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My man graduates from basics on June 30 (Army). I've heard several different things about the time period of graduation, which includes a family day, several hours allowed to be off base after graduation, and I've also heard that non-family members are not allowed on base. If the family day exists, does it occur the day before graduation? I would rather not impede on his parents short time that they'll get to spend with him...so I'm hoping there is a family day and then after graduation several hours of off base time. Also is it at all possible for him to make a request for a pass to be sent to me so I can attend his graduation? If anyone knows about the AIT training/what time will be allowed off in that I'd be more than happy to be informed about it as well! Maybe I could just fly to see him on a weekend when he's in AIT training...idk. Accurate info would be nice! Thank you :)

right so im looking for something that i havnt been to thats actually worth going to! anyone know of any awesome haunted houses in austin or san antonio? does that one place that you supposedly have to sign something saying that theyre not responsible if you get hurt and if you make it to the end you get your money back exist?

I would like some songs to perform for some people for Christmas and need to start practicing early...I like complicated and beautiful songs...I dont necessarily like that choppy crap. Anyone know any really nice ones??? :) thanks

supposedly from what I've heard about it, it is multiple stories high and if you make it to the top you get your money back...i heard it was some rich guys house and he turned it into a giant haunted house deal. I've also heard that you have to sign a contract saying if you get hurt its not their problem or something along the lines of that. What is that place called??? or where is it located in Austin?

i am in desperate need of help on writing a ballad and absolutely cannot figure out how i should write it and cannot write it properly...can someone write one for me please??

i think we will all die because of our own stupidity. nuclear war is a possibility too.

im indecisive.

im gonna be pissed if i get one of them and i never have service.

whoever gets the closest to what id choose will get best answer

1. Metallica or Nirvana

2. become a cross-dressing whore permanently or have a sex change

3. death by fire or death by drowning

4. get slapped by a dead rat or eat a mossy stick

5. Garfield or Snoopy

6. have an encounter with Hannibal Lector or the Joker

7. die rich and unloved or die poor as f*ck and loved greatly

8. go on a crazy killing spree singing a disney song or die by torture

9. lose your eyes and ears or lose your arms and legs

10. get raped by a hobo or a disgustingly obese person

okay im done!

im about to leave somewhere with my boyfriend, which is i guess considered running away although my parents already know/figure that im going to and i already talked to them about it and told them im leaving...im 17 which i understand doesnt mean much or anything. i think i might be able to get away with it but if i run away and adventually come back, then what? can i get arrested when i get back home? also if we are caught then how long might my bf, who is now 18, be put in jail? because i know that its called assisting a run away or whatever or maybe it could even be considered something else? because im a "missing person." i hate these stupid *** laws. also theres even more complications...my bf is on parrol or patrol or whatever the hell its called...i already have a descent escape plan and all so yeaaa...any advice on what i could do to avoid being arrested...because im pretty sure im going through with it no matter who tries to convince me otherwise.

ive been with him for two years and i really love him and it seems like he really really loves me too...dont give me that bull **** response of just break up with him okay. im sick of hearing that. i would for once like someone to actually help without autimatically saying break up with him. my sister and her friend just told me today that one of my bf's friends brought up that my bf is cheating on me and he knows hes cheating on me....they dont know how he knows or if he saw for himself or anything like that and i would like to question him about it but i need to make sure i dont make it seem like my sis said anything about it because he didnt want them to tell me...my sis also said that if i went and questioned my bf's friend that he wouldnt tell me anything....im thinking about trying anyways?? and if his friend does give me information then i have to confront my bf because it would be driving me absolutely insane and he would be going psycho demanding to know whos telling me that sh*it...thats what he does. so i need a way to some how get my bf's friend to tell me stuff and i need to also get my bf to admit it...any suggestions?? also there have been times in the past when people thought that he had cheated on me but most of the information originated from stupid bitc*hes that were trying to get us to break up so i have no idea how i can possibly know for sure...and of course hes not going to admit it. i dont get to see him much anymore either because something happened at school and we were both supposed to go to a-school which i did but he wasnt able to so he had to drop out and my parents are trying everything they possibly can to keep us apart...they even installed a freaken 2,000 dollar or more alarm system. so yea i basically never see him and i barely get to talk to him but he says the sweetest things with such sincerity like he always has...and i dont know what to believe...has anyone ever been with anyone for a really long time and been cheated on? how did you know? how did you find out? what did he act like? WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!!!!!!!!!!!? ive been told that since these rumors keep coming up that at least one of them is probably true and the fact that he gets really pissed off sometimes when i question him about cheating is probably because he feels guilty or something...also he is always freaking out and saying "only me?" you swear only me?? how do i know your not cheating on me? bla bla bla BLAAAA. theres no telling what the hell hes done....his family is poor and nobody gives a flying fu*ck what he does. i need someone with experience to help me because i cant just give him up because what if he really never has cheated?...then i would be giving up the love of my life...

