to see if he notice or will even say it first ..he like going out clubbing and i let him because he always come to my apartment afterwards but i think its because my house is closer and he be drunk so i believe thats why but i go out to cause he sems like he dont care and i mean I respect him and dont dance with other guys and stuff but i feel like he dont hold back when he is out but recently he left and i went out when he came back he like asked me if i dance with other ppl i said no.....anyways i know this long so someone help me does he like me or even care about me..my friends say he do im just over thinking stuff and i have low self confidence a little due to the fact i had bad high school years i mean i look good really good now but I have moments when im not confidence.. does he like me really is it all about sex to him and we even talk about him flying me in to visit and he would fly in to visit me and continue until idk but Im starting to fall in love with him but I try to stop myself from doing so cause im scared to get hurt and i feel like its too soon and i want to make sure he feels the same way about me. (I KNOW THIS IS LONG BUT I WILL RETURN THE FAVOR AND RESPOND TO YOUR ANSWERS TOO ALSO IM 20 HE IS 22)

So me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 4 months now and we never argue and we have sex like crazy..when he comes over we do it about to times in the night then again in the morning which is fine cause i like doing it with him (well he can foreplay more lol) so anyways the first month we went out it was Dec so christmas was right around the corner so we decided to get something for each I got him a Heat jersey form the nba store which was about$100 .he got me somestuff from bath and beyond and $30 giftcard to charolette ruse which added up to $50 and i was reasonable they way i see it he pays for everything and drives everywhere and I know gas isnt cheap so I figured its fine so valentines day came and thought he thought i wasnt gonna do anything but I got him a camera he wanted and give him a lingere lap dance which he loved and he was very happy cause no girl have ever done this for him..but he got me a heart cookie and some candies not even a rose like wtf but this guy i use to talk to sent me this huge rose of flowers and teddy bear and a poem and I told him the truth who it was from he seem like he didnt care so the next day i told him we should break up because I feel like im way into to him then he is into me and plus he is moving away and plus out of no where he became distant so he was like no he wants us to be together and that he became distant cause he was moving away but he wants us to still be together and i do to cause i really like him and thats the second ime i tried to break up with him but he says he likes me and not to break up with him he hasnt been taking me out lately which is fine cause im really shy and i like us just chilling and watching the basketball game together i want to meet his friends and hang with them but i only meet one..is he ashame of me but he knows alot of other guys want me and when i tell him about when guys try to holler he seems like he dont care i mean i want some kind of reaction we are really good together and dont ever argue or raise our voice on each other so he finaaly moved like 3 hours away for a job he wanted we still together he flew in to come to visit me and get the rest of his stuff I cooked for while he watched the game and you know it was really cute he huge me kiss me and stuff the afterwards we did it like we use too but early on the relationship one of his friends who was having sex my friend told her that he was surprise to see him have a girlfriend here because he has a girlfriend in miami that he is love with and they hasve been going out for about 3 yrs i confronted he said no thats not true him and his ex are only friends and they are not having sex or anything I wanted to believe so I just let it go..but the thing is im always telling him how i like him all he woud say is I like you to or if i tell him i miss him he be like i miss you too but I gonna stp saying those things to see if he notice or will even say it first ..he like going out clubbing and i let him because he always come to my apartment afterwards but i think its because my house is closer and he be drunk so i believe thats why but i go out to cause he sems like he dont care and i mean I respect him and dont dance with other guys and stuff but i feel like he dont hold back when he is out but recently he left and i went out when he came back he like asked me if i dance with other ppl i said no.....anyways i know this long so someone help me does he like me or even care about me..my friends say he do im just over thinking stuff and i have low self confidence a little due to the fact i had bad high school years i mean i look good really good now but I have moments when im not confidence.. does he like me really (I KNOW THIS IS LONG BUT I WILL RETURN THE FAVOR AND RESPOND TO YOUR ANSWERS TOO ALSO IM 20 HE IS 22)

I wanted to blind fold him and slip into some sexy lingerie and give him a little lap dance...and thats it but I thought it was lame..I feel like should I do something more like I'm missing something all suggestions are welcome....guys do you think he would like it or no?

