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me and my two friends are fifteen at the moment but by the summer we will all be sixteen, could we stay in a hotel together without an adult? im asking as we are thinking of going to a concert that is quite far from where we live, it would be easier if we could stay in a nearby hotel overnight and get the train home the next day.

okay ive liked this guy for about a month and a half. i have been friends him for about a year now and i met him through another friend of mine. up until the middle of November i thought of him as just a friend but then i kinda started to like him. i told the mutual friend that i liked him and she told me that the guy like me for quite a while in the summer last year, however he now thinks of me as more of a friend now. the friend asked the guy if he still liked me and he said he wasnt sure, however my friend thinks that he might just be saying hes not sure as he knows that the friend might tell me if he said yes.

i kinda want to tell him because i do know that in the past he has liked me, and i haven't actually liked someone this much before. my one problem is i have kinda been friendzoned. the other problem is that if he doesnt feel the same it will be really awkward because at school we are in two classes together, one of which we sit near each other (talking distance), and the other we sit right next to each other. the teachers of these classes would not let us move seats if it was awkward.

should i tell him i like him? and how do i get myself out of the friendzone if i decide not to?

this new years eve i would like to hold a party for me and a few friends. however ive not held a party like this before so i would like to know how to hold a good one.

all those attending would be aged 15/16 and the party will be held in a house :)

okay i do not particuarly enjoy p.e to start with. im not a particuarly sporty person anyway however if it was just the fact that im not sporty that made me dislike p.e i would just bite the bullet and do it.

however i am in a all girls p.e class with 2 groups of girls. one of the groups of girls is very cliquey and they are not particuarly friendly towards anyone outside the clique. the other group of girls used to be my friends, however for the past few months they have for some reason turned against me. they have made p.e hellish for me this past few months. a few lessons back they actually told me to f*** off and play table tennis with someone else. however they dont play with me and the other group of girls wont talk to me so i have nowhere else to go. if they are choosing teams they ensure i am last chosen in the class. if we have to make pairs or groups they always tell me to f*** off/p**s off and go with someone else to ensure im alone. and then once i am alone they talk very loudly about how much fun they are having. it is honestly awful.

at my school you can only forget your p.e kit 3 times before you get punishment (dentention/punishment exercise and after this repeats 3 times your parents get called in) and i have already intentionally forgot it twice so i dont have to do p.e. i cant keep forgetting kit. my mum refuses to write me a note saying that i am ill/injured so i dont have to do p.e, however i am trying to convince her. this would also be problematic as i do another period of p.e on another day and i dont mind it so much then as its a totally different class with much nicer people in it. the only other option is to move class as another p.e class runs at the same time as mine. however i would need to find someone willing to switch from the other class to my class and even then im not sure if the school would let me switch in the middle of the year.

can anybody think of a way i can get out of p.e? it is honestly awful thanks to the b***** girls n my class?

okay i do not particuarly enjoy p.e to start with. im not a particuarly sporty person anyway however if it was just the fact that im not sporty that made me dislike p.e i would just bite the bullet and do it.

however i am in a all girls p.e class with 2 groups of girls. one of the groups of girls is very cliquey and they are not particuarly friendly towards anyone outside the clique. the other group of girls used to be my friends, however for the past few months they have for some reason turned against me. they have made p.e hellish for me this past few months. a few lessons back they actually told me to f*** off and play table tennis with someone else. however they dont play with me and the other group of girls wont talk to me so i have nowhere else to go. if they are choosing teams they ensure i am last chosen in the class. if we have to make pairs or groups they always tell me to f*** off/p**s off and go with someone else to ensure im alone. and then once i am alone they talk very loudly about how much fun they are having. it is honestly awful.

at my school you can only forget your p.e kit 3 times before you get punishment (dentention/punishment exercise and after this repeats 3 times your parents get called in) and i have already intentionally forgot it twice so i dont have to do p.e. i cant keep forgetting kit. my mum refuses to write me a note saying that i am ill/injured so i dont have to do p.e, however i am trying to convince her. this would also be problematic as i do another period of p.e on another day and i dont mind it so much then as its a totally different class with much nicer people in it. the only other option is to move class as another p.e class runs at the same time as mine. however i would need to find someone willing to switch from the other class to my class and even then im not sure if the school would let me switch in the middle of the year.

