James

OK so I met this girl on Facebook around a year ago and we texted just about everyday since then and we were just friends. And I wanted to meet her but I was busy or she was or she had a bf at the time so it never worked out before. Well about 2 weeks ago we just happened to meet at the mall in my hometown and when we talked about meeting before she seemed excited and said there was a lot we could talk about but when I saw her she said hi but was also there shopping with her grandma and little sis and didn't seem interested at all in talking to me and seemed like she didn't want me around. I was relaxed and was just trying to have a convo with her cuz I was excited and happy and excited to finally see her but she didn't seem to care that much and her whole clique didn't seem to want me around. So I walked off cuz it was awkward and later that night I text her and was like hey what's your problem. And she said I acted that way for a reason. And she hasn't texted me back since....

I was just curious if anyone could give me any insight on how difficult or easy any of the classes im taking next semester are, and i know its school dependent as well but if it helps ill be going to east central university which is a small state school in oklahoma. The classes are:

princ of management

princ of microeconomics

bus and econ stats 1

princ of marketing

business comm and report writing

and im also taking a native american history class cuz it is required but i heard its easy so im not stressing over that one. But any advice or wisdom on any of the other classes is welcomed and will be much appreciated...

So i enrolled about a week ago at ecu for next fall and was just curious if anyone had any comments or good reviews on the school in general as well as the people there, party life, etc. and yes i know it is in ada, oklahoma so it wont be too diverse or party crazy lol but im just curious what anybody has to say....

Ok so Ive been noticing a trend for the past few years and basically what happens is that I get a girls number and when i do eventually text her for the 1st time I do a great job and usually get the hint that the girl on the other end is starting to like me and i feel confident in what im saying. After that first texting convo i run into problems and think about whatever girl quite a bit and i think i get a bit anxious and impatient and this had led to some epic fails soon after a great first time getting to know a girl. Like I try calling a few days later or i text her and dont really have anything to say but just doing it just to do it, if that makes sense because i feel i have to for her to like me. Its almost like im two different people from when i get her number to after that first convo because i say things and react things alot differently. I just am unsure and a bit unconfident and maybe i try too hard after that first convo or do something that keeps messing me up but i think it may just be anxiety but my question to you guys is what do you think it could be and how should i deal with future endeavors when i get anxious and impatient after that first convo?

Ok so a few weeks ago i got this girls number off of twitter and we texted off and on but two days ago she actually asked me to go to one of her softball games and i did and we ended up hanging out for about 2 hours after the game and it wasnt awkward or uncomfortable like most of our texting convos because she is not much of a texter or talker over the phone but completely different in person. I found out we had quite a bit in common and before i left she gave me a really tight hug and didnt let go to easily lol but anyway that whole time we hungout she complimented me alot and i felt confident that considering everything she probly liked me at least a little. So today i texted her and she was short and brief as always and then i asked "when are we going to hang out again"? and she responded 30 minutes later and just said "idk" Then i said well if you do get some free time and can and want to hangout make sure to let me know because i want to see you again. She said "I will" and I said Ok. and that was the end of the convo but im a little concerned that based on her response maybe i asked too soon or assumed too much as far as her liking me and basically im confused. So can anyone offer any input please!?

So long story short i got this girls number about 3 weeks ago from us talking on twitter and shes a super super boring texter and seems like she doesnt care. So i stopped talking to her but she texted me a couple days ago out of the blue asking if i could go to her softball game which was not too far from where i live so i went and afterwards she seemed really happy to see me and we ended up just sitting out there and talking for like 2 hours and everything was cool and she complimented me alot, shared her blanket and food with me, and gave me a pretty strong hug when i left. So that night she told me to text her so i actually called her and we talked for like 20 minutes but then we just switched to texting and basically all i said then was that i had alot of fun seeing her and that we should do it again sometime. So she did say she had fun too but that was the end of the convo because i went to sleep mostly cuz texting her is like texting a rock lol so today i texted her and was just like hey whats up and eventually asked her when i was going to get to see her again she said idk and then i said well let me know when you can and want to chill because id like to see you again. She then said i will and i said ok and that was it. Now my question is, what do i do now because i dont want to try asking her out again if its going toto annoy her and plus idk if she would even want to bases on the lack of enthusiasm she showed when i asked.

So i hungout with this girl last thursday and she basically asked me, which caught me a little off guard and we just hungout and talked for 2 hours and it was really fun and not awkward at all. I texted her that night saying i had a good time and she said the same thing but i havent texted her since then because i dont want to look all desperate and whatnot. So how much longer should i wait before i contact her and should i ask her out again?