So me and my boyfriend has been dating for about 3 months now and to be honest I like him and he treats me right and he said he likes me somethimes only at a point like lets begin from the beginning so I met him at the club but I'm one of those girls that that really dance with ppl at the club but i danced with him because earlier in the night my friend was trying to get his attention but he just laughed and was really nice to her but he just continued to dance with his friends and not really paying attention to any girls but I went to the bar and he grab my hands and we danced blah blah then we started talking for a month and he would take me out on dates and would never try to make a move like really sweet but at a month later Idk we almost did it (sex) but I stopped but next we hung he tried again and i keep stopping mid way and didnt continue finally we did it in stuff and the next month or and I tried to break off things with him but he would be like he really likes me and its f**ked up If I stop talking to him blah blah.. so I wanted to know where we heading if he is gonna make me his girl..he was a lil hessitant about he said he doesnt want drama and I was like well its up to you and I'm not forceing you to do anything....anyways we dated frpm then on and such and he would take trips to palm beach and fort lauderdale alot and when he gets there i would get like 1 text message a day and its a summary of his day and thats it..like I'm cool and I let it go or whatever..mind you he use to live in fort lauderdale like 6 months ago..so I had a feeling that he was cheating like he has a girlfriend back in fort lauderdale because even if you with your boys you would text your girlfriend he do when he is with his friends in orlando...anyways so I told my friends what was happening the thought i was just insecure about myself or whatever so finally I talked to one of my friends and have her "talk " to one of his friend and his friend was surprise that he was going out with me due to the face that he supposely has a girlfriend in palm beach or fort lauderdale and they been dating for 3yrs and he is in love with her.....so I confornted my boyfriend he said it wasnt true so I believed him idk why im stupid I just needed more proof to break up with him you know so I have no regrets ..he is a good boyfriend and always making me laugh so when I confronted him he said its not true but he do have an ex that lives in miami but they just friends and he dont f**k her(suuuuure lol) so anyways I asked him why he likes me he said cause I make laugh like WTF!! anywyas im not a big deal kind of girl but anyways we have sex like everyday like 4 times in one night..I like him he treats me good and then just as I thought that it was over he had a day off out the blue one day and he decided to fly to fort lauderdale and back to orlando ..like i mean I know friends dont require you to see them every month..he dont tell me if im pretty or sexy or hot..and I mean I know I am cause I get it from other guys...but I mean he dont seem into me like i am into him..or and the best part is he is trying to get a job in fort lauderdale..but I dont do long distance relationship cause I dont trust him but IDK what to do help!!!!! anyone I'll take anyone answer right now!!!!

does he even like me or is it all about sex with him..ps valentines day is coming up and I dont know what to do we havent even talked about it yet and I was just gonna give him a lingaire dance and cook for him but Idk HELP ANYONE? Details im 20 he's 22

So me and my boyfriend has been dating for about 3 months now and to be honest I like him and he treats me right and he said he likes me somethimes only at a point like lets begin from the beginning so I met him at the club but I'm one of those girls that that really dance with ppl at the club but i danced with him because earlier in the night my friend was trying to get his attention but he just laughed and was really nice to her but he just continued to dance with his friends and not really paying attention to any girls but I went to the bar and he grab my hands and we danced blah blah then we started talking for a month and he would take me out on dates and would never try to make a move like really sweet but at a month later Idk we almost did it (sex) but I stopped but next we hung he tried again and i keep stopping mid way and didnt continue finally we did it in stuff and the next month or and I tried to break off things with him but he would be like he really likes me and its f**ked up If I stop talking to him blah blah.. so I wanted to know where we heading if he is gonna make me his girl..he was a lil hessitant about he said he doesnt want drama and I was like well its up to you and I'm not forceing you to do anything....anyways we dated frpm then on and such and he would take trips to palm beach and fort lauderdale alot and when he gets there i would get like 1 text message a day and its a summary of his day and thats it..like I'm cool and I let it go or whatever..mind you he use to live in fort lauderdale like 6 months ago..so I had a feeling that he was cheating like he has a girlfriend back in fort lauderdale because even if you with your boys you would text your girlfriend he do when he is with his friends in orlando...anyways so I told my friends what was happening the thought i was just insecure about myself or whatever so finally I talked to one of my friends and have her "talk " to one of his friend and his friend was surprise that he was going out with me due to the face that he supposely has a girlfriend in palm beach or fort lauderdale and they been dating for 3yrs and he is in love with her.....so I confornted my boyfriend he said it wasnt true so I believed him idk why im stupid I just needed more proof to break up with him you know so I have no regrets ..he is a good boyfriend and always making me laugh so when I confronted him he said its not true but he do have an ex that lives in miami but they just friends and he dont f**k her(suuuuure lol) so anyways I asked him why he likes me he said cause I make laugh like WTF!! anywyas im not a big deal kind of girl but anyways we have sex like everyday like 4 times in one night..I like him he treats me good and then just as I thought that it was over he had a day off out the blue one day and he decided to fly to fort lauderdale and back to orlando ..like i mean I know friends dont require you to see them every month..he dont tell me if im pretty or sexy or hot..and I mean I know I am cause I get it from other guys...but I mean he dont seem into me like i am into him..or and the best part is he is trying to get a job in fort lauderdale..but I dont do long distance relationship cause I dont trust him but IDK what to do help!!!!! anyone I'll take anyone answer right now!!!!

Me and my boyfriend been going out for about 2 months and the day after valentines day is gonna make it 3..Idk what to get him for valentines day..but for christmas I got him an NBA heat jersey which was about $100...I was gonna do a lingarie kind of dance thing for him but IDK i think it would suck it he doesnt get something like a present with it too.. he loves basketball favorite team is heat..he loves cologne.. and hats (he already have an heat hat lol) so help anyone!!?!?! lol ps..Im not trying to speed to much..lol