can anybody think of a way i can get out of p.e? it is honestly awful thanks to the b***** girls n my class?

what does the :M face mean?

someone just sent me a text with :M face on it, what does this mean?

a circumference of a circle is 48.8 cms. the angle of the arc is 110. what is the length of the arc.

how would i solve this question? i know how to find lengths of arcs when i know the length of one side but i dont know how to do it when i only know the circumference?

2√6 √2X√12 3√8 √24

which one has a different value?

how would i figure this out? :)

im 15 and this morning when i was in the shower i noticed when i put my arms up that i had a noticeable red lump to the left side of my nipple on my left breast. it is about 2cms long and wide and it hurts when i put my arms up or touch it. is it possible that i could have breast cancer

do i have a real fear or do i just feel lonley?

okay between the ages of 8 and 11 i was bullied pretty badly by some girls in my elementry. it was real proper bullying and alot of bad things happened, however since i have gone to high school i thought i had gotten over it, however recent events have proved to me that i probably havent.

over the past few weeks my two best friends have been alot more friendly with eachother and alot less friendly towards me. this is because about a month ago they both realised that they liked the same band (a band dont like) and because the band was doing a gig on one of their birthdays they went together for her birthday. since that night they have gotten alot closer to each other and have started to push me out a little. they have been meeting up alot in the evenings to dicuss the band that they like, and not inviting me. i would mind if this was only every so often but its 6 nights of 7 that they usually do this im starting to feel really left out and every morning after they meet they seem to want to push me out futher and futher away from them.

they also sometimes nasty jelous things. they say things such as:

"i hate uggs. why do you wear them they are so ugly." this is because they didnt get uggs for their birthday but i did.

"i hate hollister so much. its so mainstream. i didnt get a hollister hoodie. nobody needs one they are just cheep ****. why do you wear ****?". this was in response to me buying a hollister hoodie with my christmas money

then last week i had a slight fall out with another friend in our general group. in my group of friends theres about 8 of us overall but we spilt off into smaller groups for lunch and stuff. so anyway i had a fallout with one of the girls in our group over wether we are having a joint birthday party or not as our birthdays on the same day, however she ignored my texts about it for two days and then when i asked if shed got the texts she was really awkward about it and still didnt answer the question and when i asked her to answer the question she went totally mental at me. when i got there the next dayi told the two friends that like the band about the fall out. they took her side which made me so mad. because i have been feeling so left out over the past couple of days and i had fallen out with the other friend and because they took her side i actually criend in front of them (i never cry). i think i also cried because everyone taking someelses side and being each others best friends reminded me of what happened at primary. i told the two band friends not to tell anyone but i know that they went and told all the others in the group that i cried in public.

since all of these things have started happening i have began to feel scared all the time. the smallest things can set me off. even the smallest of insults can make me nearly cry. a teacher told me that i hadnt done a question right and yelled at me because i had apparently not listened (this teacher is a mean teacher btw shes like that with everyone) and i was very close to tears. what she said didnt bother me that much, it was the idea that she didnt like me becauseof what i did (even though i know its silly to even think that i felt like i was being rejected). i always feel like everybody has somebody that they would rather be with than me, especially my friends, even though i dont know if im just being paranoid or weather they really hate me. im starting to really not want to go to school in the morning and i feel so unconfortable around all my friends. i am actually scared, almost shaking sometimes when my friends make plans to do things without me.im sometimes not sure weather in scared or angry.

im not sure if im just paranoid about my friends they pushed another friend of ours out of the group and then when this friend found out they were being pushed out one of them blamed it on me. i know all the things they do to push someone out of the group, but im now scared they are doing it to me.

does it sound like i have some kind of anxiety disorder, do i have a fear of rejection, or am i just being paranoid about everything?

