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I have been dating this guy, who I know i am not in love with but we have a lot of passion. We decided to go on a trip together 2 months ago, but i made clear I am not his girlfriend. The trip is hiking/backpacking for a week in the mountains. The thing is i know he's in love with me, but i have been very honest and clear about not being in love with him. Yesterday I told him No i can't go because i'm not in love with him, but now i am feeling i should just go and enjoy the friendship for what it is. Plus I already booked the tickets and took time off of work. Today he told me he still wants me to go and just have fun, and that as long as we remain honest with eachother it'll be fine. Should i go???? Or will that just cause him more hurt or be leading him on?

I met this amazingly hot guy at a club this past Sat night. We hit it off, We shared this amazing couple of kisses and danced all evening together. Then he asked for my phone number before i left to go home. He seemed really into me, and I was certainly into him!!!

But now its Wed and he hasn't called yet. I know i gave him the correct phone # because i put it into his phone myself. The only thing I can think is he's a player and never wanted to call, but asked for my # as a courtesy. I'm trying to tell myself to not care but I really liked this guy and want to get to know him. The problem is I don't have his # so the ball is in his court. Is he a player? Or maybe he's got a gf? What gives?

I met this amazingly hot guy at a club this past Sat night. We hit it off, We shared this amazing couple of kisses and danced all evening together . Then he asked for my phone number before i left to go home. He seemed really into me, and I was certainly into him!!!

But now its Wed and he hasn't called yet. I know i gave him the correct phone # because i put it into his phone myself. The only thing I can think is he's a player and never wanted to call, but asked for my # as a courtesy. I'm trying to tell myself to not care but I really liked this guy and want to get to know him. The problem is I don't have his # so the ball is in his court. Is he a player? Or maybe he's got a gf? What gives?

I broke up with my bf of 5 years about 5.5 months ago & now have a new bf who lives with me. I still miss my ex a lot & feel like i'm grieving his death, though i'm the 1 who broke up with him. lately i'm thinking & dreaming about him alot & know I still love him, but am in relationship with the new guy & he loves me alot. I hurt my ex by breaking with him, & know we can never get back together due to my stupidity & indeciveness. I like/love the new bf too, but that spark of deep love isn't there. i tried listening to my heart, rereading my journal to remember why i broke up with the ex, but still feel like i did the most stupid thing i could've ever done with my life by losing my ex. now there is no going back, only forward but i'm having a hard time moving on. when i go for days without thinking about my ex i'm ok, but then something will happen & i can't get him out of my head for days. i think its just nostalgia & wanting those feelings back again, but i can't shake it

I'm dating & living w/my boyfriend for 4 months. We used to be really happy & stress free. Now we're on eachother's nerves 24-7. He asked work to relocate him 1 hr drive away so we'd fight less, but its not really working. He loves me a LOT, but i don't love him as much (maybe never will). I think i love him, but i feel like i'm walking on eggshells all the time. anything i do is cause 4 him 2 get upset & viceversa - like moving too slow 2 get something or breaking a glass, dropping something. We're fighting a lot but then talk about it & then everything's ok until the next problem. I'm going crazy. He keeps telling me how I add to his stress - when he says this i feel like leaving him - except he lives with me. then we keep almost breaking up but we cant go thru with it, my brain goes up & down everyday - stay, leave, stay , leave, & i cant stand it. something has to be done. i am treating him bad because i get mad @ him, which is wrong. its like i want him to leave me. what to do?

When I first started dating my boyfriend, he smoked. He decided to quit two weeks later, and didn't smoke for a few months. Then he moved in and quit his job and took 2 weeks to find another one. He started to get really stressed out and would sneak around behind my back to smoke (but I could always tell b/c I could smell it on his breath). Now, two months later, it is ruining our relationship. He knows I hate it, and don't like to kiss him when he smokes, but he can't keep from buying cigs when he gets "stressed out". I tell him stress will always be there and he says "i'm punishing myself i hate smoking". Yet, he still goes out and buys cigs. Every coulple days he'll try quitting and want me to be all supportive, but then gets stressed out, says that I am adding to his stress level and smokes anyways. Its pissing me off but i can't really say anything cause he doesn't do it around me.What to do?

I have researched other people's questions and answers on this topic, and know how horrible of a person I may be. But I really want to know what to believe. My boyfriend is living with me for about 4 months now. His wife (5 yrs) and baby son (1yr) are overseas, and while is son is a citizen, his wife is alien. The only way he can see his son (his own paperwork for citizenship is pending) is to bring her here. He says there's nothing romantic between them anymore, just that they have a son together. He wants to divorce her and marry me, but he can't do this until she gets to the country. I know this is TERRIBLY awful to her, but I love my boyfriend. I feel guilty that I am maybe wrecking that home, but he says it was over anyhow and whether or not I am with him he will divorce her. I do believe him, but at the same time, all these red flags are hitting me in the face. Plus I have loaned him a lot of money and am waiting for him to pay me back. I want to trust him but should i?

One time a month ago, i forgot to turn my phone on normal after work. my boyfriend got really pissed about it, freaked out, and had called my like 10 times. Later, I explained it was an accident, and said i wouldn't do it again. Now, today, the same thing happened, NOT on purpose, purely an accident. I didn't mean to do it at all. My bf called me 10 times from 5:50-6pm, and I heard the vibrate on the 10th ring, as i walked into the room where i left my phone. I picked up on the 10th call and he hung up on me. now he won't answer my calls, text messages or e-mails. He is on a business trip and won't answer the hotel room phone either. What the heck am I supposed to do (besides waiting for him to call me back)

I started dating my bf 4 months ago and now he lives with me. my parents met him a while ago and my dad refused to talk to him. my mom acted all nice, but then said bad things about him behind his back, like how I would end up paying for his baby son's food and clothes , how he probably has a woman in every country he's ever been to, etc and was I with him as an assignment for the government? (as if i would whore myself out for a job (um. a job that i don't have!!! or want!). Recently we asked them for a favor that would save us $1500/year and they said no (basically because they didn't want to be associated with a Muslim) We are in love and we want to get married in a couple years, but they are pretty much refusing to accept him, like they only invite ME to visit etc. I don't want to believe that they are being racist or stereotyping him because he' s Muslim, but their actions are speaking really loudly. I don't want to choose between them or him, what to do?

I broke up with my ex 3 months ago and I occasionaly still think about him. I have a new boyfriend, who is really awesome and wonderful, and he lives with me. We get a long great when we are getting along, but when we fight its awful. I feel like its the end of the world. he loves me more than i love him. i feel like I love him, but at the same time like i have no love left to give. I occasionally get caught up thinking about my ex, we were together 5 years... and get very depressed. I hurt my ex a lot and was not there for him when he needed me. how to move on? how to know if this new guy is right for me? how to get over my ex completely?

I broke up with my ex 3 months ago and I occasionaly still think about him. I have a new boyfriend, who is really awesome and wonderful, and he lives with me. We get a long great when we are getting along, but when we fight its awful. I feel like its the end of the world. he loves me more than i love him. i feel like I love him, but at the same time like i have no love left to give. I occasionally get caught up thinking about my ex, we were together 5 years... and get very depressed. I hurt my ex a lot and was not there for him when he needed me. how to move on? how to know if this new guy is right for me? how to get over my ex completely?

I am dating a great guy, who seems to love me really, soooo much. We have a lot in common and really have a great time together, when we are happy. But we fight and argue a lot. We are trying to work things out but when we fight I feel like its the end of the world! He constantly says he loves me more and this makes me uncomfortable. If he loves me as much as he said he does, which I have told him, is MORE than I will ever love him, do you think there is a future in this relationship?