Mrs. Ross 8.2.09

I have nausea, dizziness, breast tenderness, headaches, poor appetite, weight loss, fatigue - 1 negative pregnancy test 10/3 (1 week after expected menses) abnormal period previous month (Aug. 28) no sexual contact in September as my husband was out of town. So last definite period was 8/2/09. All the symptoms are side effects from IUD, but (am I crazy) I really want to be pregnant. Any one else ever felt this way even though all the circumstances are pointing to the opposite?

My fh and I plan on getting married August 2 2009. My soon to be in laws offered their home, but I declined as I didn't want to have 50+ people using 1 bathroom and other stuff...So we searched and searched and finally found a restaurant that was reasonable for our budget...Then recently my fh lost his job about two months before the date. So in order to maintain we have used much of what we had saved for bills. We changed our plans to have a backyard wedding at my inlaws home (although that wasn't my first choice) before invitations went out and the inlaws were glad to help us host. Then they started having work done on their home and it was supposed to be done before now...we are about 12 days away the work isn't done and we are searching for a site...We scouted local parks with gazebos all of which are reserved and our community center is giving us a hard time...Should I just call off the wedding (many of my family have purchased tickets to come from Florida, Vegas, North Carolina etc) or should I use the American Legion and call everyone to change the venue....I feel like these are signs that we shouldn't get married. (I've known him since 13 and even at that tender age I knew someday we'd get married and have kids maybe not in that order) So tell me what do you think?