over the past few weeks my two best friends have been alot more friendly with eachother and alot less friendly towards me. this is because about a month ago they both realised that they liked the same band (a band dont like) and because the band was doing a gig on one of their birthdays they went together for her birthday. since that night they have gotten alot closer to each other and have started to push me out a little. they have been meeting up alot in the evenings to dicuss the band that they like, and not inviting me. i would mind if this was only every so often but its 6 nights of 7 that they usually do this im starting to feel really left out and every morning after they meet they seem to want to push me out futher and futher away from them.

they also sometimes nasty jelous things. they say things such as:

"i hate uggs. why do you wear them they are so ugly." this is because they didnt get uggs for their birthday but i did.

"i hate hollister so much. its so mainstream. i didnt get a hollister hoodie. nobody needs one they are just cheep ****. why do you wear ****?". this was in response to me buying a hollister hoodie with my christmas money

last time i asked them if they wanted to go to the nearest big city near us to go to the cinema then for lunch. the train is £5 and the cinema is £10 if you include popcorn (£5 if no popcorn) and £5 for lunch at mcdonalds. they havent been that i know of for 3 months. this was their response "omg why do you think we have so much money? we arent all as rich as you. our parents dont have nice jobs like yours. we have no money so we arent going". this is an utter lie that they have no money as at lunch time at school they sometimes have over £20 left for the weekend. although my family has slightly more money than theirs i dont go around bragging about it.

they also have problems with me talking to other friends i have that they are not friends with. they say things like "why are you talking to her? shes such a ***** her and her friends called us fat once". the person that they didnt want me talking to is someone that is a family friend and i have knowen her a long time. im not going stop talking to her because they dont like it.

the reason im paranoid that they are pushing me out is because they did it to another friend of ours (for similar reasons that they seem to be jelous of me for). and then when this friend found out they were being pushed out one of them blamed it on me and has since went out her way to insure me and the person they pushed out dont become friends again. she has been saying to the person that i have said nasty things about them and that the persons said nasty things about me. one of the things that she made up was so bad that i felt i had to go and confront the person about saying it and when i did i found out that they hadnt been saying it and the friend who i thinks pushing me out has been making it all up, and has been stiring to make the situation worse. i am now friendly again with the pushed out friend and the stirring one is not happy about it. i know all the things they do to push someone out, but now they are doing the same to me.

do you think they are pushing me out?

over the past few weeks my two best friends have been alot more friendly with eachother and alot less friendly towards me. this is because about a month ago they both realised that they liked the same band (a band dont like) and because the band was doing a gig on one of their birthdays they went together for her birthday. since that night they have gotten alot closer to each other and have started to push me out a little. they have been meeting up alot in the evenings to dicuss the band that they like, and not inviting me. i would mind if this was only every so often but its 6 nights of 7 that they usually do this im starting to feel really left out and every morning after they meet they seem to want to push me out futher and futher away from them.

they also sometimes nasty jelous things. they say things such as:

"i hate uggs. why do you wear them they are so ugly." this is because they didnt get uggs for their birthday but i did.

"i hate hollister so much. its so mainstream. i didnt get a hollister hoodie. nobody needs one they are just cheep ****. why do you wear ****?". this was in response to me buying a hollister hoodie with my christmas money

last time i asked them if they wanted to go to the nearest big city near us to go to the cinema then for lunch. the train is £5 and the cinema is £10 if you include popcorn (£5 if no popcorn) and £5 for lunch at mcdonalds. they havent been that i know of for 3 months. this was their response "omg why do you think we have so much money? we arent all as rich as you. our parents dont have nice jobs like yours. we have no money so we arent going". this is an utter lie that they have no money as at lunch time at school they sometimes have over £20 left for the weekend. although my family has slightly more money than theirs i dont go around bragging about it.

they also have problems with me talking to other friends i have that they are not friends with. they say things like "why are you talking to her? shes such a ***** her and her friends called us fat once". the person that they didnt want me talking to is someone that is a family friend and i have knowen her a long time. im not going stop talking to her because they dont like it.

