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When I said no to him, he would tell me I didn't mean it because if i really meant no I wouldn't be so turned on. I would tell him I did mean it and I just wanted to cuddle and sleep and he would get on top of me and tell me I was being silly and that I would love it!

Sometimes he would say 'lets try and see if you still don't want to and if you don't i'll stop' but he wouldn't stop! He would tell me it was too late and there was no point in stopping when we'd already started!

I stopped agreeing to trying when I didn't want to, but he would just get on top of me and take my clothes off and tell me I was lying or being daft!

I don't know why he did this, but this is why I ended the relationship! Am I over exaggerating? Is this normal in relationships? He's the only serious boyfriend i've ever had (i'm 18) but it didn't seem right to me and it made me uncomfortable!!

My partner and I were talking today about baby names which we like (not expecting, was just an out of the blue conversation).

One of the boys names we really agreed on was Theo! OH pointed out he liked Theo Patrick as Patrick is a family name and is also his middle name!

What do you think of this combination? Does Theo Patrick work? Is Theo ok as a stand alone name or does it need to be a nn for Theodore? What are some other middle names which would work?

Thanks!!!

What do you think of these Irish names? Would you keep the original spellings or change them?!

I'm northern English so most people here are used to Irish spellings!

Girls:

Caiomhe (Kee-Vah)

Saoirse (Sear-shah)

Eitna (En-yah)

Boys:

Cian/Kian (Kee-un)

Rowan (Row-un)

Lochlann (Lock-lun)

Kiernan (Keer-nan)

Honest opinions are welcome!

Thanks

Child 1- Girl:

FN- Must start with a vowel

MN- A boys name which works for girls

Child 2- Boy:

FN- Toby, Thomas, Tyler, Tristan, Theodore or Troye

MN- Must begin with J

Child 3- Girl:

FN- Flower/nature name

MN- Must begin with P, S, J or M

Child 4- Boy:

FN- A place name

MN- Elias, Jacob, Caleb, Robin, Freddie or Harley

Child 5- Girl:

FN- Sandie, Aurora, Elizabeth, Olive, Charlotte or May

MN- Must be a colour (can be spelt differently)

Child 6- Boy:

FN- Must be a guilty pleasure name

MN- A name of a family member

Enjoy! :)

Mine:

Child 1- Elia Dylan

Child 2- Toby Jacob

Child 3- Azalea Sophia

Child 4- Dallas Caleb

Child 5- Aurora Silvah

Child 6- Teddy George

I've been with my boyfriend for 6 month now, and everyday I am reminded why I love him! He treats me like a queen, he gets on great with my family/most of my friends, we're into similar things, and he has a heart of gold!

However, over the past few months ive realised he's VERY racist. He often makes racist remarks and has started fights with people from other races before too! I absolutely hate this behaviour and find racism disgusting, but when i've pointed it out and voiced my disappointment he just claims he 'cant help it'.

I realise it was the way he was brought up but to me that excuse isnt good enough!

What should i do? How can i make him realise how wrong his behaviour is? I love him so much but his racism is turning our relationship sour!

HELP please!!!

I have been asked by a guy I like to go on a date, but now it is getting near I feel all sick and panicky! I'm worried that he's going to find me weird, or we'll run out of conversation or something!

Ive never been great with the dating thing! Infact a lot of times in the past i've cancelled dates very last minute, not because I don't like the guy, but just because i'm so nervous and it makes me feel sick!!! I've ruined so many chances by doing this, but I just don't know what else to do as I always feel too afraid to actually go on the date!

Is this anxiety? What can I do to help it/stop it? Its ruining my life :(

Child 1 - Girl:

FN- Ellia, Imogen, Delilah, Penelope or Sophia

MN- Rose, Rosalie, Dahlia, Olivia or Esmé

Child 2- Boy:

FN- Dylan, Henry, Nathaniel, Zachary or Luther

MN- Joseph, Joshua, Luca, Rowan or Oscar

Child 3+4 - B/B:

FN- Both start with T

MN- Both one syllable names

Child 5- Girl:

FN- Either a season or month name

MN- Ends in A, Y or E

Child 6 - Boy:

FN- Guilty pleasure name

MN- Must begin with K, L or D

Child 7- Girl:

FN - Guilty pleasure name

MN- Must start with T, S or I

Child 8- You choose the gender:

FN - A fictional name from a book or movie

MN- Colour name (can be spelt differently)

Mine:

Ellia Rose

Zachary Oscar

Toby Jake and Thomas Jaxx

Winter Esmé

Teddy Kian

Aurora Imogen

Finnick Blue (from Hunger Games)

'Ellia, Zach, Tobes, Thomas, Winter, Teddy, Rorie and Finn'

Toby Jake and Elia Rose

BQ- Can you think of any middle names similar to Jake and Rose which sound good with the first names?

BQ2- How do you automatically pronounce Elia at first glance?

Thanks!

Toby Jake and Elia Rose

BQ- Can you think of any middle names similar to Jake and Rose which sound good with the first names?

BQ2- How do you automatically pronounce Elia at first glance?

Thanks!

Girls:

Aaliyah Rose

Imogen Sophia

Harlow Esmé

Esmé Aurora

Silver Paisley

Isabella Thea

Boys:

Caleb Jasper

Zachary Jacob

Harrison Isaac

Ashton Henry

Tobias Oscar

Logan Theodore

From when I was born to being about 7/8 years old, my Mam would sing a lullaby to me. When I was very young, she sang it every night to make me sleep, and as I got older it was a comfort song for when I was sad or ill.