i was just wondering...and NO im not trying to get pregnant. random thought/question...yup.

going to attempt to do a few of those on my ears by myself and im not sure if i could stab something that could mess my ear up...? any tips on how to do any of those piercings?

when i add songs to my profile using myspace music it never plays when i go to my profile...how the hell do i get it to automatically play when people go to my profile? is there another web site that you can get free playlists for myspace that is actually allowed to be put on the profile...i used to be able to go to playlist.com and put that on there but myspace made it so that you cant put anything from that website on my page...

Im a minor and im wanting to know the consequences of running away....what exactly could happen if i took off? of course cops could probably get involved but what happens? also how does the whole emancipation thing work? i hear you have to have a job? do you still have absolutely no rights when your 17 as well?...do you have to be 18 for everyone to leave you the F*CK alone or does 17 make anything okay?

Okay, i know this is really long, but please just give it a chance and read it...I feel just a bit odd asking someone or something that i dont know this, but I've been with this guy for a year and 8 months and you see, you have to understand first off that it was absolutely perfect for the first year...and once it got maybe a week past the one year mark things started going down hill, such as i found out that he was still doing drugs after i had asked him not to do any anymore and he promised and swore and everything else to my face that he wasnt going to (yes i know im freaken oblivious)...and then this stupid ***** moved to where we are and i found out that she was majorly flirting with him and crap, but supposedly no cheating happened, and then there was a graduation party that his cousin had and of course, considering the fact that i have parents that will not let me do ANYTHING, i wasnt there, well anyways, i find out that he got really drunk there and crap, and one morning i get this call from my friend that wasnt there but anyways, she tells me that he cheated on me with his X-girlfriend and had sex with her when he was drunk and crap (SUPPOSSEDLY!!) well i ask him about that and he denies it hard core, of course, and i talk to the source that told my friend that called me, who happens to be my boyfriends X-girlfriends sister and she said that her sister had told her herself, saying that it was true that they did have sex at that party and that she did notice them leave once, but then she goes and says she did not witness anything and all the stuff shes saying was told to her by her sister (my boyfriends stupid ***** X)

...you see, that girl, my boyfriends X, is a compulsive lieing *****, and all of the information i was getting was all originated from her, so how can i believe it? how the heck am i supposed to know?! it drove me crazy and it still does to this day (that was several months ago)...yup since there seemed to be no witnesses and everything originated from that stupid whore, im still to this day unsure on wether he cheated or not...and the reason i dont just beleive my boyfriend is because one time he went to church where i was so we could be together, and i noticed that his eyes were really bloodshot, so i questioned him and he denied it straight to my face. FOR 30 FREAKEN MINUTES, he lied straight to my face, with the most sincere eyes and facial expressions, telling me things such as i swear on your life that i didnt do any drugs and so on and so on....i cant believe that crap...well anyways he addmitted it to me after that thrity minutes, literally no joke it was thirty minutes of me knowing he did drugs and him lieing to my face. yup so thats one reason why i dont believe him anymore...hes done **** like that other times too, which obviously makes it worse. Alright, right now as in as i write this, hes going to a new years party to some persons house he doesnt even know, with some of his family, including his parents, who could care less what the hell he does, no joke. honestly his parents incourage him to do stuff...yup well now im sitting here freaken stressed as hell because theres no telling what the F is going to be going on over there and it drives me flippin insane because i know he'll just lie about it if he does do something, either that or i can interigate him for over an hour untill i finally get something out of him, hes an expert liar. Why do i put up with this? i dont F'ing know. i swear im the most forgiving push over you would ever come across in your life....ive dealt with so much stuff its insane, no one has any idea, ...i really love him though, and there are still a bunch of great moments in our relationship...im trapped....hes like a drug, though honest to god ive never done anything before, i know its bad for me, i can try to break away, but it just seems impossible, even though it hurts me staying with him , i feel trapped...and i love him...but i just thought id ask someones opinion on what you think about the situation and how likely it is you think he will cheat on me or lie about drinking and drug use....i dont know theres so much more i could write to help everyone understand more but im sure nobodys going to read this anyways because of how long it is now...