the reason im paranoid that they are pushing me out is because they did it to another friend of ours (for similar reasons that they seem to be jelous of me for). and then when this friend found out they were being pushed out one of them blamed it on me and has since went out her way to insure me and the person they pushed out dont become friends again. she has been saying to the person that i have said nasty things about them and that the persons said nasty things about me. one of the things that she made up was so bad that i felt i had to go and confront the person about saying it and when i did i found out that they hadnt been saying it and the friend who i thinks pushing me out has been making it all up, and has been stiring to make the situation worse. i am now friendly again with the pushed out friend and the stirring one is not happy about it. i know all the things they do to push someone out, but now they are doing the same to me.

do you think they are pushing me out?

i cant remember the last time i had a real personality. between the ages of 7 and 11 i was bullied so any personality i may have had was totally diminished by that. since i have gone to high school i have had friends however i have only got them by acting exactly like everyone else around me so that i could avoid being bullied. i dont have any kind of personality thats just my own. i dont have any individual tastes in music or clothes or anything like that because ive spent my life trying to be exactly like everyone else. how do i find my own personality?

okay so i have never kissed anyone before. although i have been told how to kiss someone i dont know how to not have my teeth get in the way. you see my teeth are quite big, not massive but they only just fit in my mouth however they dont buck outwards. im kinda scared of either

1) bashing into my boyfriends teeth or

2) biting him

how do i not do these things?

hey so ive gone out with this guy for a few days and i kind have an idea that we will kiss soon.but the problem is i dont actually know how to kiss, or what to do when you get kissed? you see ive never been kissed before (im 14).

so i ask:

1)how do you know when a guys going to kiss you?

2)what to do when someone kisses you?

3)how do you kiss someone?

hey so ive gone out with this guy for a few days and i kind have an idea that we will kiss soon.but the problem is i dont actually know how to kiss, or what to do when you get kissed? you see ive never been kissed before (im 14).

so i ask:

1)how do you know when a guys going to kiss you?

2)what to do when someone kisses you?

3)how do you kiss someone?

hey so ive gone out with this guy for a few days and i kind have an idea that we will kiss soon.but the problem is i dont actually know how to kiss, or what to do when you get kissed? you see ive never been kissed before (im 14).

so i ask:

1)how do you know when a guys going to kiss you?

2)what to do when someone kisses you?

3)how do you kiss someone?

hey so ive gone out with this guy for a few days and i kind have an idea that we will kiss soon.but the problem is i dont actually know how to kiss, or what to do when you get kissed? you see ive never been kissed before (im 14).

so i ask:

1)how do you know when a guys going to kiss you?

2)what to do when someone kisses you?

3)how do you kiss someone?

okay so i have gone out with this guy for a few days (since saturday) and all of my friends bar one have been really happy about it. shes had a really negative attitude towards the idea and im ont entirley sure why.she is really awkward when i talk to him, or my friends talk to him. il give you an examlpe of her being awkward and negative:

so today at break time (we are in high school and we are 14/15) me her and our other three mates were in the crush hall (thats like a area to stand in at break) when my boyfriend and a few of his friends came over to chat. all of my other friends were keen to chat to his friends, and the ones that didnt chat were at least polite enough to smile and speak when spoken to. however this particular friend ignored anyone who spoke to her and sat on her phone posting tweets that said things like:

when your friend gets a boyfriend and ignores you

when you feel awkward

when you dislike your friends boyfriend

when you feel left out.

now its not like i didnt try to include her in conversation and i did talk to her. i definatly didnt ignore her. and to make things worse she spent all of lunchtime trying to convince me not to like him (and at one point even trying to convince me he was gay!). my other friends noticed her being negative and awkward as well and are think about speaking to her about it, however i feel that this wil just make it worse.

i think she may either be jelous or feel left out as my other friends have boyfriends or have had boyfriends in the past but she is yet to have a boyfriend at all.

should i talk to her about it or wait for her to get over it?