This was:

Hush little baby, dont say a word,

Mammys gonna but you a mockingbird,

And if that mockingbird wont sing,

Mammys gonna buy you a diamond ring,

And if that diamond ring turns to brass,

Mammys gonna buy you a looking glass,

And if that looking glass gets broke,

Mammys gonna buy you a billy goat,

And if that billy goat runs away,

Mammys gonna buy you another day!

I wrote the lyrics out as I was wondering if people knew different versions of the same song, or if they'd had any other lullabies in their childhood that they now sing to their children!

(Just a question out of a interest really)

From when I was born to being about 7/8 years old, my Mam would sing a lullaby to me. When I was very young, she sang it every night to make me sleep, and as I got older it was a comfort song for when I was sad or ill.

This was:

Hush little baby, dont say a word,

Mammys gonna but you a mockingbird,

And if that mockingbird wont sing,

Mammys gonna buy you a diamond ring,

And if that diamond ring turns to brass,

Mammys gonna buy you a looking glass,

And if that looking glass gets broke,

Mammys gonna buy you a billy goat,

And if that billy goat runs away,

Mammys gonna buy you another day!

I wrote the lyrics out as I was wondering if people knew different versions of the same song, or if they'd had any other lullabies in their childhood that they now sing to their children!

(Just a question out of a interest really)

Me and my boyfriend adore the name Aaliyah, which is pronounced Ah-Lee-ah, and NOT Ah-Lie-Ah like some people think. I personally love the spelling, because it is traditional! However, we have considered different spellings due to peoples opinions on the original spelling.

We have came up with the following:

Aliyah

Aleah

Aaliya

Aliea

Aleia

Aleya

Aleeah

Ahliya

Alaea

I just wanted opinions of which people thought was the best spelling! I don't really mind if you like the name or not because at the end of the day, you don't have to name your own child with it!

I just want to know if you think the traditional Aaliyah is better, or if you prefer one of the others!

ALSO, feel free to add any other spellings you know of!

Thanks

Me and my boyfriend wanted to come up with a name that was unique to us without it sounding too weird or made up. My name is Sarah, and although I can't state his name on here, the name we have come up with is a mix of some of the letters from our names.

So, what do you think of the boys name:

Dasher

We were thinking of Dasher Jamie or Dasher Jackson so we could nickname him DJ. We also like Dash or Ash as nicknames!

BTW, we aren't expecting, just forward thinking haha!

Thanks

Could you please suggest me some middle name suggestions for the girls name:

Aaliyah

And the boys name:

Zachary

I have Aaliyah Rose and Zachary Jacob on my list, but I feel Rose is maybe a bit too much of a filler name, and i'm not sure that Zachary Jacob has a good flow!

Thanks!

BQ- What would you rate these two names?

Is it Cay-Leb, Cay-Lub, Cah-Leb or Cah-Lub?

I would usually say Cay-Lub but i've had a few people disagree with me!

Some are just alternate spellings of names, some are completely different names! Please try and choose one instead of saying neither, but feel free to state if you dislike both (but still pick the better one). Thanks!

Girls:

Aaliyah Rose or Aleah Rose

Imogen Sia or Imogen Mila

Ariana Jaida or Aaliyah Rose

Isabella Cleö or Safiya Mae

Harlow Sophia or Harlow Olivia

Boys:

Zachary Jaiden or Zachary Jacob

Thomas Jaiden or Zachary Jaiden

Isaac Harrison or Harrison Isaac

Theodore Ezra or Theo Ezra

Harley Jace or Harley Caleb

:)

Ive been with my current boyfriend a year and a half now...

But my ex has just got a girlfriend, and for some reason, I feel really jealous! I know i shouldn't cause i moved on from him a long time ago!

Why am I getting these feelings? Its not that I want to be back with him because I love my boyfriend, and ive happily moved on, but I just dont like the idea that he has too!!

Is this really selfish? I want to be happy for him but I just cant find it in me!

I've been with my boyfriend around a year and 5 month, and we've always been super close! He has an amazing personality and for the first year we never argued!

However, around 6 month ago, he started to gain weight quite rapidly! As much as I love his personality, I just don't find him attractive anymore! Hes still an amazing person, but I don't feel that much needed physical attraction at the moment!

I've tried to bring it up numerous amounts of times in the nicest way possible, but he just takes immediate offence!

Last week it got to the point where I told him I would leave him if he didnt try to lose the weight, and he got really sensitive and upset and begged me not too. When i asked if that ment he was going to lose weight, he said 'why cant you just let me be me?'.

Is he right? Am i being too harsh? Should I forget about his looks and focus on our relationship as a whole? I really dont know what to do!

Could you please choose one from each group to make the sibset which sounds best:

Group 1-

Aaliyah Rose (Ah-lee-uh)

Ariana Jaide

Cleo Rosalie

Ella Mae

Group 2-

Thomas Jayden

Zachary Jacob

Harrison Oscar

Maxwell Louis

Group 3-

Hayden George

Roman Theodore

Ashton Kai

Jasper Caden

Group 4 -

Imogen Sophia

Esme Olivia

Isabella Mae

Harlow Elodie

Thanks :)