Deanna Newman

I am a sexual abuse victim, I attend therapy every month. But feel like my family hates me, I don't get along with my brothers, i'm forced to live in a room where i was abused and no one seems to care that I have the same nightmare every night and it doesn't allow me to sleep much, my mom gets mad about everything when it comes to me. I feel as if all my family relationships are ruined, and I cant' seem to even speak to my big brother without him throwing his hate at me, my mom says i am too emotional but i have held all this in for several years. Any advice on what I should/could do?

So I have been in a relationship for a month and i am starting to get used to his friends but they all stare at me, alot, and my friend is dating my boyfriends best friend. (sorry if that's confusing.) But my boyfriend's best friend came onto me last night and said he had feelings for me what should i do?

So i have already asked if mom is fair about letting my brother have the better room and most said no she isn't. The biggest excuse my mom has for not giving me the bedroom is because my brother has already had to give up two bedrooms, once so we could make another bathroom. Then second because my mom had another baby and my mom wanted a room where there weren't any stairs needed to get there. And my older brother lived with us at the time and had the big room. So my twin brother joined him and shared the room so that the new baby could have a room. When my brother was about to move out he tried to convince my parents to let me have the bigger bedroom and to put my twin in the smaller room, mainly because he is really messy and having a bigger room gives him more space for a bigger mess. And he is irresponsible, messy, and doesn't do his chores when told, he's also rude. And i am really tidy and organized but my twin brother (the one with the room) is the complete and total opposite. My mom says the only way i can have the big room is if my brother wants to trade. And he won't trade because he likes being able to know he makes me mad. Can someone please help me figure out how i can get the big room? Ive tried lots of things, going on strike, doing extra work, babysitting my sister for free even if it means canceling my plans, doing more dishes, cooking dinner so my mom can have a break. But nothing seems to work. Please help, I feel I really deserve the room.

My house has 4 bedrooms. My moms room, my room, my sisters room, and my brothers room. Me and my brother are twins. But he is very childish and immature. I wake up every morning and get my little sister and brother up and ready for school. I put them on the bus, help clean, help cook, and so on.My brother has the biggest bedroom in the whole house. I have one of the 2 smallest. I have alot of stuff, or seems like it in this small room. My brother runs away by using the door in his room. He keeps it a complete mess, and he has very little furniture. when i say mess i mean garbage everywhere, dishes with mold and foods that we cant identify. My mom keeps saying if he doesn't clean it she is giving me the big room. And I get my hopes up. And then she cleans his room for him (he is 15) and makes me help. But then breaks my hopes and dreams of getting te room by saying i can't have it. This happens at least once a month. Sometimes more. And she always has excuses on why i can't have it. (The big room) It's hard to make my brother come out of his room in the mornings for school. He doesn't help out around the house, he makes most of the mess. He breaks rules, gets out of chores, and is very rude. Does he deserve the room? IS my mom unfair about the room? Do I deserve it? Or should I just shut up and get over it?

I have a big red swollen zit. That wont pop.i'e tried using tooth paste and ice overnight. But it just made my forhead sore. PLEASE HELP!!!! I also see my crush who likes me but we are not dating yet every day at school. And he just stared at it and everyone is pointing it out.