Bruce Tzu

I was able to read her email. She has a second boyfriend plus guys she dates. I pay the apartment and have done the best I can to support her and her two kids. Part of me wants to strike back and email everyone of her boyfriends. Some of them are snakes and know she has a boyfriend while others do not. Should I just walk away or should I email these guys? Part of me wishes I could reconcile because she is so beautiful and fun. I don't even think I would try it though. What would you do ?

I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years and we are not connected on facebook. Also I don't think sh has any pictures of me on her facebook. Is this normal?

My Girlfriend has an online dating account. We were having a rough time several months ago after two years together. We almost seperated and she set it up at that time. I saw a couple weeks ago that it showed her as online. She says that she is not even a subscriber she was just checking to delete her account. Last I checked the account was still there. So given that she had an account set up without me knowing, am I justified at ask her to log on and read what is inside her account. If she is using it she will have emails and other signs etc. If I ask her I would expect her to sign in right away and let me review. Isn't that justified since she was using the site even if it was just a profile and not a subscriber as she states. Then if she refuses to show me what would I do? I am 90% certain she was communicating with people, I just want evidence.

I am dating this woman from Germany. Apparent in her past she was a swinger and would go to swing clubs with her ex boyfriend. Is that something that is very common in Europe? It does not seem to me to be healthy. But may be Europeans it is normal?

My grilfriend who is from Germany has a male friend in Germany. I read her text. He calls her Lieb (dear). She also ends conversations with Kussen (kisses). Also recently she text him "will you be my valentine" with nothing else. The other conversation is normal stuff. Is this normal German behaviour for women?

My girlfriend who I live with sent an email to her ex- boyfriend stating “will you be my valentine?”. She remains in contact with her ex because he helped raise her two kids. She was with him for 14 years. I pay for her phone and check it without her knowing. She is from Europe and I don’t know if it is a European thing? May be this is some type of activity would be fine for Europeans? She talks to her ex boyfriend sometimes on the phone when I am not around. She also texts him from time to time. The texts that I have seen are not romantic in nature. She tells me how much she loves me so this is very confusing. In addition there was a guy she briefly dated who texted her three times on valentines day and called her three times for less than 12 minutes in total. I have been with this woman for 6 months and was thinking she was worth marrying now I have to decide whether to run.

My girlfriend is a Gemini with Cusp Cancer, June 20th and I am Cancer also Cusp born June 23. We were also both born in same year (Rooster). I am very attracted to her and we hit it off like Magic. The romance is fantastic. We spend all the time together that we can. I am just wondering what the stars would say. My ex-wife was an Aries and I never believed in astrology until I read about her compatability with me after the marriage ended.

My girlfriend although a Gemini has very strong Cancer traits as she is extremely devoted to her adult kids. Obviously I am not going to stop dating her if our signs don't match but I am just curious.

I have only been dating my girlfriend for about a month and a half. Having been in one long term marriage in the past (14 years), I believe I know what I am looking for and NOT looking for. Well I found a woman in which I am head over heels over. I believe she is the one for me. So I am putting together list of what we have to go through before I ask her to marry me. Holidays, Vacations, Meeting Friends, Meeting Family, Going to Church, Learning their personality. Spending time with my kids and her kids (grown) obviously is huge. So what are the most important considerations prior to engagment?

I really don't believe in strict timelines. I found my last marriage, we dated for 2 years prior to marriage and then she changed significantly over time. In the end there is always going to be some risk so extending the dating period to me is just fooling yourself into thinking you will have control. If some guy 6'5 comes around and tries to seduce your wife, how long you were engaged is not going to matter if she decides to go run off and live with him. Really I don't see waiting any longer than 12 months to be engaged and possibly in as little as 3 months if everything moves very smoothly.

I find it very strange how astrology really seems to have my personality type very accurate. I am a cancer and even the breakdown for date within cancer fits my peronality. My ex wife was an Aries and her personality really matched that description as well. The mariage was a disaster and that is what Astrology would have said. She was also a disaster on my chinese horoscope. So how does this stuff actually work? I mean the stars impact your personality? I never believed in it until I started to read and compare personalities to people I know. What are the best books on astrology?

My wife has been in an affair and she was caught then admitted it. She recently upgraded her iphone. She left her old phone out. Can I use this to download her text messages, even if I don't have a password? There is much more going on then she has admitted to so I am hoping I can retrieve this information off the cell. Is this possible? If so how? Again I don't have her password. Any help is greatly appreciated as this is a difficult time.

I took statistics and probability in my undergraduate work and enjoyed it. Would an online degree (Masters) from Penn St. be competitive enough to earn part time or full time position at a junior college?

Also I have a masters degree in Finance. How good would my consulting opportunities be?

Just curious if anyone has experience coaching flag football for young kids (10-11) and if you think a wishbone would work? I have probably 5 kids that are good at the RB position on a team of 11 and I;m think wishbone might be good fit.

We have accumulated alot of medals over time. They just kind of get piled up and put in drawers. Where do you store your medals? Is there such thing as a medal case, if so where do you buy them?

I already sent in my tax return but then recevied in the mail a 1099 which I forgot all about. It was only for $30. Does it really matter? I sure don't want to go through a headache for a few dollars in taxes.

If a kid starts training in BJJ at an early age what rank would they be as a teenager? Assume they move up the children ranks, I believe the Adult ranking starts at 15?

Who are the best ground and pound fighters today? Who are the best all time?

Do you agree that jiujitsu from the guard is losing its luster when going up against skilled GNP fighters. Examples bein GSP vs. Penn, Evans vs. Griffen, Aoki and Jacare being knocked out in Dream. Doesn't it seem that good wrestling and GNP are starting to dominate a good guard?

Oklahoma was giving up more average points (24.5) than any team ever has in BCS title history. I know the offense is stellar but is that enough? Is this going to be a blow out where people are asking why Oklahoma was in the game? It turns out Texas and Texas Tech were not great teams after all.

I would think USC would beat Florida by about 3 and Oklahoma by about 7. Then again we will never know because of this stupid system. There is actually a chance Florida or Oklahoma could even upset USC. How do you see the games going?

Also was the BCS trying to protect the Tebow and Bradford from Taylor Mays, Brian Cushing and Rey Maluaga?

What in the world was the motive for this? What is the story behind this? Just crazy.

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