Ok so i met this girl on twitter and ended up getting her number about 3 weeks ago. We started texting and i got bored with the conversations because she would always respond with one or two words and just seemed disinterested and would never use lol or emoticons or anything and wouldnt really respond to anything funny i sent her. So i stopped talking to her which was about a week and a half ago and deleted her number and just didnt give it any thought. So then three days ago she texted me saying that she will be playing a softball game in a town right by mine the next day, and basically asked if i could come. I said yes and i could tell she wanted me to be there so i showed up and watched the game, and afterwards we ended up just chilling out there and talking for about 2 hours and surprisingly it wasnt awkward at all and we got along really well, i found out we have quite a bit in common personality and interest wise and we even snuggled up together under a blanket because it was pretty cold out there but we didnt DO anything tho lol and then before i left she gave me a pretty strong hug which felt good and told me to text her later. So i gave her a call and we talked for about 15 minutes but then her mom came home or something and we just ended up texting after that for just a little bit. But i did say that i enjoyed hanging out with her and she said she did too and my last text to her basically restated that but also said we should do it again sometime and told her good night. I didnt get a response but im not trippin over it because shes just not big on texting and im pretty confident i didnt offend her or anything so its no biggie. But anyway my question is when should i ask for another time we can hangout? because i didnt message her yesterday and probably wont today , so i wont look desperate and whatnot because she seems to be the type that would hate that from a guy and also any chance you guys think she would say yes?

Ok so i got this girls number off of twitter and found out she lives pretty close by and we were texting all day and idk like i just wasnt feeling anything from her end and she did say she wasnt much of a talker and that she doesnt watch tv and a couple other things i had never heard a girl say before and like when we were texting i mostly just asked questions about her and we really didnt get into a real normal convo which concerned me because i tried being, funny, witty, sarcastic, sweet and nothing was working on this chick and i had said similar things to other girls and they always worked and this girl is like amazing looks wise probably a 10/10 but personality i cant figure her out and cant tell if she just doesnt like me or doesnt express emotion or what. And she just ended the convo basically saying why are you asking me so many questions and i was honest and said hey im just trying to keep the convo going and trying to find something to talk about and responded with, that she had to go because she was with friends, which probably is true but also tells me that im doing a pretty shitty job at texting her if she just ends the convo like that. So people of yahoo what do i do from here because I would really like to get to know more about this girl and would totally consider asking her out but now definitely isnt the time, so where do i go from here and what do i say because ive never known a girl that i acually had a difficult time texting?

Ok so I got a girls number off of twitter and we chatted on there all last night and this morning and then i asked for her number and she gave it to me and then i told her i had to go to work and that i would hit her up later. So my question is do I wait a day or two to contact her and if so do i call her or text her first because with all the messaging on twitter between us it was basically like texting so i dont think it makes much sense to just text her now that i have her number or otherwise i should have just kept messaging her on twitter and dont even need her # but im curious what yall think and open to varying opinions. Also what are some good things to say when i do contact her and if things go well should i ask her out?

OK so i got this chicks number about 3 weeks ago and we started texting and all that good stuff but then she just stopped responding to any texts or calls i sent her so basically i was just done at that point and figured i would just delete her # and if she wanted to chat or was interested she'd hit me up on her own. So i didnt think anything of it or of her for about a week and a half and then i was on twitter one day and just shot her a message on there just basically saying "hey whats up" and that i lost her number which was why i was messaging her on there and she responded saying that her cousin had died and that she'd just been busy with a lot of stuff including a new job she got but she did say sorry for not responding and that i was a sweetheart for some of the things i said and blah blah blah but anywho i responded just asking what kind of job she got and she told me she works at some restaraunt as a supervisor. So i literally just responded to that with cool so how do you like it so far ? and im curious what should i do as far as should i just keep messaging her on twitter because we only exchange 1or 2 messages a day on there bc we're both busy with stuff and im not always on my cpu or should i ask for her number again but if i do how should i phrase it because she already knows i dont have it anymore?

Ok so i got this chicks number yesterday and we texted last night and i felt that the convo was going great and that i prbly should have calles her instead but then she just didnt text back for whatever reason and thats no big deal but im just curious on what i should do now because i think i could hold a good conversation with her whether over the phone or via text but just not sure how long i should wait before i contact her or what method to use.

Ok so i got this chicks number yesterday and we texted last night and i felt that the convo was going great and that i prbly should have calles her instead but then she just didnt text back for whatever reason and thats no big deal but im just curious on what i should do now because i think i could hold a good conversation with her whether over the phone or via text but just not sure how long i should wait before i contact her or what method to use.